What Counts As An Officially Big Penis?

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So I'm a little confused about this; my dick is 8 inches long, thick and beautifully proportional and beautifully formed. I'm a gay man who has slept with 8 other men in his lifetime and NONE of them had an ERECT dick that was close to mine or even looked like mine. I found out my first ever "boyfriend" used to call me polish (the cleaning maneuver not the nationality) behind my back. So, I want to confidently say I have a big dick when guys ask and they ALWAYS ask when on Grindr.

But here's the thing, when I compare my dick to porn ,LPSG and the men from BLACKED...mine isn't on their level. It's not far off but my dick certainly isn't a monster although it is impressive.

So my question is: do I count as having a 'big dick?'

I appreciate this post will appear to be a massively arrogant, ego boost of a post and I respect that. I'm not looking to change, compare or receive praise or any commendation over my boy. I would just like to know what makes a big dick...a big dick. Is it the size? Appearance? Width? Monster like aspect? Design? Mathematics?

Is there a threshold you have to cross to be certified a guy with a big dick?

For the record my dick erect is eight inches. Flaccid it's seemingly average at least compared to other guys I've been with and locker room lads.

Thank you. :)
 

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Photos for clarification - sorry for the awful lighting!

This isn't even as big as it goes - when I'm at that special level of horny it reaches a strange kind of magically thick with a proud purple head.
 

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In my experience women and men think anything over 7 is big, except size queens of both sexes. Men get hung up on porn and the BBC myth too much. 5 and 3/4 inches long is the best scientifically averaged erect length for everyone. You are hung and girthy as fuck. Lay that pipe well.
 

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Yes I feel you have a big dick and looks very very nice.

Photos for clarification - sorry for the awful lighting!

This isn't even as big as it goes - when I'm at that special level of horny it reaches a strange kind of magically thick with a proud purple head.
 

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Get a pro to photograph it, a pro to edit and manipulate the images....it'll look exactly like what you see elsewhere. Lens choice, camera angles, the objects near it, your body size and type....all play a part in creating the illusion of greater size.

But first, stop worrying about it at all. There's no certification, no officials. Because there are way more important things.
 
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Get a pro to photograph it, a pro to edit and manipulate the images....it'll look exactly like what you see elsewhere. Lens choice, camera angles, the objects near it, your body size and type....all play a part in creating the illusion of greater size.

But first, stop worrying about it at all. There's no certification, no officials. Because there are way more important things.
Those camera angles though. Fuck. Lol.
 

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I appreciate your response but I'll worry about whatever I want to worry about if you don't mind.

Also, the question was about how do we define the difference between a 'technically big penis' and 'the big dick' we all think of in our minds whenever we hear the phrase

Photography has got nothing to do with that.
 

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Get a pro to photograph it, a pro to edit and manipulate the images....it'll look exactly like what you see elsewhere. Lens choice, camera angles, the objects near it, your body size and type....all play a part in creating the illusion of greater size.

But first, stop worrying about it at all. There's no certification, no officials. Because there are way more important things.
ALSO, get a pro to service that dick!
I will humbly volunteer.
 
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I appreciate your response but I'll worry about whatever I want to worry about if you don't mind.

Also, the question was about how do we define the difference between a 'technically big penis' and 'the big dick' we all think of in our minds whenever we hear the phrase

Photography has got nothing to do with that.
Sorry if your direct comparison of yourself with porn photos and videos made me think that you were comparing yourself with porn photos and videos.
 

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I appreciate your response but I'll worry about whatever I want to worry about if you don't mind.

Also, the question was about how do we define the difference between a 'technically big penis' and 'the big dick' we all think of in our minds whenever we hear the phrase

Photography has got nothing to do with that.
Every person has a different image of what is a "big dick". Before you hooked up with men, I would make a bet you never imagined your dick being most men's "big dick". (Actually it's huge, that girth especially!). The reason you don't think your dick is as big as those on porn videos and sites is because they use professionals to take videos at perfect angles to show off the size. Use women who are very short with tiny hands that makes the dick look ENORMOUS. If one of those tiny women held your dick in your pic provided (Not even fully hard by the way!) It would look monstrous.

Because each man and woman has a different size in their minds or criteria as to what defines a big dick, it's hard to make a universal set of rules everyone will agree on. Using size studies and data, people have been able to make standard deviations and lists of sizes to categorize penises accordingly, but some dont agree, others do. It's especially difficult because as you yourself self-doubt having a monster, (You do!) other men have the same feelings as I did myself for my penis. Now I've tried to take pics and flattering angles to "compete" with others, and I have gotten compliments but I also dont think my dick is big at times. Sounds silly/absurd to some. Others like yourself miiight agree with me when comparing to your own size (At least in my own self-doubting head, also quick favor if you wouldn't mind guessing/leaving your opinion on mine?)

