What Are Gay Guys Attracted To?

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I have yet to engage in a sexual relationship and am not turned on by an anus. I am attracted to armpits (which I only recently learned is not true of everyone in the gay community and is a fetish known as maschalagnia). I remember reading years ago when I first started looking at porn that the armpit is a particularly sensual anatomical site for gay men, something that made attraction to it sound normal or at least more common in gay men. What percent of gay men are attracted to armpits? Am I in a small minority? Is the anus something that gay men are initially not attracted to but become attracted to after becoming more sexually active (in the same way that straight men initially are attracted to breasts and later usually become more attracted to the vagina)? Does anyone know where I can find more information/statistics on this kind of information?
 
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Well, first of all, nobody calls it maschalagnia, so I'd keep that word to yourself unless you're playing Trivial Pursuit. :) Also, referring to it as "anus" is pretty stilted and sounds like you're from another planet studying strange human mating rituals. It's ass, or anal sex. And if you're not into ass, you're not alone. Ironically, I'd say more gay men are into fucking ass or getting fucked in the ass than are into pits. It would be difficult to find numbers or statistics, but that's really irrelevant.

There are quite a lot of guys into pits, and more who are generally into manly/musky smell. I'm not sure I've ever seen a statistic on it, and I'd be pretty surprised if there were any that were reliable. But I can tell you that if you go to the Eagle, you'll meet a reasonable number of guys who will plunge their faces into your pits, or let you do the same to them.

You know what you like and what you don't like. So just make sure you communicate it and see it as a positive thing about yourself and your interests. Go on Fetlife and you'll find hundreds of guys in the LA area who are into pits. If you communicate clearly your interests, and disinterests, you might just find someone who is in a similar position as you and you two can explore together.

And whatever you don't sneer at or otherwise appear to be contemptuous of guys who are into ass... it'll just make you look like, well, an ass. :)
 

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I'm really into hairy armpits, and it kinda started around puberty when I started noticing my friends growing hair everywhere. Something about just a bushy armpit that I just wanna lick and feel. However, I have never found the idea of a sweaty or stinky armpit attractive. It honestly disgusts me, but whatever floats your boat. This also means I normally don't find any armpit porn arousing.
 

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Also, I never really paid much attention to a guys ass until recently. Now I find a really round or muscular butt to be super hot on a man! Something I just grew to appreciate I guess. When you say anus do you mean.....the actual asshole itself or the butt?
 

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I'm really into hairy armpits, and it kinda started around puberty when I started noticing my friends growing hair everywhere. Something about just a bushy armpit that I just wanna lick and feel. However, I have never found the idea of a sweaty or stinky armpit attractive. It honestly disgusts me, but whatever floats your boat. This also means I normally don't find any armpit porn arousing.

Maybe the sight of all that growing bodyhair aroused your interest as it struck you as very masculine?
 

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Maybe the sight of all that growing bodyhair aroused your interest as it struck you as very masculine?
Its possible. I'm sure there is some psychological Freudian explanation for it. Whatever. Everyone has a weird fetish. And the people who say they don't probably have the WEIRDEST fetishes ha.
 

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Its possible. I'm sure there is some psychological Freudian explanation for it. Whatever. Everyone has a weird fetish. And the people who say they don't probably have the WEIRDEST fetishes ha.

Indeed we do :)
I also watched with excitement watching one of my friends from school growing furry in a matter of years lol
Did you also care for your own armpit hair or just that of your friends?
 

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I was asking about the actual anus because I assumed that is what people are attracted to when they say ass. I remember hearing about George Michael saying he liked brown anuses and not pink ones or it may have been the other way around I'm not sure. So are most people that are into "asses" into the cheeks and/or the "hole"? I hear people on here and malegeneral talking about wanting to see "holes" all the time so that's why I assumed people were more into the anus than the buttock. I wonder if fetishes are more common among gay men than they are in straight people (even though obviously they occur in both populations). It's so interesting and great to find out that people have such different tastes.
 
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I have yet to engage in a sexual relationship and am not turned on by an anus. I am attracted to armpits (which I only recently learned is not true of everyone in the gay community and is a fetish known as maschalagnia). I remember reading years ago when I first started looking at porn that the armpit is a particularly sensual anatomical site for gay men, something that made attraction to it sound normal or at least more common in gay men. What percent of gay men are attracted to armpits? Am I in a small minority? Is the anus something that gay men are initially not attracted to but become attracted to after becoming more sexually active (in the same way that straight men initially are attracted to breasts and later usually become more attracted to the vagina)? Does anyone know where I can find more information/statistics on this kind of information?

There seems to be a common misconception that gays are one large homogeneous community. What are gay men attracted to? Men. Beyond that we’re as diverse as the heterosexual population with just as many fetish’s, likes, and dislikes.
I’ve been exceedingly active over my 45+ years of sexual relations. In all that time only two men have been crazy for armpits. I would guess it’s more common than my experience but there’s no telling.
 
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The only criteria for being gay is a sexual attraction to other men only.

The rest is individual and diverse. Feet, pits, ears, tongues, eyes, nipples etc. Some have no interest in anal some only do anal. It's even possible to be gay but asexual in expression.
 

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Personally, as a gold star bottom, I have no mentionable attraction to anuses at all apart from getting my own penetrated by my partner in any way he wants to.

When I was younger, I went from playing with my cock to playing with my cock and my ass as a way to multiply my pleasure and intensity of my orgasm.

My progression to having another man fuck me to orgasm was a natural progression.

It may not be biologically accurate, but I think of my hole as a sexual organ designed to induce orgasm for myself and my partner. It's as natural to me these days as using my lungs for breathing or my mouth for for eating.
 

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I dont really find the asshole itself to be that attractive. I think those that are attracted to the asshole are really into rimming and eating out another man. The smell is the turnoff for me. Although I have had sexual thoughts about rimming another guy. I do like the shape of a big butt.

Im also really attracted to fat nipples and sucking on them. I have never experienced any pleasure from my own nipple stimulation though.