What are somethings I need to know about being a Cuck

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My girlfriend & I have agreed for her to have as much sex as she wants with different men. This was actually my fantasy for quite sometime now & she has recently agreed to go along with it.

I ask because I wanted to know what to expect as this is my first time with this whole expirence.

We are both a Mexican American & in our 20's. My fantasy is seeing her with dominant, very well endowed white men. I'm not the jealous type.

My apologies if this is in the wrong section.
 
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I am not really the right person to answer, since I am more of a dominant, and totally a well endowed white man, not a hub who shares his wife. However I have had a lot of sex with wives, and mainly with their hubs present, and often watching. I can tell you a few things.

Do you want to watch? Is she ok with that? Here are some things to be sure of.
Be sure she is ok with the arrangement -- her going out with the guy, them staying at your house, you being in the house, or you watching.
Are you going to ask all sorts of questions about what they did and how she felt, when you are alone? Is she ok with that?
Make sure you get the right guy. Not only white and well endowed, but also basically respectful of you both.
If she wants you there, what do you want to do? Jerk off? Lick her clean? Suck him? How does she feel about that?
Make sure you do not distract her with your neediness. This is for her pleasure, after all. If she has to worry about you and your feelings, it may not be worth it.

I can't tell you what to expect to feel, but I have observed that hubs often feel a mixture of things -- humiliation, huge sexual excitement, pain at seeing your wife give herself to another man in the most intimate possible way. If you are not well endowed, maybe she will have sensations, even emotions, that you have never given her, and they may share these secret feelings (believe me this happens, I experience it a lot). Some hubs are both hurt by all this and love it more than anything, both at the same time. There are others who don't feel any of the hard stuff at all... but I have to say, those guys don't seem to experience the ecstasy of it either.
 
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My girlfriend & I have agreed for her to have as much sex as she wants with different men. This was actually my fantasy for quite sometime now & she has recently agreed to go along with it.

I ask because I wanted to know what to expect as this is my first time with this whole expirence.

We are both a Mexican American & in our 20's. My fantasy is seeing her with dominant, very well endowed white men. I'm not the jealous type.

My apologies if this is in the wrong section.

I would recommend before you sign yourself up for the "cuck" package, you try just having a threesome with another guy as equals or perhaps even a full swap with another couple.

Everyone is "not the jealous type", until they are confronted with the complexities and the realities of what you just did and how you are going to deal with it in your relationship in the future.

While you may think you know how your reactions will play out, you may have an idea of what your girlfriends reactions maybe, the second male is a wild card.

He may like your girlfriend more than you expect, he may try to take play time outside the boundaries established and probably the biggest of all showstoppers he may have a gaping pie hole that he can't keep closed. The last thing you need is to be out with the girlfriend on the town and have some ass come to you talking about how he wants to ride your old lady because he heard your "cool" like that.

Make sure you do all your home work and talk it out with her before you start the process.

The "cuck" thing is usually best between an older, mature couple that already has a lot invested in the relationship.
 

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Get used to felching. Joking aside, I agree with the above post. Put your toe in the water before you jump in. I have been asked to join quite a few couples and some guys are cool with it and some guys act like they are cool with it. Some don't handle it well. That usually came out some how when we were meeting for drinks before. Just that weirdness.

Anyway, do a 3 some and see how it goes. Possibly even someone just a little bigger than you. You might not be ready to see her destroyed by a big dick yet.
 

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A threesome is very different from what this couple wants. He wants to see her with other better endowed me. She wants to have sex with them. Neither talks about wanting him to join the new guy. He should just try watching, if it hurts too much he can leave them alone. later, if they want, they can change the deal.
 
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A threesome is very different from what this couple wants. He wants to see her with other better endowed me. She wants to have sex with them. Neither talks about wanting him to join the new guy. He should just try watching, if it hurts too much he can leave them alone. later, if they want, they can change the deal.

