When me and my wife have sex I can feel something hitting the head of my penis when I fully insert my penis, its kinda rough. Also I take very long strokes sometimes and it feels like my head goes into a tighter hole when I go deep. What is this? She primarily likes to have sex with her legs down flat on the bed and she puts her feet flat at times. She doesnt allow for much leg over shoulders and doggy. When trying legs over shoulders she stops me before I do it and just tells me no. When doggy she allows me to do this sometimes but I have to have be kneeling. If I lift a leg or try something different she makes me put it back down. Could this be because I'm too long for her? When we first met 6 years ago she told me I was really long but she could handle more thickness. However, I'm not sure what to believe because now she may say "Give me that long d***" during intercourse sometimes but if we aren't having sex she says I think that I'm overly obsessed with my size . I've asked her about it and she gets frustrated talking about it. Take a look at the pics and tell me if I am what is considered long. I just want to say, we have good sex but I'm not sure if she thinks I am big or just saying it.