I think if you were to take a fully erect picture and employ the proper angles/techniques your dick would be bigger than the "monsters" you idolize on here or at least be just as big!
 

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Sorry if your direct comparison of yourself with porn photos and videos made me think that you were comparing yourself with porn photos and videos.

I was comparing myself to porn photos and videos but also to the candid ones on websites like this and I've watched a TONNE of amateur porn and I've still struggled to figure out do I have a 'big dick' or not. You do raise a good point with the angles and perspectives and I guess until I see my own dick back it will always appear smaller to me.

But I think from the feedback I have received on here and throughout my life from other men I definitely have a 'big dick'.
 

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Every person has a different image of what is a "big dick". Before you hooked up with men, I would make a bet you never imagined your dick being most men's "big dick". (Actually it's huge, that girth especially!).
You are totally right! It never occurred to me that my dick was in anyway special growing up and even as an adult. Porn had convinced me my dick was below average or at least average because those dicks always looked hugeee!

It wasn't until I became sexually active with men that I realized how my penis was definitely on the larger end of the spectrum than the smaller end. Most guys I've been with have had your average 5.45-6 inch cock with varying width but a general shortness. None have had the appearance of mine in almost all capacities.

Also, having seen your pictures; your penis is definitely what I would consider to be big.
 
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I was comparing myself to porn photos and videos but also to the candid ones on websites like this and I've watched a TONNE of amateur porn and I've still struggled to figure out do I have a 'big dick' or not. You do raise a good point with the angles and perspectives and I guess until I see my own dick back it will always appear smaller to me.

But I think from the feedback I have received on here and throughout my life from other men I definitely have a 'big dick'.
That's what I told you from the start. Now to figure out why it's important to you.
 

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Also, having seen your pictures; your penis is definitely what I would consider to be big.

Thank you! That's reassuring and quite a compliment from a bigger guy! Yes, my penis is only about 7.25 x 5 bonepressed. Shorter than yours and def thinner.

You are used to your own penis. It will always just feel normal to you. Only after being told and extensive comparisons will it be a fact it is big to you. I struggle with this myself. I would never have said i have a big dick ever becasue of all the porn and pics. But when I finally posted pics of myself, i was floored to get compliments. I thought people were just being nice. Still do.

But when hung guys like yourself give me compliments, it sinks in little by little. And I very much appreciate the feedback!
 
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Several years ago I was of the same mind set which you have stated above. I to have been with several men over the years. There was a period of time I visited bath houses on a regular basis. With all that exposure I have seen only three men who have had larger cocks than mine. There are pics of mine in Men over 55 with big cocks. There is a site where you are able to enter your states, and you are shown where you rank among other men of the world. Mine measures 8.8 ins. long and 6.75 inches in circumference. Of course as you it is not perceived as large. I think because I am so used to seeing and handing it. You are definitely large.
 

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Photos for clarification - sorry for the awful lighting!

This isn't even as big as it goes - when I'm at that special level of horny it reaches a strange kind of magically thick with a proud purple head.
Nice
 

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So I'm a little confused about this; my dick is 8 inches long, thick and beautifully proportional and beautifully formed. I'm a gay man who has slept with 8 other men in his lifetime and NONE of them had an ERECT dick that was close to mine or even looked like mine. I found out my first ever "boyfriend" used to call me polish (the cleaning maneuver not the nationality) behind my back. So, I want to confidently say I have a big dick when guys ask and they ALWAYS ask when on Grindr.

But here's the thing, when I compare my dick to porn ,LPSG and the men from BLACKED...mine isn't on their level. It's not far off but my dick certainly isn't a monster although it is impressive.

So my question is: do I count as having a 'big dick?'

I appreciate this post will appear to be a massively arrogant, ego boost of a post and I respect that. I'm not looking to change, compare or receive praise or any commendation over my boy. I would just like to know what makes a big dick...a big dick. Is it the size? Appearance? Width? Monster like aspect? Design? Mathematics?

Is there a threshold you have to cross to be certified a guy with a big dick?

For the record my dick erect is eight inches. Flaccid it's seemingly average at least compared to other guys I've been with and locker room lads.

Thank you. :)

It is official. You have a big dick. Congratulations. I'm betting you already knew that. The aspect that stirs the issue for many people is not 'what is big.' It is "Am I still big if someone else is bigger?' Again, answer is yes. We are not diminished by other people having a larger member - we are not superior if we are larger than some other person's member. Big is always relative. Most of us see ourselves as normal, most of us at times wish we were just 'a little bit' (or a lot, depending) bigger. The only real definition for big that works is 'greater is size than mine.' The context of where it is defines how it is perceived. Six inches flaccid on a 4'11" man is big at a particular moment. Same six inches on a musclebound 6'11" basketballer will seem small.