As you stated in your first post -

"I am not really the right person to answer, since I am more of a dominant, and totally a well endowed white man, not a hub who shares his wife."

My advice is based on the fact they are a young couple and probably not exactly sure yet. Look at it as a compromise of sorts until they know their respective limits.
 

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My background is interesting, but probably only to me. I'm almost ten years older than my attractive wife. We like to party, dance, scuba dive (we are both instructors) and climb mountains in Colorado. We enjoy biking, as well. I had always wanted to watch another man make love to my wife and she always told me, "Forget it."
Four years after we married we were in Cozumel having lunch after our two-tank morning dives when she informed me, "From this time going forward you will swallow your semen whenever I suck your dick and if you ejaculate inside me you will eat your cum out of me." I was shocked but that evening after a night dive she sucked my dick and then kissed me and I swallowed my semen for the first time In the following days I swallowed my cum four more times and ate my semen out of her pussy. I always do this now, because, in her words, "I am a cumslut."
Shortly after that event, we joined an 'alternative nightclub' in Dallas. In fact, this night club was a non-premise swingers club. When we found out we were surprised and we determined we wouldn't have sex with other couples, at least not intercourse. In six weeks a young wife had my wife in her bed and she became very Bi, but she loved sucking other guys dicks and engaging in oral sex with them. I enjoyed their wives and girlfriends when I had the opportunity, which was often. We were enthusiastic members of this club for three years before we moved to another club which was a more serious swingers club. We had a lot of public sex at the club and my wife discovered she enjoyed public sex and exhibitionism. One night I was satisfying a man's wife orally when he had my wife; she loved it. I found it to be very stimulating although I only saw the end of their coupling. On the way home she told me, "She enjoyed it and wanted more of it."
We decided to leave the club and seek men for her. We were very particular but eventually we found men who met our criteria. Once a wife realizes she can have sex with men whom she is attracted to without repercussion her sex life has been greatly expanded. She no longer will be satisfied or wish to return to her previous relationship with only her husband.
One man she was with for several months encouraged her to make me her cuckold and after teasing me for six weeks she decided to do just that.
Today, I am her cuckold even though I have a large penis. There is much more to being a cuckold than penis size alone. I remember the situation when she was sucking my dick two years ago when she took my throbbing penis out of her mouth and placed my hand around it. I masturbated furiously as she smiled and nodded approvingly at me. When I climaxed all over the floor she asked me, "Did you like that?"

I replied, "Oh yes, it was wonderful Sweetheart!"

She promised me would have more sex like that in the future. When I do have sex with her it is wonderful but I realize that she is honoring me with her body and she enjoys many other men and fucking them and that is the way it is supposed to be, at least for us. This might not work for most people but when 50% of marriages end in divorce I consider myself to be very lucky.
 
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If you are going to bring another man into your relationship, you should make sure he is going to be compatible with what you are looking for. Some guys are really into humiliating you in front of her, which works for some people but not for us. Others are looking for a girlfriend and are hoping she will fall for them via their large cock. Still others are pushy and won't want to take things at her pace.

We have done this several times over the years to keep our sex life hot, but we have found it only works if you really know what you are looking for in a guy and don't settle for anything less.
 

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hi
i think everyone has given great feedback and answers. I have to agree with flyboy though, if you are not married, then you do not see this relationship going very far. There is no reason to enter a cuckold relationship with a gf....I have many years experience training and teaching new cuckold couples how to navigate very complicated relationship dynamics that come up as a result.

If you are not married, what is the obligation of your gf to stay with you, or to support you emotionally as she begins to have more sexual fun? Also, are you ok with the fact that once she does this, you are no longer in any control over your sex life...? Are you aware of these facts and issues?

think about it, before you do it.

Do not do a threesome. That advice is great for a couple that wants to do swinging, but for a cuckold couple, a 3sum is the wrong idea...it will screw things up even more.