been there bro. me and my wife were having some serious problems, so i figured one way to attempt some help was to invite a close friend into the bedroom. it was indeed hot, i never touched him and he never touched me. it just wasn't like that for me and him, but it was still hot as fuck to watch my wife have sex with another man. now, i know i am a slight bit smaller than some of her exes and she's been with more than a couple of guys, but our sex life is still good so it doesn't bother me. however, she eventually developed strong feelings for our friend and it almost killed our marriage. he decided to get back with his ex though so i figure it wasn't meant to be. good for me huh? maybe. still ... sorry to hear it went south, best laid plans and all that huh?