What awakened your sexual awareness?

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  1. someotherguy

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    I was driving this morning and heard a song on the radio that sent me back to the exact point in my life when I started to have feelings towards the opposite sex. I was 12 and that song was Aerosmith's "Crazy". The video for that song made me realize that that strange tightness in my pants was related to an attraction to women. Specifically Alicia Silverstone and Liv Tyler twirling on a stripper pole in that video. Shortly thereafter I told a friend about it and he told me all about masturbation and I've haven't looked back since.

    So my question for everyone is this, what was the first experience in your life that made you discover sex and awaken an attraction to the opposite or the same sex?

    Just curious to hear other people's stories.
     
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    Sorry... but I can't remember!!! I just remember the first time I came! :p
     
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    the first time i saw a porno when i was about 10.i was always a little horny(i would love it when my dick got hard as a kid)but when i found one of my dad's porn flicks stashed away and played it..WOW!! it was some john holmes movie where they always had an orgy scene at the end,and to see that all going on,suckin',fuckin',cum blastin' off.i was blown away.i wanted to do all that shit...thus was they day the perverted,sexually opened,quick to pull out his dick,sex talk-seeker,was born.
     
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    I always liked girls and had crushes on them, even in elementry school.

    Sexually I think it happened when I was tewlve years old. It was the first time I masturbated and lusted after a woman.

    On vacation with my best friend at his Aunt's cottage on the beach. She was in her mid thirties, but really hot. All week I was with her as she walked around in her bikini. Ass and breast jiggling everywhere, I really lusted after her and jerked off that week for the first time and then 3 times a day after.LOL
     
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    I've been sexually aware for as long as I could form memories. I remember fantasizing about Tinkerbell before I even really understood what sex was. I remember masturbating when I was four. I remember playing sexual games with my sister's friends when I was five. I have diary entries from the same age in which I wrote things about sex and all the girls I had crushes on. I always liked girls, never went through a "cooties" phase. When I was in pre-school I remember I had the hots for this redhead girl Shannon. In kindergarten there was Tammy and Jen, in 2nd grade it was Andrea, in 4th grade Chrissy, and so on. I was experimenting with sexual activity from the time I was five. I didn't actually have penetrative vaginal intercourse until I was 15... but I was aware of what this was and was interesting in trying it as early as 2nd or 3rd grade, possibly earlier than that.
     
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    Harrison Ford as Han Solo. I was 8. 'Nuff said.
     
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    Seeing hot guys on tv, growing up.
     
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    I Went Skinnydipping In A Creek At 12 With A 15 Year Old Boy And Before We Got Out I Was Blowing Him.
     
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    I can't remember any one specific instance but I do recall that over one summer when I was about 12 I found myself becoming very interested in looking at the local girls in their swimsuits and finding them so pleasing. Ever since, I've had a difficult time not staring at women in swimsuits.
     
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    Belinda Carlisle from The Go-Go's. I was around 11 years-old and I had my first sexual fantasy about her. It was not a wet dream (I have never had one of those) but I remember waking up with a raging hard-on.
     
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    My attraction to women was realized early in my life, when I saw Jamie Lee Curtis in True Lies, when she did that striptease/dance. Suddenly the world and women were very sexy... the curves, the mystery.... it was very interesting.

    My attraction to men happened 1.25 years ago, when I met a man who changed the way I think about other men.:smile:
     
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    I had forgotten about that. I almost wore out my VHS copy of that movie watching her striptease.
     
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    Is it true Jamie Lee Curtis was born a hermaphrodite and her parents decided to raise her a girl or is that just a rumor?
     
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    That's just a rumor. But if it's true then she's a hot hermaphrodite!
     
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    Aside from that scene in Trading Places (yeah, you know the one), she's always seemed a little man-ish. Her husband is the comic genius Christopher Guest and he seems a little on the gay side... so the balance must work out because they've been married for over 20 years.
     
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    What was the first experience in your life that made you discover sex and awaken an attraction to the opposite or the same sex?

    In the sixties my parents took me on a holiday to Yugoslavia (now Croatia). We loved beach holidays but what was surprising to teenager on his first trip abroad was how many women went topless. One day my parents wanted some time alone and a young couple who we became friendly with said they would look after me for the day.

    What a surprise I had in store – what I didn’t know at the time was there were a few isolated islands along the coast that allowed naked bathing. They had hired a small boat and we sailed across the bay to one such beach. I couldn’t believe my eyes – beautiful naked women were everywhere to be seen. I got an instant erection which was very obvious but I didn’t care I was enjoying the view! Being naïve I didn’t realise my new friends would also strip off but very soon there they were totally naked. Wow, didn’t Sarah have a fantastic figure – I couldn’t keep my eyes off her. To this day I can still see her lovely rounded breasts and her pussy covered with blond pubic hair. David invited me to strip off as well and said my erection would soon fade. He was right but seeing his large penis was also a first for me.

    I did strip off and enjoyed my first day of nude bathing. Strangely I didn’t feel embarrassed and to this day I love seeing the human form in its natural state. But back then I must have masturbated every day reliving the day I saw a naked woman for the first time.
     
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    I remember going to a drive in with my folks when I was about 9... it was an R-rated movie and my parents thought I was asleep when the "lust sequence" came.... I wasn't. I don't remember the movie, but I DO remember my hard-on! It was amazing!

    Interesting thread... the title got me going more than the content.

    The title said "awakened your sexual awareness." Throughout my earlier years, I loved sex, of course. But, I spent all my time trying to please others in bed.

    When I was 34, I was seeing a married guy, who would come over twice a week to fuck. I was always saying things like, "How does that feel? Is that good? Are you having a good time?"

    Finally, one day, while I was riding him, he said, "STOP! I want to know what YOU feel. Are you having a good time? Ride my cock and tell me what you're feeling."

    No one had ever asked me that before....

    As I continued, I started to really FEEL all the sensations. It was AN AWAKENING! It was an experience... I started to moan in ernest... I really came onto my own in sex.

    He said, "If you're only have sex to please someone else, someone gets lost in the shuffle... YOU!" It's really true. My sex life did an about-face when I started to truly enjoy myself... partners really get off on seeing you please yourself.

    After that, I wanted it morning, noon, and night.
     
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    Man, that's fucking hawt.
     
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    A hand held shower nozzle.
     
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    I had tons of visual images as a kid in the 70's and 80's from TV. I remember Linda Carter running with a slight jiggle; Sabrina Duncan's ass in her tight pants (I thought she was the hottest Angel until I saw Cheryl Ladd in the beige bikini on that boat); Even seeing Jamie Sommers' hair flowing as she ran in slow motion gave me a hardon. Later in life, when I was about 10, my father was watching a men's bodybuilding competition on TV and I remember getting hard watching it and adjusting myself. I guess that I was always bi.
     
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