What are you looking for in a relationship?

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I want someone who is honest, self sufficient, reliable, interesting, funny, and bring out the best in me

Too much to ask for?

I don't think that's too much to ask.

But Spice Girl if you want to be my lover you got to get with my firends. :biggrin1:

What a shame i was never a fan of the spice girls
:redface:
 

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He should be respectful, smart, funny, confident,
ambitious, passionate, friendly and definitely honest.
I want someone who can say whats on their mind and
not have to wait for me to guess! Just someone I can
get along with and love with all my heart.
 

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What are you looking for in the other person?
A decent, honest, adventerous person with integrity. Cycling and moderate partying are a plus.
Same sex or different?
Same - I like guys.
What is your type in looks?
Clean cut, hygienic, athletic
What does he or she have to do to make you melt?
To see someones face light up with a genuine smile when our eyes meet gets me.
What is that small thing (pun intended) you look for in actions or comments?
I'm impressed by guys who strive to be good people and treat others well. Courtesy, consideration, politeness, manners, and sincerity are huge for me. I can see this just by being a passanger in someones car. If the guy drives like a selfish jerk, that's how he will treat people.
What will make you say let's move in together or your the one for me?:smile:
The last question would take a long time to answer. A proven track record that demonstrates that the guy is really into me and that we enhance each others lives would be the start. I've lived by myself for so long that the guy would have to be really special for me to consider giving up being a bachelor. I would welcome it under the right scenario.
 

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True love with a woman who can accept me as I am...



Viking1 you would be perfect if only you were the type of guy who could fix things.:cool: That's sexy when a guy can do more than call AAA. Then of course there is my fantasy involving Thor's Hammer, :wink: too bad you don't have a nordic background. Your only real flaw is your persistent self-deprecation and low self esteem. :redface:
 

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Viking1 you would be perfect if only you were the type of guy who could fix things.:cool: That's sexy when a guy can do more than call AAA. Then of course there is my fantasy involving Thor's Hammer, :wink: too bad you don't have a nordic background. Your only real flaw is your persistent self-deprecation and low self esteem. :redface:

njqt466, I'm confused??? I can fix things. I've worked as a mechanic on various equipment for years now. I do have a Nordic background (Norwegian). :confused:
 

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What are you looking for in the other person?
I'm still trying to figure this out, but I do not have a laundry list.

Same sex or different?
Different. (Male)

What is your type in looks?
I like dark hair, as tall as I am (or taller), nice hands, no eyebrow waxing, clean. I also like an accent.

What does he or she have to do to make you melt?
They are more like qualities I notice that make me melt, not so much doing a specific thing.

Intelligence, social and political awareness, masculinity, deep voice, confidence, directness, the ability to always tell the truth. Is not a pussy. Likes the occasional debate. Does not hold a grudge and is as laid back/easy going as I am. Gets my sense of humor and has a good one to share.

What is that small thing (pun intended) you look for in actions or comments?
Opens doors for me. Lets me have my way on occasion, and enjoys it. Will put me in my place when needed.

Doesn't mention their profession, affluence, or car the first time we talk.

What will make you say let's move in together or your the one for me?
All of the things mentioned above, along with love, respect, honesty, cuddling, and good sex.
 

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He should be respectful, smart, funny, confident,
ambitious, passionate, friendly and definitely honest.
I want someone who can say whats on their mind and
not have to wait for me to guess! Just someone I can
get along with and love with all my heart.

i had someone like that once.............then after 14 years we broke up........still dont know the real reason however :rolleyes:
 

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I want compatibility and personality. I want someone that can someone understand me and my thoughts and opinions and would allow me to do the same to them.