What causes so many married men to have a suck buddy?

[328982]

I'm not sure the premise - that ’so many married men have a suck buddy' - is true. I don't know of any straight married men who do and doubt it's that common.

If you're turned on by a woman then having a man on the end of your dick is not going to do much for you. It's not just about technique or knowing your way round a knob.

I also think that if you are married it is wrong to play around with other people, male or female. What is the point of marriage otherwise? Infidelity causes pain and damage, not least to the children of wrecked marriages. Monogamy is good, and if you can't manage it, don't get married.

 

[figgnewton]

I'm not sure the premise - that ’so many married men have a suck buddy' - is true. I don't know of any straight married men who do and doubt it's that common.

If you're turned on by a woman then having a man on the end of your dick is not going to do much for you. It's not just about technique or knowing your way round a knob.

I also think that if you are married it is wrong to play around with other people, male or female. What is the point of marriage otherwise? Infidelity causes pain and damage, not least to the children of wrecked marriages. Monogamy is good, and if you can't manage it, don't get married.

I like your post but why are you 80/ 20?

 

[figgnewton]

I'm married but have loved sucking cock and fucking pussy early on. I have 2 buddies. Both married. I'm 53 the other guys are 54 and 35. We get together and pleasure each other when the wives won't put out anymore.

Just curious, you guys watch porn, watch news on tv, chat about life, watch each other suck, do a circle jerk, etc ? You guys are lucky to have 2 other cocks to play with. Life is great ! ! Woman are drama queens, guys just get down to business

 

[1003970]

Coming from both personal experience as a cocksucker and a close friend who is seemingly a magnet for married guys who want their dick sucked, I think it's possibly a matter of asserting male dominance and simply getting your rocks off, blended together. Nothing makes a guy feel more "alpha" than having another man submit to him, and sucking cock is the perfect form of submission. I've probably hooked up with at least 20 married men in the last 14 years of sexual activity, and my friend (who lives in a small city in central Virginia) probably meets that many guys in the span of 3 months.

 

[figgnewton]

one of the best and honest answers posted in this thread! thank you!

I agree with your post. I have no credentials of being a sexologist but do believe that there are guys out there that lust for cock and do it far better than a married woman. But I do recall some girl friends that really could suck , probably chrome off a bumper. But again they were just girl friends not married. Sex in marriage can loose it's luster over the years and can become a boring job for some MEN and woman. I tend to sway more for woman that the sexual drive goes away but I think that's part of the woman's anatomy and nature. I think in most part men want sex all the time and there is nothing like a GOOD blow job to relax the body and mind whether giving or receiving. Just my option.

 

[Naughty Teacher]

dont have a clue

 

[deleted1039177]

I get head from men from time to time and it's usually for the reasons cited by other men on this post. Just chiming in as another married cocksucker seeking top.

 

[554279]

My wife is my suck buddy, but she usually fucks it up towards the end because she wants me to screw her. It's OK because I usually turn her into my dinner companion as I like to nibble on a bit of taco when getting sucked. You should try it. Also keeps you out of embarrassing situations or brushed with the law.

Moral of the story, if you want a blowjob from the wife (or someone else's for that matter), eat the pussy.

 

[328982]

I like your post but why are you 80/ 20?

Thanks. I am 80/20 because I feel attraction to women but my relationships have been almost all gay. Plus I'm monogamous and staid and probably quite boring in bed.

 

[1003970]

Thanks. I am 80/20 because I feel attraction to women but my relationships have been almost all gay. Plus I'm monogamous and staid and probably quite boring in bed.

With a dick like that, it would be pretty impossible to be *that* boring in bed

 

[normguy]

I'm a retired guy (retired early) and moved to a new city a couple years ago. I hooked up with a younger married guy (mid-40's) when I placed an ad on CL. I wasn't sure how far things would go seeing I was pretty inexperienced in male/male stuff. But we've had fun now for almost two years. The guy is married with kids, has a responsible job, and is a super nice fellow. But he told me he doesn't get much sexual satisfaction at home anymore. His wife doesn't like to suck his cock and when she does it seems more out of obligation than passion.
He comes over once in awhile. Here he can relax and simply enjoy being pleasured by someone like me who is passionate and open-minded about trying different things that neither his wife or any previous girlfriends wanted to do. No drama, no strings. He leaves with a smile on his face every time.

 

[chadstallion]

I'm a retired guy (retired early) and moved to a new city a couple years ago. I hooked up with a younger married guy (mid-40's) when I placed an ad on CL. I wasn't sure how far things would go seeing I was pretty inexperienced in male/male stuff. But we've had fun now for almost two years. The guy is married with kids, has a responsible job, and is a super nice fellow. But he told me he doesn't get much sexual satisfaction at home anymore. His wife doesn't like to suck his cock and when she does it seems more out of obligation than passion.
He comes over once in awhile. Here he can relax and simply enjoy being pleasured by someone like me who is passionate and open-minded about trying different things that neither his wife or any previous girlfriends wanted to do. No drama, no strings. He leaves with a smile on his face every time.

