I'm together now with a girl who is really my soul mate. Only thing that worries me sometimes is the sex. She's quite small and even though I'm in no way extremely big (about 7,75-8 inches depending on mood) she can't take more than about 5 without it hurting. Needless to say, this reduces the variations of positions significantly. We're trying now to get pregnant, and I'm wondering what your experiences are. I know that some women, after giving birth, become "wider" in the sense that girth problems can go away. But is there any hope of her becoming deeper, or is that just physically impossible?