There was a recent thread about the three qualities of your perfect guy or partner or whatever. Now let's make the opposite question. We tend to fantasize about what and who we want, but what in concrete terms can we offer to a potential partner? Anyone? Mention three things. Yes, this is self-propaganda. We can alloiw ourselves some self-indulgence at times, can't we? As for me: 1) a good body smell (in my own judgement) 2) listening ears (attention) 3) quick arousal (at least in terms of my age, lol).