What aspects of Asian guys do you find positive and negative?

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LPSG diverse community, I want to ask for your honest opinions on this for my own survey purpose. I have been on dating profile for a while now, and matched mostly Asian as myself. When I was in other parts of the U.S. I can recognize other white men and women see me as simply foreign, so I thought if I move to the Bay Area, with more Asians here, I'd naturally be more attractive, boy I was not correct on this, I am still feeling ignored by most white men and women, but I do get winks from Asian men and women. I guess I'd like to ask your opinion, aside from personalities, what aspects of Asian guys that don't make themselves attractive, and what aspects you do find positive? Gentle or harsh, I am all ears. Please, straight, gay, bi anyone's opinion.
 

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LPSG diverse community, I want to ask for your honest opinions on this for my own survey purpose. I have been on dating profile for a while now, and matched mostly Asian as myself. When I was in other parts of the U.S. I can recognize other white men and women see me as simply foreign, so I thought if I move to the Bay Area, with more Asians here, I'd naturally be more attractive, boy I was not correct on this, I am still feeling ignored by most white men and women, but I do get winks from Asian men and women. I guess I'd like to ask your opinion, aside from personalities, what aspects of Asian guys that don't make themselves attractive, and what aspects you do find positive? Gentle or harsh, I am all ears. Please, straight, gay, bi anyone's opinion.
I'm black and pansexual.
I've always found Asian guys to be very positive, despite not matching with any Asian guys on dating apps.
I still have hope though.
 

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I love Asian guys, and the women ain't too bad either. True some of you can be uglier than dirt, that's true of any group of folks, but by and large, Asia got hit with beauty dust early on. Then add the generally small penises that go with the territory, I happen to love beautiful guys with small dicks. Soft, silky, jet black pubic hair, heaven. And lastly, throw in the paper thin, silk like foreskins, as opposed to the thick, flabby, wrinkled appendages on the Euro guys, I'm just in love.
 

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I'm black and pansexual.
I've always found Asian guys to be very positive, despite not matching with any Asian guys on dating apps.
I still have hope though.
Thanks for sharing your opinion. I think most Asian guys are afraid of black guys who are too gifted in the pants, the thoughts that you want to go through their back door, perhaps that's the reason why you are not getting match? Also in terms of body types features? Any comments?
 
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I love Asian guys, and the women ain't too bad either. True some of you can be uglier than dirt, that's true of any group of folks, but by and large, Asia got hit with beauty dust early on. Then add the generally small penises that go with the territory, I happen to love beautiful guys with small dicks. Soft, silky, jet black pubic hair, heaven. And lastly, throw in the paper thin, silk like foreskins, as opposed to the thick, flabby, wrinkled appendages on the Euro guys, I'm just in love.
Thanks for being so honest, beautiful and ugly people in every land. That's right, as I look down at my jet black pubic hair, kinda proud of it, I am always conscious about my foreskin, because its a bit dark, compared with a white pink euro foreskin, and you are right, mine is tight, not like euro saggy ones, that you can put your thumb and swim inside and dock, certainly can't dock mine, might cum on the other dick.
 

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I've been with lots of Asian men.
How are they? Well... Totally different from each other, first of all! That's the thing.
I feel like the word "Asian" is very generic and describes half of the world, a set of incredibly different and unrelated cultures and ethnicities. And behind these labels there is always a distinct person, with their own unique personality, and who may or may not abide to those cultural traits anyway.

I can tell some stories if you wish, but it would help if we could point one country/area of Asia, so I'll avoid telling about the Uzbek guy if you're interested on how Filipinos are perceived for example :)

Now, I will say one thing. I saw your introduction message, where you say "I am an average-looking Asian guy". This is something I've seen written countless times on dating profiles from guys typically from East Asia, often phrased as "oh I'm just an average Asian guy".
I know a lot of Asian cultures have a strong focus on collectivism, and it sounds like a form of modesty too. But... The message you're conveying is "I'm just one of many, I don't stand out". And it's also false, because no one is average. It is polite, but also the opposite of what draws people's attention on dating apps. In short: don't say it! Say you're a movie geek and love spending a night watching movies from the '60s (random example) and you'll give someone a topic to talk about, which makes you more unique and interesting.

