What aspects of Asian guys do you find positive and negative?

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I honestly think it has nothing to do with race as it does with body/features etc. If you ask most men/women that say they dont want an asian man if they like asian food im sure 90% of them would say yes. Would they have asian friends, im sure yes. It has nothing to do with the race and everything to do with the physical image they have of asian men, and that is what they are most of the time. Shorter/slim/no facial hair etc. When we think of whats popular and what lots of gay men/woman are into, football players are a good place to look into. Big, built, masculine, strong etc How many asian men are in football?

BUTTT there def are exceptions, I have seen many Asian men with a “BODY” , masculine presence, facial hair etc Everyone checks them out etc, they always have some model like woman with them. In the gay scene ive seen them get lots of “approval” as well over others. Again all comes down to body, face, features(big dick, ass etc) . Here is a prime example of an asian man the defies the stereotypes everyone thinks if asian men, you can read 50+ pages of people lusting over him.

Youtuber/actor bart kwan
 
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I honestly think it has nothing to do with race as it does with body/features etc. If you ask most men/women that say they dont want an asian man if they like asian food im sure 90% of them would say yes. Would they have asian friends, im sure yes. It has nothing to do with the race and everything to do with the physical image they have of asian men, and that is what they are most of the time. Shorter/slim/no facial hair etc. When we think of whats popular and what lots of gay men/woman are into, football players are a good place to look into. Big, built, masculine, strong etc How many asian men are in football?

BUTTT there def are exceptions, I have seen many Asian men with a “BODY” , masculine presence, facial hair etc Everyone checks them out etc, they always have some model like woman with them. In the gay scene ive seen them get lots of “approval” as well over others. Again all comes down to body, face, features(big dick, ass etc) . Here is a prime example of an asian man the defies the stereotypes everyone thinks if asian men, you can read 50+ pages of people lusting over him.

Youtuber/actor bart kwan
I'm sorry but race still plays a big factor especially in the gay scene. Most guys will still choose a basic average looking white guy over a masculine muscle asian that looks like Bart Kwan. They'll reject any asian no matter what they look like.
 

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I'm sorry but race still plays a big factor especially in the gay scene. Most guys will still choose a basic average looking white guy over a masculine muscle asian that looks like Bart Kwan. They'll reject any asian no matter what they look like.
Well I cant help you there, that is your perception that you are choosing to believe and no one will be able to change that. You can always blame others and play the victim and see the glass half full with or you can get off your ass and make something of yourself like Bart Kwan has as well as Kevin Kreider

If you choose to believe an average white guy woudl be chosen over Bart or Kevin then you are delusional and obviously projecting your own preferences as your username also implys. Until youve put in the work Bart or Kevin have put in you have no say, just excuses.
 
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I honestly think it has nothing to do with race as it does with body/features etc. If you ask most men/women that say they dont want an asian man if they like asian food im sure 90% of them would say yes. Would they have asian friends, im sure yes. It has nothing to do with the race and everything to do with the physical image they have of asian men, and that is what they are most of the time. Shorter/slim/no facial hair etc. When we think of whats popular and what lots of gay men/woman are into, football players are a good place to look into. Big, built, masculine, strong etc How many asian men are in football?

BUTTT there def are exceptions, I have seen many Asian men with a “BODY” , masculine presence, facial hair etc Everyone checks them out etc, they always have some model like woman with them. In the gay scene ive seen them get lots of “approval” as well over others. Again all comes down to body, face, features(big dick, ass etc) . Here is a prime example of an asian man the defies the stereotypes everyone thinks if asian men, you can read 50+ pages of people lusting over him.

Youtuber/actor bart kwan
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I honestly think it has nothing to do with race as it does with body/features etc. If you ask most men/women that say they dont want an asian man if they like asian food im sure 90% of them would say yes. Would they have asian friends, im sure yes. It has nothing to do with the race and everything to do with the physical image they have of asian men, and that is what they are most of the time. Shorter/slim/no facial hair etc. When we think of whats popular and what lots of gay men/woman are into, football players are a good place to look into. Big, built, masculine, strong etc How many asian men are in football?

BUTTT there def are exceptions, I have seen many Asian men with a “BODY” , masculine presence, facial hair etc Everyone checks them out etc, they always have some model like woman with them. In the gay scene ive seen them get lots of “approval” as well over others. Again all comes down to body, face, features(big dick, ass etc) . Here is a prime example of an asian man the defies the stereotypes everyone thinks if asian men, you can read 50+ pages of people lusting over him.

Youtuber/actor bart kwa
I honestly think it has nothing to do with race as it does with body/features etc. If you ask most men/women that say they dont want an asian man if they like asian food im sure 90% of them would say yes. Would they have asian friends, im sure yes. It has nothing to do with the race and everything to do with the physical image they have of asian men, and that is what they are most of the time. Shorter/slim/no facial hair etc. When we think of whats popular and what lots of gay men/woman are into, football players are a good place to look into. Big, built, masculine, strong etc How many asian men are in football?

BUTTT there def are exceptions, I have seen many Asian men with a “BODY” , masculine presence, facial hair etc Everyone checks them out etc, they always have some model like woman with them. In the gay scene ive seen them get lots of “approval” as well over others. Again all comes down to body, face, features(big dick, ass etc) . Here is a prime example of an asian man the defies the stereotypes everyone thinks if asian men, you can read 50+ pages of people lusting over him.

Youtuber/actor bart kwan
Wow, thanks so much, that was a very well put answer. I remembered someone said to be at a gay bar- hot is hot, and I did not know what he meant, until a couple of years later that I saw someone with piercing beautiful eye and great smile, and of course very musculine body underneath the shirt, there and then, I was like, I'd hit that guy. So really, it's the muscular body that attracts people, even average face.
 

