What’s your 10% gay?

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A lot of guys on this site identify as 90% Straight, 10% Gay. If you’re one of those guys, I’m curious. What is your 10% Gay?

For example: Admiring good looking guys. Jacking off with guys. Sucking cock every now and then. MFM threeways. Etc.
 
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An mmf a very long time ago and occasional curiosity.
Very occasionally I find a man attractive but I’m not particularly interested in having gay sex. In the right situation, at the right time, with the right person, there’s a small chance I’d consider it, or would have in the past but I’m getting a bit old for experimenting for the sake of it.
Generally though I get on better with women and feel less comfortable in male company, I don’t really like competitiveness or “banter” (maybe I’ve just been associating with the wrong men!). Ever since I was a kid and joined a group of girls chanting “Boys smell” around the playground because I agreed and wanted to be in their gang.
Maybe 10% is too high. Maybe it’s more that my brain has a big feminine part to it or something rather than a gay part. Who knows?
 

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I know my % breakdown listed isn't what you noted, but it's close enough for me to respond since I think I could easily fall anywhere in the 90/10 to 70/30 group. For me I have no interest in anything intimate with another guy - no hugging/kissing, no heart to heart talks, etc. Other than that area between the hips and the knees, I have no interest in anything deep and intense with another guy. I do love women and enjoy the entire package they bring, but I'm also open minded enough to realize that lots of things can feel good with different people. I've been lucky enough to have had a few bi oral mmf's over the years, and having another guys dick in my mouth - and vice versa - was just not a big deal. It was new and interesting, certainly fun, and something I would definitely do again if the right opportunity came up. Aside from that, though, I'm not looking for any intimacy with another guy. Just my 2 cents.
 

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Weird how feminity is considered gay I’m 100% gay and 100% masculine as fuck I do mma, so lol it’s weird how feminitiy is more so somehow associated with gayness. Why do straight people feel that way.. it’s not at all the case
 

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Why is kissing so out of bounds when sucking cock is not?
For me, kissing and holding hands is all about romance, where as cock is just utilitarian- there to do a job! :)
 

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For me, kissing and holding hands is all about romance, where as cock is just utilitarian- there to do a job! :)

Interesting. Totally get the holding hands part. LOL

But kissing can be very stimulating... a guy who’s a good kisser gets me all hot and bothered... similarly, a bad kisser can be a total boner killer.

I imagine for some guys on the bisexual continuum kissing may be a mental block... because perhaps it’s a step too far over into the wild side. I’m sure it’s different for everyone.
 
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Why is kissing so out of bounds when sucking cock is not?

As usual, it just depends on the individual and what they are in to. For me, I'd never kiss another guy...just not my thing and I'm not down for that. Go down on a guy I wouldn't kiss? Certainly. Get busy in a 69 with that same guy? You bet, especially if his wife or girlfriend is there to watch and help. Kissing of any type? No thank you, not gonna happen. Just a preference, and to each his own.
 
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I have no direct experience with a guy, have done MFM with my wife and another guy. I think about sex with a guy and cock a lot so that’s my reason for the 10%

Were you tempted to interact with the guy in the MFM? Do you think the guy would have been into it? How would your wife have reacted?
 
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Weird how feminity is considered gay I’m 100% gay and 100% masculine as fuck I do mma, so lol it’s weird how feminitiy is more so somehow associated with gayness. Why do straight people feel that way.. it’s not at all the case
Because typically, it is the case. Very very very difficult to find non feminine gay guys. Disagreement with this is ignorance of reality. Sorry.

Case and point, it is EXTREMELY difficult to find non feminine gay guys to mess around with. I have found only one.
 

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Because typically, it is the case. Very very very difficult to find non feminine gay guys. Disagreement with this is ignorance of reality. Sorry.

Case and point, it is EXTREMELY difficult to find non feminine gay guys to mess around with. I have found only one.

What do you care when their big thick cock is pounding your ass from behind? They’re not going to be talking about the sale at Pottery Barn!
 

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What do you care when their big thick cock is pounding your ass from behind? They’re not going to be talking about the sale at Pottery Barn!

A sale at Pottery Barn had nothing to do with masculinity or femininity. Feminine guys, regardless of dick size, are just fake and unattractive. Just my preference.
 

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Were you tempted to interact with the guy in the MFM? Do you think the guy would have been into it? How would your wife have reacted?
A little temptation but honestly, the focus was on my wife, I know he would have been open to some mm side action, we talked about it latter. My wife, I think, would have been very surprised and upset. Through conversations we have had, I know she could not see me in a submissive posture with another guy. I am always dominant with her and it would shatter her image and ideal of me in more facets of our life than just sexual.