What causes this, and does it feel good?

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what causes it are the ligaments holding everything in place becoming weakened or damaged.
those inner membranes are supposed to stay inner, held in place by connective tissues.

google says 1/4 of women over 50 have some degree of prolapse.
 
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likes in the Pink Glove thread.. i ain't clicking the links. :smile:

if ya seeing more than a 1/2" of so of vaginal skin is caused by low arousal, lack of lubrication.

on the suck/pull.. i mentioned something about it in a thread about foreskin and sex. a few other people mentioned noticing the same sensation. the pull isn't strong enough to expose vaginal lining. shortly after making my original post i asked the boy what it felt like to him.. he said he could feel the suction, and he could feel when the vacuum was released. he would have mentioned any vag cling.

the thread it's self.. nobody was screaming. prolapse is a legit possibility that can result from injury during sex. so is not hysteria to mention when so much of porn now days seems intent on portraying women as having indestructible vaginas the male performers are dead set on stress testing the limits of.

personal grumble: the ladies give you heaps of leeway, cuz you seem to genuinely love women and sex. this time though, with the subject, and ya reaction to honest responses.. we ain't a lab experiment. what ya might consider a turn-on some of us might have some negative experience with.

respect some boundaries.. i guess that's the short version.

ml


efukt is awash with sexualize violence and misogyny. really, where is the joke in watching someone's anus rip during sex?
 

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too late eta:

should read something closer to less than a half inch *maybe less* is a lube issue/possible body quirk.
more than that, and depending on what is comfortable to ya ladyfriend, could be damaging.
 

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This is the first time today I can actually sit down and compose a response. It's been hectic IRL as well as with MrsR

I believe that's called a "Pink Sock" I'd heard it was painful. Don't know for sure. Doesn't seem like the right fourm....

Pink Sock is a new one for me. Never heard that term. As far as the right forum; I thought this would be the perfect forum because of the female perspective.

Granted, in hindsight, maybe women have never even seen this firsthand from the angle. For us it's almost always when we're doing it doggy stye *as* she'e cumming. Meaning, it's when her vagina grips harder and more completely around my cock that this occurs. This is true no matter how wet she is as well.

This happens to all the women I've been with and it's almost always been most pronounced as they've orgasmed. I thought it was a beautiful gesture of, "I'm not going to let you go."

Doesn't that happen to everyone? :confused:

Yep, I think this may be more appropriate in the sex with a large penis sub-forum come to think of it.

...ive seen the same in anal clips.i think your girth or tightness theory is on track.i doubt they can distinctly feel the sensation as the inside is pulled out.i would assume its the same soreness or pain vaginas ignore during sex we all tend to hear about as members of lpsg.

I think you're right. I asked MrsR about it tonight and she says she really can't feel when it's being pulled out like that. And as we all know that a lot of the pleasure/pain wires get crossed frequently, she may not feel pain where she should?

raw, please point out the bit where i scream.
delightfully insulting way to make my post out to be hysterical and unreasonable btw.

whether you buy it or not makes no difference.

When you said...

it's called prolapse ffs :rolleyes:

For fuck's sake (ffs) isn't hysterical? I know how you form an opinion, get on your soapbox, turn the argument in your favor by stating something radically one sided and rally the townsfolk.

This is partially why I've slowed down my posting the last few months. I was fully expecting you to get on some bandwagon about either how stupidly irritating people are or how guys always come ambling in for fresh new fap material.

the insides belong on the insides.
fetishising injury is fucked up.

Who said anything about fetishisizing injuries here? For us, it happens at the moment of climax when she grips the tightest and you say that having visible signs of orgasms for her are fetishising injuries for me?

Give me a fucking break. I may be pulling on the walls as MickeyLee describes, but calling it a prolapse and raising the alarm bells for something totally natural, yet utterly foreign to you, is downright closed minded of you.

I see what you're doing with that post. :cool:

Which is exactly what I said to myself when I read her response. There is nothing malicious or sadistic about my question, but leave it to her to polarize the topic from the get go. I suppose I should be flattered that it's generated a lot of responses, but this is totally putting me in the wrong light and frankly I resent this.

it's called a doctor's appointment

I should call a doctor regarding my wife's vagina doing that? Oddly enough, I'd like to hear from the guy's perspective in a women's forum for once. How many of you guys have witnessed this firsthand when doing doggy?

Yes partial prolapse. The lass needs to get to a doctor asap.

My wife has a partial prolapse? Are you talking about MrsR or Dolfette's post?

Again, I don't see the similarity. I'm thinking this happens to all women it's just not an angle you see at all whilst fucking.

Rawdog you been hanging out on Efukt forums too? That's been the subject for days over there. lol

I may be absent for a while and look through that forum. I've avoided that website from the start and unfortunately forgot about the forest when I saw the tree I linked to. I'll be searching for that and report here if I find anything interesting.

likes in the Pink Glove thread.. i ain't clicking the links. :smile:

Fair enough. Your replies were fair, but if you hadn't seen my example vs. Dolfette's you can't say for sure if I was "fetishizing injury".

if ya seeing more than a 1/2" of so of vaginal skin is caused by low arousal, lack of lubrication.

MrsR's goes between 1/2" to 1". Mostly about a 1/2". Lube is massively used always. And as I said earlier it's always most pronounced when she's cumming.

on the suck/pull.. i mentioned something about it in a thread about foreskin and sex. a few other people mentioned noticing the same sensation. the pull isn't strong enough to expose vaginal lining. shortly after making my original post i asked the boy what it felt like to him.. he said he could feel the suction, and he could feel when the vacuum was released. he would have mentioned any vag cling.

