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Hi ladies, it’s been awhile. I’ve always found this place to be supportive and honest, so I’m back.
Unexpectedly, my boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. We were together for 18 months. It all seems like such a waste of time now. For the majority of our relationship he would make comments implying he didn’t want kids. However, recently I found out that wasn’t true and even more recently he said he wants them soon.
As I have fertility issues the fact he didn’t want them was fine for me. But this new news changed the game. I went to the dr last week and she said I need to think about having them before I’m 35 (if I want to have them). I’m 32 next month. It’s also almost certain I’d have to go through IVF.
I was telling him this and said that I want to be married before having kids because marriage is really important to me. We’d spoken about it plenty of times before and he never has any objections. He did this time. Apparently he doesn’t want to get married. And that’s my deal breaker.
What’s yours? Aside from cheating, that ones pretty obvious.
Unexpectedly, my boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. We were together for 18 months. It all seems like such a waste of time now. For the majority of our relationship he would make comments implying he didn’t want kids. However, recently I found out that wasn’t true and even more recently he said he wants them soon.
As I have fertility issues the fact he didn’t want them was fine for me. But this new news changed the game. I went to the dr last week and she said I need to think about having them before I’m 35 (if I want to have them). I’m 32 next month. It’s also almost certain I’d have to go through IVF.
I was telling him this and said that I want to be married before having kids because marriage is really important to me. We’d spoken about it plenty of times before and he never has any objections. He did this time. Apparently he doesn’t want to get married. And that’s my deal breaker.
What’s yours? Aside from cheating, that ones pretty obvious.