What causes so many married men to have a suck buddy?

[554279]

Without trying to derail the whole wankfest fantasy here of married suck buddies I have to ask a few questions:

Just curious but how come when a male that is self acknowledged or perceived to be Bisexual and in a relationship with a female, it is presumed the default is that he is gay and staying with the wife to "avoid problems"?

Did it ever occur to those that ask not to be judged (but seem to have no problem in judging others) that perhaps, just maybe, he (the apparent lucky winner and unspoken majority of all married males in this scenario) actually likes pussy and all things that go with the woman and is just stepping out to scratch an itch?

Finally why would actual (I say actual because I have a hard time visualizing every gay or bi guy roaming the country side looking for married cock owners) Gay or Bisexual men actually engage in something with another person where there was little to zero commitment from the owner of the errant cock in question?

 

[novice_btm]

...why would... men actually engage in something with another person where there was little to zero commitment from the owner of the errant cock in question?

Not speaking for anyone, but just generally saying, that question rather answers itself. Almost everywhere you look, there are ads, profiles, etc., that have people looking for "NSA" (No Stings Attached) sex, hookups, or one-night stands. It's not limited to gay and bisexual men. There are plenty of straight men that look for "zero commitment" from women, whether either be errant, or not.

 

[Gj816]

I'd just as soon have someone that's gonna be regular. Not that I oppose NSA but I'd rather have someone who I can trust and depend on to be there to meet my needs. A fwb would be ideal.

 

[Zak Bull]

I'd just as soon have someone that's gonna be regular. Not that I oppose NSA but I'd rather have someone who I can trust and depend on to be there to meet my needs. A fwb would be ideal.

I think it can be "no strings" and still be a buddy... Just don't have to get married or anything
But a few beers, getting head, and watching Thor movies is still fine.
Wish I was closer to ya... heh.

 

[Gj816]

Me too.

 

[554279]

Not speaking for anyone, but just generally saying, that question rather answers itself. Almost everywhere you look, there are ads, profiles, etc., that have people looking for "NSA" (No Stings Attached) sex, hookups, or one-night stands. It's not limited to gay and bisexual men. There are plenty of straight men that look for "zero commitment" from women, whether either be errant, or not.

Don't disagree but it seems to take on almost exaggerated and epidemic levels of proportionality here.

 

[Alfied131]

I have liked cock forever and had a suck wank buddy early on. I didn't have another until I was in my mid 40's and my wife and I were still fucking regularly so it wasn't lack of sex with me just that I fancied sucking a cock again. Possibly brought on by us watching bi male porn together.

I think there are many reasons why and every one has a different one

 

[deleted1000191]

I got my first suck buddy when I was fifty. I think my arousal to the idea was heightened by his wife watching me take a cock in my mouth and ass for the first time. I'm 63 now, and have probably sucked at least fifty men, the large majority married. No hugging, no kissing, just suck each other, and if they want to fuck me, I'm open to it. It took me several years to stop just sucking a cock, but to actually make love to it with my mouth. I now consider myself a fairly accomplished blow job artist.
Many men have never had a chance to try anal sex before, either because they are afraid to ask the wife or girlfriend, or the woman has made it clear that her ass is exit only.
As for people who say they always find 8+ inch cocks to play with, I say bullshit. I've only had one guy who was an honest seven inches, and I think I've had enough cocks in my mouth to have a good idea of average size. Most men I suck have been between 5-6".
The only thing I am embarrassed about sucking cocks, is I don't always want the cum in my mouth, or to swallow a load. Just depends on the day, and the cock. It is usually guys I have sucked several times before that I am most comfortable eating their semen.

 

[cockcuriousjock]

For me I can definitely say that I Am well taken care of if not outgunned by my wife of many years. I end up having a difficult time keeping up with her as it is. However as open-minded and dirty as she is...she is admittedly not turned on by observing any M/M cock sucking.

When I was younger I had an older neighbor who requested i sucked him fairly regularly but I've not done it since then and I have to admit that I would totally love to find a suck buddy who would not mind sitting back and letting me reacquire my skill-set! LOL!

 

[903private]

I'm a married guy, and have always loved watching blowjob porn. For the last couple of years while watching, I fantasize I'm sucking that hard cock. Wished I could find another married guy that felt the same, develop a friendship, and become suck buddies. I think it would be easier to burn water than find someone who feels like I do.

 

[Zak Bull]

^ it's not impossible... There are guys just like that out there.

Sure, I'm way more gay than you're describing, but I've hooked up with guys just like you. Some started just wanting head, then moved on to wanting to suck a cock too. Some great guys.

 

[cuestick]

Hi All, my first post here. I identify with purely straight but lately have wanted to find a suck buddy. I have never done anything with a guy before but my wife does not like to suck me, she will put her mouth on my cock for a minute or so but then quickly moves on to other things. Sometimes I just want to enjoy a mouth sliding up and down my hard cock until I explode. I don't want a woman as it typically requires an emotional attachment. I don't know for sure but I am hopeful to find a guy who enjoys sucking just for the sake of sucking and satisfy both our needs.

 

[chadstallion]

Hi All, my first post here. I identify with purely straight but lately have wanted to find a suck buddy. I have never done anything with a guy before but my wife does not like to suck me, she will put her mouth on my cock for a minute or so but then quickly moves on to other things. Sometimes I just want to enjoy a mouth sliding up and down my hard cock until I explode. I don't want a woman as it typically requires an emotional attachment. I don't know for sure but I am hopeful to find a guy who enjoys sucking just for the sake of sucking and satisfy both our needs.

this is the number one reason why my buddies see me.

 

[Zak Bull]

Yup.

 

[deleted142346]

blow job artist.

Nice one!

 

[Mywifeknows]

I have been trying to find a cock to service for 10 years or so. I had a friend before that that liked me to suck him a lot, but he got married and moved. I would like a straight one like my previous friend. He never did anything for me, and only fucked women, my wife included. I liked licking her juice off his cock. I miss it terribly, but am having no luck finding another man to service.

Anybody not getting head around st paris ohio, try me out.

 

[Mywifeknows]

Sorry, i hit the button before i finished. I want to be a suck buddy, but do not need sucked by the other buddy. There ate a lot of nsa ads around here, but i want a steady. I want it just for the plesure of sucking cock,,mainly because my wife does not have a cock! Why else would anyone need a man?

 

[LutherCorps]

I never heard of a black male who is married talking about having a suck buddy. But I am assuming so many white males have suck buddies because they are bisexual.

 

[1013722]

I have two suck buddies because I am bi. I believe most guys that like dick and are married are bi. I do admit that so far men suck me much better then my wife. I love being married and all the fucking we do but I do love being sucked by men

 

[MAMS]

I'm at a point in my life where I'm single and am not dating and really am tired of the chase that dating requires. I would LOVE to find a handful of guys to blow on a regular basis as it's my favorite thing to do. Don't need any significant attachments, sure we can grab a beer every now and then too, cause I'm not a monster. But that would really be ideal for me. Hoping to make some connections here on the site.