I'd say that sums up my answer based on the guys I service/see.

 

[chadstallion]

a follow up-
I asked a buddy who I just finished giving a bj to why, as a married man, he likes to do this activity.
after he mentioned: the wife won't blow him, I do a very good job, the other answer was that he gets very horny and while he would rather have a woman blow him, I'm much easier to arrange. It's in the middle of the day, between sales calls, and he doesn't have to make conversation, flirt, do all the things a woman would want/expect him to do. He can come to my place, unzip, lie on the bed, watch some porn, I do the rest. It's 20-25 minutes out of his day, he got a blow job and is back to work. feeling much better (!) [ that part is my contribution!]

 

[figgnewton]

I'm not sure the premise - that ’so many married men have a suck buddy' - is true. I don't know of any straight married men who do and doubt it's that common.

If you're turned on by a woman then having a man on the end of your dick is not going to do much for you. It's not just about technique or knowing your way round a knob.

I also think that if you are married it is wrong to play around with other people, male or female. What is the point of marriage otherwise? Infidelity causes pain and damage, not least to the children of wrecked marriages. Monogamy is good, and if you can't manage it, don't get married.

I agree with Horsehung30 and one other thing, I prefer a beautiful woman at the end of my cock looking up , sexy face , dreamy eyes and a wanting lipstick mouth giving the ultimate satisfaction to her guy. Woman are are so beautiful which adds to the excitement. I've had a few women that really enjoyed sucking cock with no intention of reciprocal sex ,just wanted to please and enjoy the fruit of their labor. Yep, had some that had no idea how to pleasure or worship a cock. I rather have a woman any day, just seems so much more natural that she wants my seed whether swallow or a natural facial to keep her skin soft and supple. That s my opinion.

 

[hairynycstud]

As a whole think men suk dick better than chicks..not a chore or a service.and a guy knows what feels good. BUT guys are real simple and uncomplicated..guy wants to unload..and cock dont care if its male or female as long as its a warm mouth. Its not a lifestyle choice..its a no-frill service

 

[figgnewton]

As a whole think men suk dick better than chicks..not a chore or a service.and a guy knows what feels good. BUT guys are real simple and uncomplicated..guy wants to unload..and cock dont care if its male or female as long as its a warm mouth. Its not a lifestyle choice..its a no-frill service

So very true, we men are simple and one track mind... Sex and getting off.

 

[Teejboogie]

Can I just say, I absolutely love your comment. It's so true. Too true. Love it. And you're right, guys give up too easy instead of working it out with their wives. But I think it has to do with most guys have probably always wanted to try getting sucked off by a guy. And simply because it's so easy these days to get a blowjob from a guy. Hell, you don't even have to talk to the guy really, to get your dick sucked. I think that's the thrill of it. Not having to do anything just to get their dick sucked. But you're so right.

 

[Teejboogie]

a follow up-
I asked a buddy who I just finished giving a bj to why, as a married man, he likes to do this activity.
after he mentioned: the wife won't blow him, I do a very good job, the other answer was that he gets very horny and while he would rather have a woman blow him, I'm much easier to arrange. It's in the middle of the day, between sales calls, and he doesn't have to make conversation, flirt, do all the things a woman would want/expect him to do. He can come to my place, unzip, lie on the bed, watch some porn, I do the rest. It's 20-25 minutes out of his day, he got a blow job and is back to work. feeling much better (!) [ that part is my contribution!]

Right on point.

 

[art52]

I am a married guy and sucking another man off or being sucked is becoming my preference. I think it is exciting to be in a position to offer up my cock to another man who needs it as well as the excitement I feel getting a guy to cum when I suck him. Cock is the main player with women or men, it is all about the cock.

 

[Jjz1109]

a follow up-
I asked a buddy who I just finished giving a bj to why, as a married man, he likes to do this activity.
after he mentioned: the wife won't blow him, I do a very good job, the other answer was that he gets very horny and while he would rather have a woman blow him, I'm much easier to arrange. It's in the middle of the day, between sales calls, and he doesn't have to make conversation, flirt, do all the things a woman would want/expect him to do. He can come to my place, unzip, lie on the bed, watch some porn, I do the rest. It's 20-25 minutes out of his day, he got a blow job and is back to work. feeling much better (!) [ that part is my contribution!]

Lol. You're a regular Florence nightingale! Does he partake in the oral activity / pleasings?