I've been with a number of bi-curious guys and I thought I understood what they're generally looking for, but now I'm not as sure.
Usually, it seems like they're interested to try things they can't do with a woman, which makes sense to me. They want to feel another man's dick, maybe take it in their mouths, get him off.
I'm getting ready to meet up with a new guy, though, and he says he wants to start with me giving him a massage and then he wants a bj from me. He's in a long-term relationship with a woman, though, and these are things she can do for him, so I'm not clear on why he wants to do this with a man. I'm happy to oblige him, of course, but I don't really understand the point. He says that, in time, he thinks he may want to blow me, but not at first.
Anyway, this all has me wondering: Is there a typical bi-curious fantasy? I see on another thread on this page that many are looking for suck buddies, but they're having a hard time finding them. I'm a fairly good-looking, discreet gay guy who is not into anal sex and prefers to be with straight or bi guys. I would think I'm a bi guy's wet dream, and indeed, I have a number of bi friends, but they're so terrified of their gf's or wives finding out that our plans keep getting aborted at the last minute.
Also, are bi guys ever interested in forming a personal / emotional connection with another guy?
I would like to find a compatible guy, be able to talk and enjoy each other's company, have a beer or meal or watch a movie, get each other off, then have him go home. An occasional sleepover would be fine, but I'm not looking for a husband. Would you, as a bi guy, find this idea appealing? Does it help when you know that I have no interest in anal? Or are you looking for that as part of the experience?
Basically, this is all a long-winded way of asking "What the hell do you guys want??" :confused13:
Usually, it seems like they're interested to try things they can't do with a woman, which makes sense to me. They want to feel another man's dick, maybe take it in their mouths, get him off.
I'm getting ready to meet up with a new guy, though, and he says he wants to start with me giving him a massage and then he wants a bj from me. He's in a long-term relationship with a woman, though, and these are things she can do for him, so I'm not clear on why he wants to do this with a man. I'm happy to oblige him, of course, but I don't really understand the point. He says that, in time, he thinks he may want to blow me, but not at first.
Anyway, this all has me wondering: Is there a typical bi-curious fantasy? I see on another thread on this page that many are looking for suck buddies, but they're having a hard time finding them. I'm a fairly good-looking, discreet gay guy who is not into anal sex and prefers to be with straight or bi guys. I would think I'm a bi guy's wet dream, and indeed, I have a number of bi friends, but they're so terrified of their gf's or wives finding out that our plans keep getting aborted at the last minute.
Also, are bi guys ever interested in forming a personal / emotional connection with another guy?
I would like to find a compatible guy, be able to talk and enjoy each other's company, have a beer or meal or watch a movie, get each other off, then have him go home. An occasional sleepover would be fine, but I'm not looking for a husband. Would you, as a bi guy, find this idea appealing? Does it help when you know that I have no interest in anal? Or are you looking for that as part of the experience?
Basically, this is all a long-winded way of asking "What the hell do you guys want??" :confused13: