Think about giving a good massage.
Regardless of technique, I think a good masseur or masseuse has to be intuitive and sense how this would feel on their own body. Folk say I give great back rubs; cool, Im glad. While there are techniques Ive learned, mostly I get into the person. I follow their breathing, their reactions, I feel if their muscles are tight or not; I can tell if they are loving it or just acting.
If they really want it, they'll have a hard time hiding it.
Blow jobs are similar. It would be difficult to give a guy a good blow job if Im not into him, but also difficult if hes not into getting blown [I dont think he has to be into me so much].
I know where I feel best; massaging the head too much is too much; if he curves to the left, I will give added attention to the frenulum, or that area, under the corona on the left side curve right, right side.
As with massage starting off by just lightly touching the person and familiarizing them with our presence, when sucking make light contact and never break it; move in closer, initiate pressure, relax, return to a little pressure, let the guy get an idea of what you are going to do: establish contact with the hand, establish contact with the mouth perhaps using the tongue around the pee slot, letting the guys body and cock get used to you and relaxed and trusting in your presence, then without ever breaking contact edge so steadily towards full emersion and the beginning of a sucking process.
Listen to his breathing - at first you're just going to be sucking getting into him - as you get going, tune yourself to his rhythm, try to read his posture and movements; you know what a great orgasm feels like, read his body getting into his mood to have one of those.
Imagine the building excitement of Ravels Bolero; we listeners trust Ravel; we know that although the tension is changing as it increases, there is a certain reliable beat increasing so predictably - so perfectly. Provide your guy with that. He needs to depend upon it; hes getting in to this and needs to be confident that you will deliver; he wants to trust you.
At some point you have to make a judgment call; will he get the most pleasure if you edge him, or will that make him lose it; maybe hes talking to you; otherwise if you want to slow and let him edge off so youll be able to give him a lot more pleasure in a couple minutes, youve got to give him some warning let that crescendo step back down in the same reliable pattern so he knows where you are taking him; listen to the breathing real carefully and when he sounds and feels like where you would be when you've edged and would start wanking away again, start building him up again.
Personally, I think its dangerous to try and edge a guy more than once when blowing him. Its very hard to keep our two bodies in touch that intimately without losing it.
But mainly, you just have to want him real bad.
Regardless of technique, I think a good masseur or masseuse has to be intuitive and sense how this would feel on their own body. Folk say I give great back rubs; cool, Im glad. While there are techniques Ive learned, mostly I get into the person. I follow their breathing, their reactions, I feel if their muscles are tight or not; I can tell if they are loving it or just acting.
If they really want it, they'll have a hard time hiding it.
Blow jobs are similar. It would be difficult to give a guy a good blow job if Im not into him, but also difficult if hes not into getting blown [I dont think he has to be into me so much].
I know where I feel best; massaging the head too much is too much; if he curves to the left, I will give added attention to the frenulum, or that area, under the corona on the left side curve right, right side.
As with massage starting off by just lightly touching the person and familiarizing them with our presence, when sucking make light contact and never break it; move in closer, initiate pressure, relax, return to a little pressure, let the guy get an idea of what you are going to do: establish contact with the hand, establish contact with the mouth perhaps using the tongue around the pee slot, letting the guys body and cock get used to you and relaxed and trusting in your presence, then without ever breaking contact edge so steadily towards full emersion and the beginning of a sucking process.
Listen to his breathing - at first you're just going to be sucking getting into him - as you get going, tune yourself to his rhythm, try to read his posture and movements; you know what a great orgasm feels like, read his body getting into his mood to have one of those.
Imagine the building excitement of Ravels Bolero; we listeners trust Ravel; we know that although the tension is changing as it increases, there is a certain reliable beat increasing so predictably - so perfectly. Provide your guy with that. He needs to depend upon it; hes getting in to this and needs to be confident that you will deliver; he wants to trust you.
At some point you have to make a judgment call; will he get the most pleasure if you edge him, or will that make him lose it; maybe hes talking to you; otherwise if you want to slow and let him edge off so youll be able to give him a lot more pleasure in a couple minutes, youve got to give him some warning let that crescendo step back down in the same reliable pattern so he knows where you are taking him; listen to the breathing real carefully and when he sounds and feels like where you would be when you've edged and would start wanking away again, start building him up again.
Personally, I think its dangerous to try and edge a guy more than once when blowing him. Its very hard to keep our two bodies in touch that intimately without losing it.
But mainly, you just have to want him real bad.
