littlbigguy: I think that almost all women generally both speak rather tactfully and try to be genuinely supportive in helping the guy feel good about what he's like and what he has. This applies with equal sensitivity (in some ways even moreso, trust me I know) to the case where she is fearful you might be too big for her as to the case where she perceives (rightly or wrongly) that the guy is smaller than she'd like him to be. In your case, there is no way that your endowment can be considered too small and in the situation you describe there is as well no likelihood that it would be too large for this particular woman. So my guess is that she was probably feeling some questionability about herself not about you, and seeking some reassurance from you on her behalf at the time. In any case, you guys apparently went ahead and maintained a personal and sexual relationship for some period of time and that's the proof of the pudding right there. Look, we're all built a little differently. It's unrealistic to always expect "the perfect fit" or to expect that the mechanics of sex will go smoothly on the first try or tries. (I don't expect it to for me.) But you always can and should genuinely help each other to be as comfortable and relaxed together as possible. Size compatibility sometimes has its complications and requires "work" and patience, but caring always fits right. Some of us have larger or smaller endowments so we learn how to work with those anatomies, but with respect to caring and intention we're all on the same scale.