wetsuit/speedos & other tight clothes.

Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by emo_boydildo, Jul 26, 2009.

  1. emo_boydildo

    emo_boydildo New Member

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    I recently bought a wetsuit because I freeze whenever during my swim training @ the pool since I'm in for hours. BUT it really looks like I have an boner, even though I'm not aroused or anything... It's co-ed so I'm around girls (even my instructor O_O) and sometimes I think I catch them looking at it and I feel SO embarrassed. I don't want them to think I'm a perv walking around with a hard on. I can't hide it because the wetsuits have to be tight.
    -SO my question is would you try to ignore it? would you be insulted or something else? How do you normally react when you see a bulge at the pool/elsewhere?
    -and guys reading this do you feel embarrassed too?
     
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    i am a guy and i look every chance i get but as for myself i usually wear looser swim wear just in case another pervert might be looking at my package and really you should not feel embarrassed all guys have packages and i would be more embarrassed if i was wearing tight swimwear and there was NO package at all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    I think a clearly outlined penis be it soft or hard in a tight wet suit, speed suit or speedo is one of the nicest sights I can see. I have a nice dick and I enjoy letting it get hard and having others see it hard in appropriate situations. Usually the look on the person's face lets you know he's proud of his cock and enjoying the pleasure others are getting from looking at it. If possible I try to give a nod to show him not only my approval but my understanding of his pleasure. As for worrying about pervs, come on, give me a break. If some perv gets off in a sick way from seeing the outline of my dick (or my hard or soft dick in the flesh) I guess I'm happy I was able to give the poor guy some pleasure and happy he won't have to engage in legally risky behavior in order to see what he needs to see to be sexually fulfilled.
     
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    I say just wear it...its "normal" to be a guy and have a bulge, if you didn't have a bulge I'd be more concerned.

    It shouldn't be a problem, and most people are probably not even paying as much attention to it as you think they are, and honestly as long as your not going to special effort to make/keep it hard, then it should be fine.

    Any real swimmers would understand that the male anatomy shrinks in water and its hard to get a hard on in a cold swimming pool at least not without some very direct stimulation..

    So just wear what you need to wear to work out, and go to the pool for that purpose, enjoy, its your body and you should be allowed to stay in shape just like everyone else no matter what your perceived bulge size...
     
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    I find it to be complimentary whenever someone gazes at my crotch. It is bothersome to believe some are offended by the sight of a penis bulge. Being overtly self-conscious of what others are thinking is a major source of illusion.
     
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    I know that you could feel embarrassed, but if you are a serious swimmer, it's something that shouldn't shock others or be worried about. You know you're not a perv so you have nothing to be ashamed of.
     
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    Which, in my opinion, makes it pointless to worry about. If you need to wear clingy attire for swim training, there's no need to fuss about what others might think.

    I say: let that bulge show and be proud. I get far fewer disapproving stares than I do sly grins and double takes from bulge observers.
     
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    I say just go for it, I spent years of strsss being overly self-conscious of what people "might" be thinking with regard to what swimwear I was wearing, and now I realize how stupid I must have looked going to special effort trying to cover up.

    Things that I use to do:
    1) wear trunks over my speedo, jump in pool, remove trunks, and then reverse it when getting out, all this does is draw more attention.
    2) Wear a drag suit over my speedo, same as above jump in pool remove, all this does is get an extra piece of fabric wet that you have to deal with drying later
    3) Not being myself and wearing what I wanted, at the beach, waterparks, for water polo, etc. the only thing this accomplishes is makes you not have a good time, and spends too much of your day worrying about what other so called "people" might think, when the chances of seeing them again in many cases is slim..

    I agree, if you are trying to be a serious swimmer, then its only normal to wear a speedo, and if its a normal cut speedo instead of like a thong or something, then there is no reason that it should be too much of a "shock" to other people, and as long as your not parading around with a true hard on and going to special effort to be sure everyone sees it then you'll be just fine.

    I agree, just dont worry about it, all swimwear is clingy to a certain extent, there is no way to avoid it, and everyone should already know that guys have dicks so why is it such a shock that guys would have a bulge in their speedo.
     
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