What causes so many married men to have a suck buddy?

[Marriedinkansas]

I’m desperate for more cock to suck. Health and safety are major constraints. Plus my wife here most of the time. I need to trust the the guy. Being fussy is not idea when I want to be a total cum slut. It’s such a turn on, knowing now, as I do, there is so much cock that wants or needs to be sucked.

Have all the same concerns and desires

 

[northernirish]

I didn't really know this was a common thing! Where is my straight suck buddy

 

[figgnewton]

My father had a suck buddy because my mother would not do it,but my aunt would!

How do you know he was doing your aunt?

 

[figgnewton]

Divorced now, but I did have a suck buddy back when I was married. My wife did not like giving head and only did it out of obligation in return for when i ate her pussy. It was not the mindblowing experience with her, as it was with my suck buddy. He just loved sucking cock and was really good at it. Now that I am divorced, I still find that the women just don't suck cock like the guys do. Women are too much into the theatrics of sucking cock, where the guys are truly good at it, love it and want to do it.

More than likely that's true. Woman have drama baggage and just suck to complete the act and not really into it. NOT saying all woman but most. No data to support my opion other than knowing other males complaints.

 

[figgnewton]

I’m desperate for more cock to suck. Health and safety are major constraints. Plus my wife here most of the time. I need to trust the the guy. Being fussy is not idea when I want to be a total cum slut. It’s such a turn on, knowing now, as I do, there is so much cock that wants or

I’m desperate for more cock to suck. Health and safety are major constraints. Plus my wife here most of the time. I need to trust the the guy. Being fussy is not idea when I want to be a total cum slut. It’s such a turn on, knowing now, as I do, there is so much cock that wants or needs to be sucked.

"I need to trust the the guy" If you find a guy how can you trust him since he's been with how many unknown guys he sucked. It a BIG chance you are undertaking for HERPS, STDs etc. I hear there is an uptick on oral throat cancer. Your better off just holding your wife down and face fuck her and give her a good load. Eventually she will understand your needs and will probably like the taste. Be sure to eat lots if fruit especially pineapple and water. My opion.

 

[figgnewton]

I would love to be your suck buddy I need a serious man's dick to suck and swallow a few times weekly I will suck you anywhere you want me to meet you, I take my teeth out you can fuck my mouth too.

L0L !!

 

[figgnewton]

I don’t get that either, my wife quit fucking due to thinning vaginal wall pain. My doc told me she brought that on herself since she suddenly reduced our PIV.
Almost 40 years of marriage and she only sucked me to completion 1, one time. It was one of the best I’d ever had so she has sucked some cock before. She didn’t like it because it made her feel subservient, although I have given her hundreds if not thousands of orgasms orally.
My wife is very manipulative.
The longest she had ever gone down on me was a couple of minutes for foreplay. I was fine with that, I always wanted to fuck since those bjs were always the teasing type, not the make him cum type.

Typical woman... drama. She gets what she wants and fuck you ie. Verbally.

 

[otherwise_door]

For me it's having been into the cuck/HW thing for so long - IRL with an ex and now just pillow talk with my current, thinking of huge cocks fucking my woman, being turned on by that kind of straight porn and then wondering what it would be like to handle one. Simple progression I guess.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

I am a married guy and I too would like to have a suck buddy. I had one for several years when pussy was not available. My suck buddy kept my spine drained of cum. I'm just curious what makes so many married men have a suck buddy on the side? Do you think men suck cock better than woman? What drives married men to want a suck buddy? Just curious as to what all the responses will say!

is it really that big a thing? I never had one, nor did I ever know anyone who did. guess I just led a boring life

 

[BlueStinger]

This thread is such a weird way to glorify cheating…

 

[deleted1946111]

The simple answer to the OP is that those married men aren't getting the sexual activity from their partners that they desire.

Not that simple all the time. As we get older time running away.. A realisation that it’s now. Or never. Never try a cock, feel it, suck it, feel it cum, taste it’s cum. Or decide we only live once, and give it a go.. then when tried, it’s enjoyed, it’s amazing, it’s something needed…then the longing for more

 

[johnweek1]

My guess? Closeted BI, or desperate for sexual gratification and their wife is either terrible at sex, or stopped putting out. In the case of straight but getting head, it could be a power thing; a man who has another man sucking his dick is in a position of subservience. It could also possibly feel less "bad" like he's not really "cheating", if he is cheating, since it's with a man and he has no attraction, he just wants to cum.

Not making any claims myself, just trying to put myself in their headspace.

 

[Woodcasey]

Hola. Any married or non married guys here in Chicagoland curious or looking for a suck buddy? Maybe I can help. . Message me.

 

[chrisrobin]

Its really quite simple why so many men have a suck buddy - they need to get their rocks off in other ways than masturbation.
As a cock sucker of many years you see the pattern, commuter guys tossing in the corner of the gents on the way home, knowing the little lady is going to be sexually frigid and he feels horny. And along comes guy who gives him head, no strings just suck cum and swallow.
Once they realise they can get a guy who just wants to suck cock, on their terms, it all falls into place, and, technically its not cheating!
The latest guy to use my services is 28, 3 kids, wife not into sucking a "dirty" let alone getting it to cum in her mouth then relegating sex to Saturday night every other week "because".
He came to me on recommendation - yes some guys do chart and do swap notes and do confess to not having a randy 7 nights a week fuck fest with their wives. He likes to chat, get sucked off and then maybe hang about and do it again. For him its safe, its on his terms and because I am an older guy I'm not going to cause waves, and, am open to suggestions from him about what he would like done. Unlike his wife I always swallow, have no qualms about sucking his "dirty" dick and know that he goes home satisfied.

 

[deleted21788731]

I'm married but have loved sucking cock and fucking pussy early on. I have 2 buddies. Both married. I'm 53 the other guys are 54 and 35. We get together and pleasure each other when the wives won't put out anymore.

This should be amongst the best answers lol

 

[Iwanthead]

I am a married guy and I too would like to have a suck buddy. I had one for several years when pussy was not available. My suck buddy kept my spine drained of cum. I'm just curious what makes so many married men have a suck buddy on the side? Do you think men suck cock better than woman? What drives married men to want a suck buddy? Just curious as to what all the responses will say!

No wine n dine needed. Both want the same thing. I want and need a throat to unload in, they want me to unload down their throat. Win win.

 

[Iwanthead]

I would love to be your suck buddy I need a serious man's dick to suck and swallow a few times weekly I will suck you anywhere you want me to meet you, I take my teeth out you can fuck my mouth too.

Kydicksucker I will fill your throat with my cock n cum.

 

[brandon38]

Its because some women stop sucking after getting married, not an issue for me in that respect, I just like to get sucked off by anyone who will do it, never fussy who it is when I am cumming in someones mouth

Yes your right

 

[Woodcasey]

Most of the married guys I knew have been my feeders for years!! Trustworthiness and willingness to provide the great services are what they are looking for and needing different from home. They always save up so that they can let me suck and swallow them down my hungry throat!!

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

Because they are secretly gay or bisexual.