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Cherished Member
I can't answer your poll because I have the exact opposite view of what an oral "TOP" is from you. I think of those of us who want to take the ACTIVE role of sucking as the top, and the one who lies back or sits back or stands there and gets sucked as PASSIVE and the bottom. In fact, those very, very few times I finally gave in and had anal sex, I also could ONLY be a top, there was no way for me to bottom. The only way I could stay hard in those situations was when they were very well hung and laid back so I could fuck them face to face while admiring their big cocks. I always thought of male partners pretty much the same way I thought of female partners in a lot of ways. I suppose I could think of sucking as being a bottom if the one getting sucked was fucking the mouth of the partner and he was just passively accepting it, but not when the one performing fellatio is doing all the work.