What are you looking for in the other person?
I'm still trying to figure this out, but I do not have a laundry list.
Same sex or different?
Different. (Male)
What is your type in looks?
I like dark hair, as tall as I am (or taller), nice hands, no eyebrow waxing, clean. I also like an accent.
What does he or she have to do to make you melt?
They are more like qualities I notice that make me melt, not so much doing a specific thing.
Intelligence, social and political awareness, masculinity, deep voice, confidence, directness, the ability to always tell the truth. Is not a pussy. Likes the occasional debate. Does not hold a grudge and is as laid back/easy going as I am. Gets my sense of humor and has a good one to share.
What is that small thing (pun intended) you look for in actions or comments?
Opens doors for me. Lets me have my way on occasion, and enjoys it. Will put me in my place when needed.
Doesn't mention their profession, affluence, or car the first time we talk.
What will make you say let's move in together or your the one for me?
All of the things mentioned above, along with love, respect, honesty, cuddling, and good sex.