When I was single, ok 14 years ago I lusted mostly after women...but alas, women were very difficult catches for me. Now, I'm not bad looking, no George Clooney, but not too bad, ok. Anyway, lusting after women became very hard work -- it was just hard. Women just didn't seem to want to go for it. Now here's the kicker though, guys were always coming on to me. I had a group of mixed company friends gay, straight, bi, and .... let's just say I could've had a new sex partner ever week if I had wanted a guy! It seemed all the guys were interested...but none of the women! Is this just guys and gals looking for different things...or guys just wanting to hook up more often?? Are some guys just more attractive to guys than girls?