What Are Your Go-to's For Warming Up Your Partner?

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I'm lucky in that my fiancé gets herself warmed up easily by the act of warming me up, but in the case where I'm not having her warm me up, I like to start out with a heavy make-out session that includes kissing her neck and ears (drives her crazy) and moving my hands all over her with a mixture of rubbing and squeezing. From there I'll move down to kissing the nipples and eventually going down on her with some finger action.

Curious what other kind of things you guys do to get your partners going.
 

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The older we've gotten and the longer we've been together our sessions have become more akin to "lovemaking" than "sex", so it usually involves quite a bit of "warming up", both as a preference and a necessity.

I'll usually start slow and as far away from her lower regions and it will consist of kissing, nuzzling and caressing her face, hair and neck/shoulder area. Then I will go lower and caress and suck her breasts and nipples, which has always been an instant way to really get her going. Then it's usually followed by simultaneous massaging of her abdomen and legs and inner thighs.

Only after all that will I feel confident she's ready for the main meat course (so to speak); and it might consist of a little fingering prior to entering her or just entering then and there.

Of course if I really want to make sure she's super ready, I'll do a lot more fingering prior to insertion along with some oral and let her ride the waves till she's practically begging me to enter her.
 

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My wife has curves for days, I like making out with her, those fat juicey lips are amazing. A lot of breast play and sucking, a lot of pussy play and eating as well as caressing he huge ass.
 
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Hot take: I don't really subscribe to the idea of "warming my partner up"...Personally I require more symmetry in the desire department, and a need to be warmed up signals to me a lack of genuine desire present, and I don't pander for transactional or "manipulative" sex.
 

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Hot take: I don't really subscribe to the idea of "warming my partner up"...Personally I require more symmetry in the desire department, and a need to be warmed up signals to me a lack of genuine desire present, and I don't pander for transactional or "manipulative" sex.
So if she ask for sex after a stressful day you will ask her to come back when she is wet?
For us every time takes a lot of preparation before being able to fully penetrate her.
 

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In a past long-term relationship, foreplay was a huge part of our lovemaking. Did we have 10 minute quickies here and there? Sure, but most of the time a single sex session to about an hour. She could get wet in less than a minute but really, really loved foreplay where I kissed her neck, while caressing her breasts, working my way down to cupping a breast while really paying lots of attention to her nipples and areolas, going as far as sucking as much as I could into my mouth. If I spent too much time on one breast she would pull away and stick the other one right in front of my lips so that boob got equal attention.

All of that kissing, caressing, groping and fingering was lead up to me going down on her. I would fully engulf her lips and clit with my mouth, and continuously flick and lick my tongue up and down on her clit until she would have a full body orgasm. It was the only way she could had orgasms, her orgasms turned me on big time, and she was very appreciative that I could give her those orgasms, so when It was finally time for me to enter her, it was always with ease, desire and wide open legs!

I'm lucky in that my fiancé gets herself warmed up easily by the act of warming me up, but in the case where I'm not having her warm me up, I like to start out with a heavy make-out session that includes kissing her neck and ears (drives her crazy) and moving my hands all over her with a mixture of rubbing and squeezing. From there I'll move down to kissing the nipples and eventually going down on her with some finger action.

With my wife , we certainly love foreplay but it doesn't take much before she's aching to have me inside her. Like you, a makeout session of prolonged deep French kissing while caressing her breasts and ass, and she's completely melted, wet, and ready for me. Sometimes I immediately restart the deep French kissing as soon as I'm in position and inside her, and that drives her wild. While she has never had an orgasm from intercourse, she truly enjoys being plowed by me, having me cum deep inside her, and then using a vibe together to bring her to orgasm.
 
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So if she ask for sex after a stressful day you will ask her to come back when she is wet?
For us every time takes a lot of preparation before being able to fully penetrate her.
I've yet to be propositioned for sex from a woman whose body needed extra convincing that sex with me was a good time and a grand opportunity..
Not to throw shade, but having been the "himbo", the tall athlete, or the affair partner, my experiences with sex means that every woman has come pre-prepared when she has genuine desire, and that a need for "preparation" speaks to a lessened sense of attraction/desirability that she would like some sort of plausible deniability for.