What do bigger guys think about smaller guys?

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bigbull29 said:
Finally, I'm now going to now play devil's advocate. Why is OK for society to overtly express their repulsion for obese people with little persecution in return? But, if society were to overtly ridicule flat-chested women or small-dicked men to the same degree, there would be a real backlash. You would immediately hear responses such as "a man is more than his dick size". Where are my moral philosphers?

Gluttony is a sin and a deadly one at that if I remember, whilst having a small cock or breasts may just be a shame.

Actually, you have little or no control over your natural penis or breast size, whilst being obese is something that you would expect to have some control over. Therefore people who are not obese tend to think of fatties as lacking control and respect for themselves.
 

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Gotta remind everyone that the dick in question is not really small. He is just worried that it is. Fact is, it is an average size dick on a tall man (Yum!, but that is another thread) and it would hardly be noticed one way or another in the locker room. Even questionable friends who would make judgments about such things would have nothing to say, because this is a common situation.

Having lived a long time, however, and seen about everything, I have been witness to more than one smart-ass remark about dick size. I believe that every one of those exchanges ended with the "small" guy saying that it is not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean, or something similar and moving on...

It is not a big deal, even if you are not a big deal.
 

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I think that maybe if you smelled so bad th t i could smell it in the locker room, or if your teeth were green or your fingernails filthy and brown/yellow form neglect, or if your average dick were encased in a wad of greasy knotted body hair that obviously hadn't been washed in a year...then I would have a problem with seeing you naked. But a normal helathy average penis juat washing up in the showers and catching a sauna after a workout...I don't notice and my opinion of you wouldn't change a bit.
 
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There are far more important things in life to concern oneself with than the size of a penis. You have no control over your biology. It would be better to champion the other components that make up a man—intellect, humor, compassion, strength, contribution to mankind, worth as a person, etc., as opposed to obsessing about "a pound of flesh."
 
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There are far more important things in life to concern oneself with than the size of a penis. You have no control over your biology.

In a non-sexual context, I would agree with you 100%.


I hope this doesn't come off as sounding awful, but the truth is: I expect to be bigger than just about anyone else. So I wouldn't give it much thought.

Me, too! (Aren't I a smartass?):biggrin1:
 

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GBB said:
I've chatted with a few guys here who are below average, and some actually have a desire to be humiliated.
But I wonder if anyone can give me insight into why people get off on being ridiculed like that..

I cant speak for everyone, but I can tell you that I do think its fun to hear someone ridicule me, but I also like hearing someone tell me Im big (Im acually avg 5.5 - 6 (no idea on girth)). First thing is does anyone really want to be known as "average" its just not fun. I just think its more fun for everything to be unique and memorable. Obviously I cant both be the biggest and smallest but its really not about that.. just a bit of role playing.
#2 After the first few women who told me I was small it did take me a while to get over with, but I later leared to embrace it. My girlfriend now knows about my previous hangups and she uses it to "fuel my fire" if she wants to have rough sex, she laughs, takes verbal jabs at my lack of manhood or compares me to previous experiences. This brings back memories of my ex's who dumped me cause they like you BIGG Boys! :eek: Again, I just use this as fuel to fuck her as hard as I possibly can.

on a side note, this and a few other resons is how I got over my hangups. I have a few big friends and they have never been able to really let that primal instinct take over and slam a woman as hard as they want to. They have never had their entire penis in a womans mouth, where I really love my size cause most can get really really close but some have problems with that thats little bit. Finally, women run and hide when anal sex is brought up, while Im really not going to cause as much pain.
Funny thing is, I still want a big one.... just to watch them gasp when flops out of my pants.....but the absoulte biggest turn on is hearing a woman brag to her friends about your size (one of my EX's loved talking my little up). Until one of her friends called me out and after I showed her, she laughed her ass off and walked out.. DAMN THAT WAS HOT.
 

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When I encountered guys with a really small dick I found out it's his attitude that makes you deal well with it. If the guy is relaxed and doesn't make a problem out of it, it's no problem at all. It seems the smaller dick guys are often more keen to perform (as most straight women will tell you too), let's just say I had some great below average guys that knew how to blow and rim like stars!

But I once met a guy who was complaining about his penis size all the time, even DURING sex. What I hate is guys lying about their size, back in the days when I made internet dates I met some guys who lied and were much smaller. It only causes disappointment, why lie?

And among friends I don't even care or think about it.
 

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On this site, it seems that many belonging to a certain group (you know who you are) poke fun at men's bodies who don't meet your specifications, but find it unacceptable for a big-dicked man to poke fun at smaller-dicked man. I can't understand why it is acceptable to ridicule a man's physique, but not his dick size or shape. Logic here?

As for me, I'm not going to directly poke fun at anyone on here, but if someone should become childlike in their behavior, I will poke fun right back.

Think a little:

Do rich people *() feel superior to poor people?
Do athletes () feel superiour to non-athletes?
Do intellectuals () feel superiour to non-intellectuals?
Do people with gym bodies() feel superiour to those who don't have gym bodies?
Do big-dicked () men feel superiour to smaller-dicked men?

* ()= generally-speaking

You decide.
Maybe it has to do with the fact that it is hopeless for a small-dicked man to defend himself against a big-coked man. A lost battle!