Wonderboy
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If we were in a relationship, I would like for her to not kiss other guys...I mean the odd kiss I may perhaps be able to deal with but exchanging numbers etc, showing intent to stray is something I wouldn't condone.
If for some strange reason we had agreed to 'see other people' then I wouldn't have a problem. But then again, seeing other people defeats the purpose of a relationship.
Cheating is bad, but lying is worse. Coming clean is better than deceiving. Either way though, if I were cheated on, it would be a strain on the relationship. Since I seem to think of women as possessions, in the old fashioned sense. In that the jewel that I covet would be tainted were she to fall into the hands of another.
And dirty diamonds aren't worth shit yo!
To answer the question, betraying your partner, physically (touching, sexing, kissing) or via SMS or email etc is cheating in my eyes.
Not being loyal to whatever standards and expectations you have of the relationship is 'cheating'. Maybe people should set out their intentions and hopes for a relationship in the beginning then everyone knows where they stand...
If for some strange reason we had agreed to 'see other people' then I wouldn't have a problem. But then again, seeing other people defeats the purpose of a relationship.
Cheating is bad, but lying is worse. Coming clean is better than deceiving. Either way though, if I were cheated on, it would be a strain on the relationship. Since I seem to think of women as possessions, in the old fashioned sense. In that the jewel that I covet would be tainted were she to fall into the hands of another.
And dirty diamonds aren't worth shit yo!
To answer the question, betraying your partner, physically (touching, sexing, kissing) or via SMS or email etc is cheating in my eyes.
Not being loyal to whatever standards and expectations you have of the relationship is 'cheating'. Maybe people should set out their intentions and hopes for a relationship in the beginning then everyone knows where they stand...