what are the risk on giving a bj to a stranger?

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I have a couple of married men I stick with. I am married too so we just get together when we need to help each other out. We all know each other and are there for each other. All friends and we fuck each other and suck each other when ever we need it. Wives do not know we do this. WE all think it is safer that way.
 

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no sex, other than masturbation, is 100% safe.

you have to make your own rules and set yourself boundries. for me it's bare sucking with strangers but not bare fucking.

you need to consider the risks and make a decision. and stick to it.
 

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well pump im sorry i don't know it all like you do.. the reason i asked is that alot of misunderstanding is happening out there and i just thought i'd ask in the healthy section.

anyways, when you guys say cuts and sores... brush cuts are bad? u know when u brush ur teeth before blowjob and u sometimes bleed?
 

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I rarely post on here. mostly surf... but when i see people give out false information that could risk the health of others, I feel it's necessary to step up and say something. Pump, I believe you need to do some research of your own before to comment; comments such as yours, especially when involved in serious health related matters such as HIV, should be thought through and researched before you really confuse people.

According to the Center for Disease Control, CDC, Oral sex, whither, Fellatio (Penis), Cunnilingus (Vagina), or Anilingus (Anus) all carry risks for contracting not only HIV, but also many STI's. The CDC acknowledges that it is difficult to measure the ratio of infection between Oral sex and Vaginal or Anal sex, because they tend to happen together more often than not, though cases have been reported of contracting HIV via Oral sex.

I enjoy this site (even though I don't participate that often) and I'd like everyone to remain as safe as they desire... it's always your choice on the decisions you make.

Take care everyone, and Pump... just stop talking :]

References:
Oral Sex and HIV Risk | Factsheets | CDC HIV/AIDS
 

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While it is possible to contract HIV through oral sex, it is statistically very unlikely. joelque is right to point out, per the CDC, that it can be hard to know when someone contracted HIV orally as people who engage in oral sex are usually engaging in other kinds of sex as well. That said, it's demonstrably easier to contract HIV through vaginal or anal sex than it is through oral sex.

To really understand the risks, you need to understand how HIV is transmitted, and not whether a certain type of sex is "risky" or not. The truth is, you can theoretically contract HIV through all sorts of sexual activities. For example, masturbating with another guy's cum as lube is risky if you have a sore or cut on your dick. If.

To contract HIV, you need to have a gateway into the body in the presence of a fluid that contains HIV. Fluid + HIV + gateway. Without all three of those, there's no chance of transmission.

If you have sores, cuts, or abrasions in your mouth (from illness, biting your lip, gingivitis, etc), then there's a way for HIV to get into you. Otherwise, human mouths are very inhospitable places for HIV.

So yes, you can catch HIV orally, but most HIV/AIDS agencies I know of consider it a very low risk.

Other STIs, such as syphilis and herpes, are more easily communicated, and are readily transmitted orally.
 

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Just keep in mind how easy it is to actually cause injury to you're mouth. Bromelain, from pineapples and other similar protein-destroying enzymes (herpes is VERY opportunistic and will take advantage of this). Biting your tongue while eating. Brushing too vigorously. Lip chapping. Mouth-shredding foods (namely certain breakfast cereals).

People's mouths are less invincible than they'd like to assume.
 

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^^^ Exactly. You have to think about how HIV is transmitted, and not just what's classified as "high risk" or "low risk."
 

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You can get several sexually transmitted infections from oral sex.
I don't know of single case of HIV transmission by oral sex.
It's true the chances are greater if you have an open wound or sore.

Just keep in mind how easy it is to actually cause injury to your mouth. Bromelain, from pineapples and other similar protein-destroying enzymes (herpes is VERY opportunistic and will take advantage of this). Biting your tongue while eating. Brushing too vigorously. Lip chapping. Mouth-shredding foods (namely certain breakfast cereals).

People's mouths are less invincible than they'd like to assume.

He's right.
 
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it's estimated that nearly 10% of all new HIV cases come from oral sex. experts estimate that the risk of getting HIV from performing oral sex is about 1 in 2000 to 1 in 5000. experts point out that this does not mean that you would have to give 5000 blowjobs to HIV+ men before getting HIV; you can just as easily get it from just doing it once. 1 in 5000 might seem like a very low risk activity (and it's certainly far lower than the risk from anal sex) but it's a high enough risk that you should definitely be concerned about it. the risk from RECEIVING oral sex from someone with HIV is generally agreed to be (very) close to zero.

the risk of getting other STDs from oral sex is much higher, and even curable STDs can cause serious complications in certain people, and antibiotic resistance is quickly becoming a serious problem
 
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