II'm there, coffeehouse, and a girl looks at me. Everytime I talk to her...its fun. Flirt here, flirt there, take time off from my bit of writing and chat. Whenever I sit, just listen, she chats about her misadventures with men with co-workers....loud enough for me to know this girl isn't any good for the long haul. Oh, but is she cute. And we're friendly. So I wanna hang out, I wanna have fun....I wanna fuck. Friends with benefits! I guess I've tried it before. Never was clear that was what we were doing, the objective. Bad communication. So, how do you go about communicating that want? Setting those guidelines? When is it appropiate? And what are your experiences with "Friends with Benefits"