I read through your description and, although I'm cut, the suction is definitely felt. It's felt when my cockhead is sealed by her cul-de-sac when I first pop in. When I start pulling out, I feel no friction on my head until the seal breaks and her vaginal walls let me go (the peak of the "sleeving" for lack of better terms.

the thread it's self.. nobody was screaming. prolapse is a legit possibility that can result from injury during sex. so is not hysteria to mention when so much of porn now days seems intent on portraying women as having indestructible vaginas the male performers are dead set on stress testing the limits of.

Dolfette's use of "ffs" is enough to indicate eye rolling hand waving hysteria for me. Maybe because I can plot the trajectory of her posts?

personal grumble: the ladies give you heaps of leeway, cuz you seem to genuinely love women and sex. this time though, with the subject, and ya reaction to honest responses.. we ain't a lab experiment. what ya might consider a turn-on some of us might have some negative experience with.

respect some boundaries.. i guess that's the short version.

Leeway? I kinda figured my reputation for having a diagnostic point of view and almost passionate pursuit of the perfect orgasm would've been enough to open up a dialogue. I don't feel that with this thread. It's a shame too, I really am curious for a blossoming number of reasons now.

efukt is awash with sexualize violence and misogyny. really, where is the joke in watching someone's anus rip during sex?

There were no anuses prolapsed in the efukt clip I linked to, by the way.

too late eta:

should read something closer to less than a half inch *maybe less* is a lube issue/possible body quirk.
more than that, and depending on what is comfortable to ya ladyfriend, could be damaging.

MrsR gets sore after around 45 minutes, but the issues have almost little to do with the part that gets sleeved. It's her deepspot and her outer labia that get sore from the pounding.
 

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Like I put on another website about this subject:

A lot of those women have episiotomy scars and the scar tissue will tight up and cause the opening of the vagina to be tighter than it should be. Particularly if the surgeon sewed the opening too tightly anyway.

Also the ligaments that hold up the vagina are lax and it's an early prolapse issue. There are ligaments around the hip area in the abdomen that hold up all of the reproductive organs properly, if this ligament is loose (which is often the case with women who have pushed a baby out, particularly a larger than normal baby or had a prolonged pushing phase) they will have all of their parts coming down that much with the outward movement of the thrust.

It's not a healthy thing but porn is not unlikely to use something like this to make it look like it's all about the big cock stretching out the pussy. When that really isn't that case at all. What it is about is that this pussy has been stretched out so much before from birth and the opening is too tight and/or the pelvic ligaments are failing her.

I feel sorry for them actually. They will be paying a lot of money for gynecological surgery later because of this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gdAMS...86AHTwJGZgAAAA

I am extremely tight and my husband is pretty girthy and that never happens. Everything is extremely tight including my ligaments. If you hold your fingers as if to make an L with your index finger and thumb (like LOSER) and pinch the area that is pulled between the two fingers. That should be about all the skin of the forchette area of the vaginal opening that would pull if the woman is just tight and has inadequate lubrication.

If she is tight all the way in, this won't happen. If she has ligaments working like they should this won't happen. A combo of the two things make this happen. If you see a little puffy, lighter or darker than normal line where this is stretching, she has had an episiotomy in birth. That alone won't do it, but it's pretty obvious for me because I've seen so many births in person.

You can be really loose with good ligaments and this won't happen.
You can be really tight with good ligaments and this won't happen.

But the biggest reason for uterine/rectal prolapse in women is a vaginal birth in their lifetime. If they are showing these signs at a younger age, it's only going to get worse with time and they are likely pissing a little with every cough and sneeze. If not now, then it won't be long.

Then they will need this:

Urinary Incontinence: Vaginal Bladder Sling - YouTube

How about that for sexy?!

Have a nice day! ;)~
 

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Looking at clip #2 of what should've been my original link:

eFukt.com | Clingers

at 0:55, it seems like the lady has massive labia minora. Which makes me think this may be also a function of labia minora size?

No because you can see the delineation between what is exposed to air by being external tissue verses the type of tissue thickness and texture that changes when it is the actual vaginal wall that needs a different level of mucosa for the purpose it has.

Just look at those this way, her cervix is coming down with each thrust, like your dick isn't any less close to her cervix on the outpull when her ligaments aren't tight in the pelvis.
 
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so...I'm still confused...does this happen normally or not? I dunno if this happens to me or not lol....I wouldn't think it does...but have never seen myself like that lol

It depends what you mean by 'normally'. 'Normally' is an inappropriate word, really. If a woman's ligaments are at least somewhat weakened it is 'normal', it would seem. It is not an unnatural thing. But then cancer is not an unnatural thing and, at the rate it occurs in humans, could certainly be described as 'normal'. Is it something that one can see in all women? No. Are weakened ligaments in the pelvic region a good thing, generally? No. Am I being 'hysterical' comparing it to cancer? I'm not really comparing them, just trying to highlight the impropriety of the word 'normal'. Will I be accused of adding to the 'hysterical tone' of the women who do not like the concept of the 'pink glove' as anything other than an undesirable effect of sex? Almost certainly.
 

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It depends what you mean by 'normally'. 'Normally' is an inappropriate word, really. If a woman's ligaments are at least somewhat weakened it is 'normal', it would seem. It is not an unnatural thing. But then cancer is not an unnatural thing and, at the rate it occurs in humans, could certainly be described as 'normal'. Is it something that one can see in all women? No. Are weakened ligaments in the pelvic region a good thing, generally? No. Am I being 'hysterical' comparing it to cancer? I'm not really comparing them, just trying to highlight the impropriety of the word 'normal'. Will I be accused of adding to the 'hysterical tone' of the women who do not like the concept of the 'pink glove' as anything other than an undesirable effect of sex? Almost certainly.

I'm still confused :(