What causes women's different opinions of size?

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It seems like women's opinions of how much size matters are all over the map. Some say bigger is definitely better, others prefer average size. Some even seem to prefer a small penis. I'm wondering why that is. It seems there are a few possible reasons:

1. Different anatomy. Does a small vs large vagina affect opinion of penis size?

2. Inexperience. Maybe a woman who has never experienced a large penis will think she prefers average or small. Conversely, maybe a woman who has only had a large penis will think bigger is better, but without ever trying an average or small penis.

3. Psychological effect? Maybe some women are visually turned on by a large penis and others are indifferent? Maybe some women are excited by idea they are with a man with a large penis?

Or is it a combination of these factors? Which do you think is the most relevant?

My limited personal experience would suggest vagina size. The times when I seemed to please my partner the most was when she had a smaller vagina. These woman felt snug to my smaller girth, at least when first entering. Other woman have felt loose right from the beginning and did enjoy sex as much as my smaller partners.
 

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1. Not knowing how my vagina compares to other women's I can't answer this question.

2. Inexperience could be a huge factor to me. Of the very few men I have been initmate with by far the largest was most satisfying. Actually let me restate that ... the largest one was the only satisfying one. I have no interest in searching out average or smaller than average just to try it out and find out if the reverse is true.

3. I think I am more visual than most women, therefore when I see a nice looking penis that is on the larger size it is very arousing.
 

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2. Inexperience could be a huge factor to me. Of the very few men I have been initmate with by far the largest was most satisfying. Actually let me restate that ... the largest one was the only satisfying one. I have no interest in searching out average or smaller than average just to try it out and find out if the reverse is true.

It sounds like you have already compared large to average or small. Or were they all large, just some larger than others?
 

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In my case it's a combination of 1 and 3. I have the psychological factors - visual as well as just the "thoughts" of it, but if it wasn't for factor #1, it would not be pleasurable. Factor #1 is the main reason for me. I'm - ahem! - experienced enough to know that #2 is not a factor at all. I've been with different sizes of men, and after being with only larger men for a long time, I was fairly recently with an average sized and a small man. I know for a fact now, as if I didn't know it before, that a larger guy works better for me.

Most women who prefer average size or smaller I would say that it is mainly factor #1 - because of their size, a larger man would be painful to them. At least the ones I've known who prefer average or smaller have said this. And for the record, since most men are average, and some men are smaller, I am very glad that there are women like this out there. :smile:

There are also women who because of factor #3, like to LOOK at larger men (in porn, etc.), but because of factor #1, prefer to actually have sex with average sized men.
 

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yeah I do think it's a combo of the lot...

for me, a bigger penis hurts more but is really more pleasurable in the end (and worth the pain after haha)...
plus when I see a big penis, I am scared but excited :tongue:

I've been with some smaller guys and although they still felt good & snug, the bigger ones hit the back better...
 

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Experience or lack of experience. A womans body will form its own opinion on what it likes and what it can take. It isnt until she has a variety of sizes that a true opinion can be formed about what size she prefers
 

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Experience or lack of experience. A womans body will form its own opinion on what it likes and what it can take. It isnt until she has a variety of sizes that a true opinion can be formed about what size she prefers

Are experienced women more likely to think size matters and vice versa?
 

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it would sound logical that the reason theres variation in size prefferance is because theres different size pussies just like theres different size cocks..it about finding a match that works for you..average pussy likes average cock..then there some smaller pussy that likes smaller cock..and lastly larger than average likes larger than average cock..thats basically it..as with everything im sure theres exceptions to what i said but for the most part thats probably it.I think my girl is an exception shes very small n tite and im on the larger side but she loves it even tho theres a little pain at times..in the beginning when we first met i could barely get inside her..so there will be exceptions.
 
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All I can say is I know of sexually experienced women who are familiar with a variety of sizes who maintain that bigger is better and any woman who says otherwise doesn't know what she's talking about.

I know of others, just as experienced, who dogmatically claim that it matters little or not at all to women.

The only other time I've encountered this violent difference of opinion is in regards to anal sex.

Women who like it. REALLY like it a lot.

Other women hate it, hate the idea of it, believe anyone who says different is either liar or delusion.

So in these cases I think we're talking about a anatomical difference.

Overall though I think lack of experience. Many, if not most women rarely run into a cock larger than 7"
 

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are all men the same shape & size? no!

so why do men assume pussies are? we're not generic. we're all unique and we all have different tastes.
all i care about is what can make me feel good.
 
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are all men the same shape & size? no!

so why do men assume pussies are? we're not generic. we're all unique and we all have different tastes.
all i care about is what can make me feel good.


But that's the problem, we know so little about female sexuality.

100 years ago people believed women (at least respectable women) did not experience orgasm.

50 years ago psychoanalysts believed that vagina orgasm was "more mature" than the clitoral.

30 years ago feminist maintained that the vagina orgasm didn't exist. All orgasms were clitoral

20 years the "g spot" went mainstream.

In the last few years "squirting" has been the new discovery.

I could go on. But we suffer from a chronic lack of imagination about the capacity of women to receive pleasure.

I truly sympathize with the woman who was quoted in an article about penis enlargment. "Why can't they concentrate on learning how to kiss!?!?"