What constitutes 'Sleeping around'?

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[quote=Lee_M;1092820]A friend of mine is in a committed long term relationship (unmarried) and has 3 children with her partner. She has NOT had intercourse with another man but during there relationship she has given 2 different men oral sex on numerous occasions. :eek::confused:

In my eyes that constitutes cheating/sleeping around but her 'loop hole' is there hasn't been penetrative sex so technically she isn't sleeping around, so it isn't as bad. If you have to create a loop hole or rationalize and excuse then it's cheating.

She has confided this i me and i have NO intentions of betraying her to tell her partner but i am interested in knowing what you deem 'Sleeping around'?
[/quote] Normally I would deem sleeping around as having a high number of partners for sexual relations. However the fact she has had partners other than her husband whilst married says to me she is at the very least a slut.

Monica's curse, or is it Bill's? It is sex and it is cheating.
It was Bill's excuse and it was a stupid thing to say then too. :mad:


Of course it is. Your mouth is on someone's genitals. You can't get any more intimate than that. It used to be that you had intercourse first and oral later. Ahhh the good old days . . .
She's trying to make an excuse for her bad behavior. BINGO!!! Her mouth was penetrated by a penis, so she did cheat. I don't think she'd be okay with it if her partner went down on two different women or if two different women went down on him. You should ask her if she’d be cool with that. I think I know what her answer would be.
Stop the presses and check hell for ice!! :biggrin1: I agree with Italian 978. :tongue::cool:
 

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I think we all agree that she is "cheating" on her partner to some degree dependent upon your morality, but the question was whether she is sleeping around by having two buddies with oral benefits.

Quoted for emphasis.

And no, I don't think what she's doing constitutes as sleeping around, but yes, she is clearly cheating on her partner.