What are you looking for?

[Kimahri]

Kazon, I got it....ok..here's what I meant....

In my time on the gay scene here, those things I mentioned mattered. If they didn't matter to you, people thought you were insane. So, being shallow was the way of it around here. Since I am after someone I want to be able to look into their eyes and find love there as well as be happy to wake up next to them, I have no shallow interests.

 

[13788]

Kazon:

Originally posted by Kimahri@Jan 8 2005, 03:40 PM
Kazon, I got it....ok..here's what I meant....

In my time on the gay scene here, those things I mentioned mattered.  If they didn't matter to you, people thought you were insane.  So, being shallow was the way of it around here.  Since I am after someone I want to be able to look into their eyes and find love there as well as be happy to wake up next to them, I have no shallow interests.

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Gotcha...In the case of the aforenoted kat..I just thought that he was someone that would be worth me kicking-it with, with many of the same ideas, passions etc...the fact that he looked good and had a nice dick was a bonus...perhaps my lack of major interest in his dick, was what turned him off... Control issues may be in play too...who knows

Thanks, for your feed back

 

[DizzyGus]

Umm........

Physically she'd have to be in shape but curvy. Big boobs are a plus but they don't have to be gigantic. I take very good care of my body and I expect nothing less from someone I would have a relationship with. She'd also have to be well groomed and clean......good hair and teeth and skin and breath and so on. Not paying attention to that stuff is a 100% turnoff for me.

If I date a girl seriously she's going to have to like my friends and my family. And I do NOT mean "TOLERATE" I mean "LIKE". I can always get another girl but my friends and family are irreplaceable.

Sense of humor is also huge. If she can't laugh at life and at herself then there's nothing there that I want long term.

She has to be willing to try new things and challenge herself, since I do that myself all the time. I don't like girls that get stuck in a routine and sit on the couch and get fat.

As far as sex goes, one of my teammates says that he wants a girl who's a lady in the parlor and a whore in the bedroom.......and that's EXACTLY what I am looking for. I like a girl with manners and social grace that will let me fuck her brains out when the lights go off.

Another thing is that she has to be accepting of the amount of time I spend with my career and playing hockey. I expect to have my freedom and I'm sure as hell not going to be on anyones leash.

Thats a pretty good start I guess. I haven't found anyone who met all those criteria yet but I'm not worried about it either. If we find each other, that's great. If not, that's great too. I'm not one of those guys thats waiting until he's married to start living his life.

Gus

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

in a woman, I appreciate eclectiveness in humor, intelligence, and romance. I also like a woman who has no use for abuse, physical, mental, or verbal,(Well not overly verbal&#33

In terms of physiology, I'm more preferable to reasonably slender women. Not supermodel slim, God! I'm still reeling over Mary-Kate Olsen, but then again, not Ricky Lake's former weight class either. I suppose a minor tat'd be all right, but no more than that. Endowment has to real, no silicone sweeties for this boy. If ever we did commit to kids, and they needed breast milk, I want to make sure she can give them it.

I'd also appreciate someone who cares about their appearance in terms of hair, breath, teeth, and hygiene.