I used to have this friend with benefit. Indonesian-Chinese guy. He's gorgeous, hot, attractive and a very nice guy too. Very sexy and self-confident, somewhat dominant bottom in bed. He had me hooked with every word he said. And yet... It struck me that he refused to write anything on his dating profile, because he felt he was drawing too much attention on himself! I told him that he could have had sooooo many more guys, if he had the same witty and flirty attitude on his profile, as when he was face to face with me.
 

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I've been with lots of Asian men.
How are they? Well... Totally different from each other, first of all! That's the thing.
I feel like the word "Asian" is very generic and describes half of the world, a set of incredibly different and unrelated cultures and ethnicities. And behind these labels there is always a distinct person, with their own unique personality, and who may or may not abide to those cultural traits anyway.

I can tell some stories if you wish, but it would help if we could point one country/area of Asia, so I'll avoid telling about the Uzbek guy if you're interested on how Filipinos are perceived for example :)

Now, I will say one thing. I saw your introduction message, where you say "I am an average-looking Asian guy". This is something I've seen written countless times on dating profiles from guys typically from East Asia, often phrased as "oh I'm just an average Asian guy".
I know a lot of Asian cultures have a strong focus on collectivism, and it sounds like a form of modesty too. But... The message you're conveying is "I'm just one of many, I don't stand out". And it's also false, because no one is average. It is polite, but also the opposite of what draws people's attention on dating apps. In short: don't say it! Say you're a movie geek and love spending a night watching movies from the '60s (random example) and you'll give someone a topic to talk about, which makes you more unique and interesting.

I used to have this friend with benefit. Indonesian-Chinese guy. He's gorgeous, hot, attractive and a very nice guy too. Very sexy and self-confident, somewhat dominant bottom in bed. He had me hooked with every word he said. And yet... It struck me that he refused to write anything on his dating profile, because he felt he was drawing too much attention on himself! I told him that he could have had sooooo many more guys, if he had the same witty and flirty attitude on his profile, as when he was face to face with me.
Thanks so much for your reply. Yes, I am average height Chinese guy, but love collecting black and white portraits and tennis.
 
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Could you elaborate of wonderful?

Sexy guys. Lovely bodies and I had fun. The Filipinio guy was delicious and hilarious. The Japanese guy was kind and giving and had a nice set of balls. The Chinese man and I hooked up once. He came in, fingered my ass and shot a load and left. Made me feel used...and I liked it, LOL.
 
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Sexy guys. Lovely bodies and I had fun. The Filipinio guy was delicious and hilarious. The Japanese guy was kind and giving and had a nice set of balls. The Chinese man and I hooked up once. He came in, fingered my ass and shot a load and left. Made me feel used...and I liked it, LOL.
Sounds all sexy and I am glad that you had fun! With the Chinese guy, did you cum at all?
 

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LPSG diverse community, I want to ask for your honest opinions on this for my own survey purpose. I have been on dating profile for a while now, and matched mostly Asian as myself. When I was in other parts of the U.S. I can recognize other white men and women see me as simply foreign, so I thought if I move to the Bay Area, with more Asians here, I'd naturally be more attractive, boy I was not correct on this, I am still feeling ignored by most white men and women, but I do get winks from Asian men and women. I guess I'd like to ask your opinion, aside from personalities, what aspects of Asian guys that don't make themselves attractive, and what aspects you do find positive? Gentle or harsh, I am all ears. Please, straight, gay, bi anyone's opinion.

I think it’s mostly racism and ignorance. I’m white, and although I’m pretty open to sleep with anyone, I’ve definitely encountered guys who have the prejudices of Asian men being weak or submissive or being less endowed. It’s really unfortunate that people are not open minded enough to look beyond their own personal biases
 

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I think it’s mostly racism and ignorance. I’m white, and although I’m pretty open to sleep with anyone, I’ve definitely encountered guys who have the prejudices of Asian men being weak or submissive or being less endowed. It’s really unfortunate that people are not open minded enough to look beyond their own personal biases
Most Asians are in fact physically less endowed, that's a fact; most Asians are in fact physically smaller built and can be weak that's also fact. I don't think Asians don't acknowledge these aspects
 
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Hey, Asian here.

Thank you for all the kind words regarding our ethnicity!

However, Asian is a really board term and we don't feel belong to it that much. For example, Japanese, Indonesian, and Kazakh are all Asian and they are totally different.

As someone from South East Asia (I'm Thai), I really like the fact that we're usually so optimistic and we don't take life that serious.

But still, based on my experience, many asians are indirect by default, which is really hard to make them open up to discuss about things.