What do bigger guys think about smaller guys?

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  1. goodguy2244

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    I'm a tall guy, 6'4", and on my very hardest day my dick is only 5.75" and a little over 5" in circumference. Flaccid, it can be pretty small, only a couple of inches. I'm not exactly o.k. with my size, but I can deal with it. I don't mind showering with strangers, but I never get naked around someone I know. I guess I am afraid they would make fun of me, or pity me or something, I'm not really sure.
    My question is, how would you guys with big dicks feel if you saw your buddy naked and he was really small?
     
  2. mlc808

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    You're not 'really small' . . . you are average.
     
  3. mindseye

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    Honest? If he was "really small", I'd be really turned on -- 'cause that would be a sign that (1) he was comfortable with his own body despite being small, and guys who don't have hangups about themselves are a turn-on, and (2) he trusted me enough to get naked around me, and openness is also hot.

    That guy would have more than enough attitude to compensate for his lack of size. Bring him on! ;)
     
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    i'd certainly feel the same way i felt about him before i saw him naked.
     
  5. Mr. Snakey

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    :smile: I agree.
     
  6. Steve26

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    First of all, I'll go beyond what mlc808 said: You are not only average, you are ABOVE average. The average erect penis is only about 5.1x4.8, and you are 5.75x5.

    When I joined LPSG I learned about the difference between "showers" (guys who are relatively large soft) and "growers" (guys who are relatively small soft). Since then I've recognized that you can tell pretty much zero about a guy's erect size from his flaccid size, other than the obvious fact that he must be at least as big hard as he is soft.

    If I saw a friend naked and he appeared to be a few inches long when soft, I wouldn't draw any conclusions at all about his size when he is in the state that really matters (erect). For all I know, he could be an extreme grower and inflate up to be larger than me when erect.

    And as the last few posts have mentioned, if he is a platonic friend, his penis size doesn't really affect me one way or the other.

    Steve
     
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    I don't think those who are "huge" look at someone (buddy) and say.. damn man, I don't like you anymore cause your cock is too small.

    Since when did we start judging our friends on the size of their body parts??

    Personally, I don't talk to anyone who has less than size 13 feet, or hands that can hold a basketball in one hand.:biggrin1:
     
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    I have seen more than a few of my friends who were smaller in the locker room or something. Like previous posts mention as a friend what does it matter and you can't tell much from a flaccid state anyway.
     
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    As others said, flaccid size is of relative importance, already being hard size not that important. What makes a man is not size.

    Anyway I'd lie if i said that i never thought i might LOOK (not be, just look) more man than my smaller friends. I am proud of my size and i'd never chance my penis with a smaller one.

    This is what i think of smaller guys: i am not better of you at all, but i like the way mine looks compared to yours.
     
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    If a dude is my friend/buddy it sure is not becquse of cock size..it is because of something else. I really do not care how big a cock..... To be a friend there are common interests and cring for each other. BTW, most of the guys who are my good friends...I have never seen nude, and they have not seen me nude either..
     
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    If I'm not having sex with them it doesn't matter what size their penis is hard or soft. I can't deny interest as a point of information (and I'm an information junkie - not just this, but any factoid), but it doesn't matter.

    If I were having sex with someone of your size I'd think it was a perfect mouthful, which is a real turn-on for me, 'cause that's what I like to do.
     
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    I love average cocks.
    one of my bf's is about half my size and i love sucking on him and playing with his cock. and i love him so his size does not matter to me.
    big cocks are a turn on but for me I will take the average cocks anyday.
     
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    i didn't mind small until i met my ex-lover, he turned me off to sex. so your size can be just as pleasing as well as the big ones. i think its how the man uses it. the other thing i didn't like was he always asked me if i liked his small one, i didn't mind it at first, but now its "oh here comes that question again
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    Honestly, I've never quite figured this attitude out.

    I've chatted with a few guys here who are below average, and some actually have a desire to be humiliated. It's not naturally in me to put men down because of dick size, but more than a couple of individuals crave the put downs.

    Since I'm a pretty versatile acotr, when I figure out that somebody wants that I can give them a few of the remarks they are looking for. I can't keep it up for long, because I don't really feel great about it, and it does nothing good for me.

    But I wonder if anyone can give me insight into why people get off on being ridiculed like that.

    And if it's any consolation goodguy, I wish I was 6'4. But no, I'm a shorty at 6'0.

    Well that's almost like saying your 5.75 is small. As people have pointed out, you're actually above average.
     
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    When it comes to people, and everything really, I have strong likes and dislikes. With people I like I am never short of things to like about them, love about them or adore about them. Size is never an issue in this respect, I'm pretty observant about the subltle things, and often it is these things that I really appreciate about someone. Sometimes the coolest things I like about people are things that they feel are pretty insignificant, but that's me. On reflection, I love pretty much anything about men's bodies however they are. Variety over time is also important in this regard.
     
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    Thanks for all the replies to this thread. I have always thought that if I was nude with a buddy whose cock was bigger than mine, he would feel superior, smug, and smile knowingly at my humiliation. No one has ever openly made fun of me about my penis size, but I've always been afraid that someone would. Irrational? Probably, but I'm just being honest. l'm just going to say to hell with it, and take my clothes off. I think it's time to get over this stupid hangup. Again, thanks for all the replies.
     
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    ive seen tons of friends with smaller dicks in the locker rooms...i really dont care and it doesnt change a friendship in any way
     
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    Yeah, I'm 5'11" tall, with a 9x6...but everyone sees my height where comparatively few see my cock. Maybe I should ask you what bigger guys think of smaller guys...answer that and you'll probably have your answer. I've heard of one study that showed you'd get a better job because you're taller. Go figure...unless you want to be a porn star. We all have our genetic shortcomings (no pun intended) that we have to live with.
     
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    I had a friend who I ended up finding out was avg or maybe a little below avg in the cock department. It didn't change anything. He was envious of me because I was hung bigger. I was envious because he was better looking IMO and got plenty of pussy (whereas I was a virgin at the time) so who do you think had more to be proud of?
     
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    In my limited experience with knowing other guy's sizes - it seems that for most of us, except for those very few guys at the true extremes of size, there is always someone bigger and always someone smaller than you. Just as there is always someone taller or shorter, stronger or weaker, smarter or dumber, etc., etc...

    None of which are qualities to base a true relationship on, of course.
     
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