What are your thoughts on receiving oral sex from another man? When have things gone too far?

Would you let another man suck you off?


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When I was in college I used to give head to some of my "Straight" guy friends that lived in our dorm. I found that once they understood that I wasn't going to expect them to suck me, and that I was not going to tell everyone about it they were into it. Some of them only did it as a one time thing, but there were four guys who I sucked off on a pretty regular basis. One of them also really got into me rimming him too and another one eventually started fucking me on a regular basis too.
Oddly enough, my roommate was a really cool straight guy and he knew I was giving head to several of our friends, but he never had me service him. We are still friends. I asked him why he didn't ever have me suck him off. He told me that one of the guys I sucked off all the time told him he ought to try me out. He was still a virgin and was afraid to do anything with me because he didn't want his first time ever having sex to be with a guy. He was also worried that since we were already roommates it could get complicated if he had me servicing him all the time.
 

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When I was in college I used to give head to some of my "Straight" guy friends that lived in our dorm. I found that once they understood that I wasn't going to expect them to suck me, and that I was not going to tell everyone about it they were into it. Some of them only did it as a one time thing, but there were four guys who I sucked off on a pretty regular basis. One of them also really got into me rimming him too and another one eventually started fucking me on a regular basis too.
Oddly enough, my roommate was a really cool straight guy and he knew I was giving head to several of our friends, but he never had me service him. We are still friends. I asked him why he didn't ever have me suck him off. He told me that one of the guys I sucked off all the time told him he ought to try me out. He was still a virgin and was afraid to do anything with me because he didn't want his first time ever having sex to be with a guy. He was also worried that since we were already roommates it could get complicated if he had me servicing him all the time.
Great story! It reminds me of my own situation but in reverse. In my younger days, I had a number of “straight” guys that asked to see my cock because word was around that I was very well hung. I would always show them, usually in private and assuring them that I would tell no one. I’d pull it out and usually I’d already be rock hard just in anticipation of showing them my cock. I’d start to slowly jerk it off and most of them had never seen an uncut cock let alone one the size of mine. I’d tell them they could feel how hard it gets, we could compare, or they could measure it if they liked. While mostly straight, I simply loved off my erect cock. It led to many straight guys jerking me off!
 

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It’s well known that sexuality is fluid and we all have different thresholds for what turns us on vs what turns us off. I’m curious to hear from the straight guys how much of a turn on/turn off is the idea of getting a BJ from another guy? This is all subjective and there’s no set-in-stone reaction that all of us must feel. So let’s talk about it!

I’ll add my opinions on this. I’ve been curious about this for a while - really ever since I’ve been fixated on this one guy and can’t get the idea of blowing him out of my head. I would never act without his approval, so I tried to put myself in his shoes to see just how far-fetched that approval is. I am definitely a gay man. I identify as gay and do not have an interest in performing any sort of sexual acts with a woman. But at the same time, the thought of having sex with a woman or the thinking of vaginas, tits & clits, isn’t anything that I would find to be “gross”. I fooled around with different girls when I was in high school (remember, back when you believed you could fix your gayness just to be normal, PLEASE GOD! … anyways) and we wen’t to almost every base, actually. More recently, my friend and I went out on New Years Eve and when midnight arrived, we didn’t have anyone significant to kiss, so we shared a kiss. She and I have been friends for almost 10 years now, and it wasn’t uncomfortable or strange at all. So no, I don’t seek out women to satisfy my sexual needs, but if it came to it, a woman could probably get me to the finish line. Even if it’s just a biological reaction.

Alright… Straight men - let me know your thoughts. Can you tell me how realistic my dream of sucking this man off is?

(I should add that this guy and I work together and have hung out together outside of work. He currently has a girlfriend, but I would argue that at times, he can be flirtatious with me. Maybe it’s just in a playful way - he knows I think he’s cute and he will occasionally tease me about that. But on another occasion, after he had spent a week or so working out, he asked me to feel his biceps, and then had me rub my hands across his chest, his stomach, his back… That seemed odd to me. But I‘ll say that I’ve never had a close male friend. Maybe guy friends will do that kind of thing.)
Well take things one step at a time...

Have you ever thought about asking him on a date? Then you can find out how much interest he has?
 

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In the right situation - absolutely.
Being honest - the horny brain would do it in a heart beat. So if I am actively masturbating and somehow a dude magically appeared in the room and wanted to - 100%.
But the non horny brain is nowhere near that interested. I fantasize about it often, but can't think of a single guy I know that I would be even the slightest interested in doing so.
I am attracted to femininity. Not masculinity. Note that is different than attracted to male/female.
If there is a good looking male that is effeminate and smallish... I would do it all.