Kazon: So very true....dick size should play no part once you have found the right person. In my experiences the most profound relationships that I have had were with kats who were not closer to the # 12 on the ruler & who I had no idea as to their size untill the relationship got to the point of sharing the dick.
Here is a recent situation that I would like to share with the group.
I am a self employed, well read, idea & norm provoking, moderately successful, good looking, relationship/people first interested male..who likes men & Star Trek( an outline, not a definition.). I have had some poor to horrible times meeting up with people that I have contacted or who have contacted me on the internet. Accordingly, I am very cautious in reaching out to people who seem to be of interest to me..in fact as I believe I have noted in a previous topic herein. I will not make contact with a kat unless he has a seemingly consistant long term & extensive presence on the internet. This does not guarantee a sane or/and compatible connection, but does greatly lessen the time wasted. It is essential to note that, in this situation this kat is some distance from me & my intention was only to share ideas/thoughts interests and to perhaps become internet friends. Internet friends... A situation that in 2003 proved to be a new & great experience for me, & that had Lisa or/and Josh(internet friends) been living close to me, or I them we would be great , perhaps even best friends. In fact, in 2004 I even met up with and hung out with lisa for 2 weeks in her town and tightened the friendship even more( No I did not sex her & Lisa is from Kansas) & this year Josh and I will finally meet and hang out..I'll keep you posted.
Here it is:
So this is what attracted me to to this kat. A very well read and written, idea provoking thus interesting, people/relationship first type, handsome, sexy kat who happens to have a nice package & a long term extensive internet presence...hard to believe, huh...perhaps so ( This man is bi, by tha way) So I reached out to him...I must ad that, when I approach that I am very direct..I will say exactly what I see and feel.. You look good, I like your Journals, Ideas, this is me, my ideas, likes, etc, etc. I reached out a few times and it was not untill I IMed him & he wanted to respond, that he responded. This happened a few times, even though he said he was interested in internet exchanges. Each exchange though was flat, cliped even, and just when the life sharing/thought provoking exchanges would begin I was either typing to myself, or the I gota go statement would kick in. I gave him the benifit of the doubt, knowing how guarded I am with internet approaches, perhaps he is also because of his looks/dick as well. These factors and the fact I do not have anywhere near the internet life sharing presence that he has I felt okay in giving him my occupation, e-mail address, home # & I think web site address. No I am not crazy. This kat has such a life sharing presence on the internet that I actually have his real name, #, e-mail & home addresses, even though when I offered my info he did not reciprocate. Further, conversations continued to be met with the same cliped, flat gotta go position....so I have since left that situation alone. To bad too, because he has expressed some great ideas & is willing to be somewhat controversial with and about them. He questions the status quo and asks why? but keeps asking.
So guys & gals, Cautious because of his dick?... not all that he made him self out to be?......or just not interested?
The preoccupation with size has made so many people with size have to question if they are liked for tha dick, or them? a shame.