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Sorry to know buddy. Are you not hairy, not white or less endowed?
Hey, Asian here.

Thank you for all the kind words regarding our ethnicity!

However, Asian is a really board term and we don't feel belong to it that much. For example, Japanese, Indonesian, and Kazakh are all Asian and they are totally different.

As someone from South East Asia (I'm Thai), I really like the fact that we're usually so optimistic and we don't take life that serious.

But still, based on my experience, many asians are indirect by default, which is really hard to make them open up to discuss about things.
I was mainly asking for northern Chinese Asian guys then.
 

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Positive: they tend to not ask such racially-veiled questions. Negative: but some do.
LPSG diverse community, I want to ask for your honest opinions on this for my own survey purpose. I have been on dating profile for a while now, and matched mostly Asian as myself. When I was in other parts of the U.S. I can recognize other white men and women see me as simply foreign, so I thought if I move to the Bay Area, with more Asians here, I'd naturally be more attractive, boy I was not correct on this, I am still feeling ignored by most white men and women, but I do get winks from Asian men and women. I guess I'd like to ask your opinion, aside from personalities, what aspects of Asian guys that don't make themselves attractive, and what aspects you do find positive? Gentle or harsh, I am all ears. Please, straight, gay, bi anyone's opinio
 
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Personalities aside leaves me with physical attributes.

Northern Chinese, Japanese, Korean?

Eyes. Asian eyes are mad beautiful.
Jet black hair. Love it too.
Cute noses. Pale white skin.

Then moving down to SE Asia skin becomes progressively darker. Love that.

I like a slim petite body type but am not limited to it.

I think foreign accents are sexy but most Asians I've dated are 2nd, 3rd, 4th generation or more making them as American as anyone. I presume Asians I meet are not foreigners because most aren't.

Things I don't like are the same for all ethnicities. Bad teeth. Overweight. Bad breath. Poor hygiene. Bad skin.

I know what I like when I see it and am as picky as anyone. :cool:
 

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I knew people who use to put things like "no fats, no fems, no asians" on their dating profile - which I hated. It wasn't always easy to bring it up - but I always felt like there was some level of racism in that; odd given how often queer people experience being excluded to then do that to others.

How gay men justify their racism on Grindr

I've dated Asian men, a man from the UAE and once when I was living in Singapore a business man from north India who would visit regularly .

What did I learn? what did I like : there are stereotypes we all have - but once I got to the crux of treating everyone like a person and not as a stereotype - it was just better to date. I miss my time in Singapore (not the heat) but I had fun. Just treat every person like a person and enjoy it :)
 

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I've had the good fortune to be with at least four Asian guys, as well as a Chinese girlfriend, and they were all unique. But I love the characteristics that we tend to think of when we think of "Asians": tight, spare bodies with smooth skin over a hard lean musculature; thick dark straight spiky hair on the head; lustrous thickets of hair in the armpits (mmmmm, I get hard thinking of it) and in the pubic area, with neat happy trail from the navel; a certain behavioral restraint — the cliché used to be "inscrutable" — that seems cool and impassive but is a joy to see in unrestrained laughter or passion; and usually the great sense of humor that goes with sharp intelligence. That's my happy experience anyway.
Apart from that, they're all different. Just to counter one received stereotype, two of them had smallish cocks but man they'd get stiff instantly and stay up there for hours — always my preferred option over big bloated fleshy cocks that never quite get hard — while another, a US / Hong Kong guy, had the biggest cock I've ever seen. (Photos available at LPSG somewhere.) The fourth guy's cock I never actually got to see — long story…
There could have been another, and I'll always regret that. I shared a taxi with a football-crazy Japanese colleague who wanted to practise his English pick-up lines after a drunken night out in Osaka. As we arrived at my hotel he said "I want to fuck you". We both laughed and said goodnight but I still wonder how serious he was, and if I missed out on a night with a fit young Japanese guy. Fuuuuuck…
 

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I've had the good fortune to be with at least four Asian guys, as well as a Chinese girlfriend, and they were all unique. But I love the characteristics that we tend to think of when we think of "Asians": tight, spare bodies with smooth skin over a hard lean musculature; thick dark straight spiky hair on the head; lustrous thickets of hair in the armpits (mmmmm, I get hard thinking of it) and in the pubic area, with neat happy trail from the navel; a certain behavioral restraint — the cliché used to be "inscrutable" — that seems cool and impassive but is a joy to see in unrestrained laughter or passion; and usually the great sense of humor that goes with sharp intelligence. That's my happy experience anyway.
Apart from that, they're all different. Just to counter one received stereotype, two of them had smallish cocks but man they'd get stiff instantly and stay up there for hours — always my preferred option over big bloated fleshy cocks that never quite get hard — while another, a US / Hong Kong guy, had the biggest cock I've ever seen. (Photos available at LPSG somewhere.) The fourth guy's cock I never actually got to see — long story…
There could have been another, and I'll always regret that. I shared a taxi with a football-crazy Japanese colleague who wanted to practise his English pick-up lines after a drunken night out in Osaka. As we arrived at my hotel he said "I want to fuck you". We both laughed and said goodnight but I still wonder how serious he was, and if I missed out on a night with a fit young Japanese guy. Fuuuuuck…
Wow, your words are magical, so vivid memories and thanks for sharing
 
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Thanks for being so honest, beautiful and ugly people in every land. That's right, as I look down at my jet black pubic hair, kinda proud of it, I am always conscious about my foreskin, because its a bit dark, compared with a white pink euro foreskin, and you are right, mine is tight, not like euro saggy ones, that you can put your thumb and swim inside and dock, certainly can't dock mine, might cum on the other dick.
You sound really attractive. Should post (a lot) more :)
 
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