What do find attractive in a girl ?

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    Their mind...their body... their femaninaty ?

    How would rank each ?
     
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    Don't know if i have a rank. Though there are things i find attractive. First being intelligence. Second being honesty. Then humor. And yes those are first on the list and no body type does not matter. Not unless their body type tips into unhealthy territory.
     
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    First on my fantasy aspects list is humor, she has to laugh. Not like everything I say is that funny, or she laughs at every quip, but that she has a deep broad sense of humor that she like to share and relish in. There's close to nothing worse then being on a date or with a women where you never even so much as have a chuckle.

    Secondly there's intellect, namely the more a person can talk about genuinely the more things you can discover you have in common with the other person, world views, phil/pol, arts and what have you.

    Thirdly there is the basic instinct that I can't really fight, and that's being visually pleasing. I'm not so shallow as to declare every person without a perfect face and toned body is ugly, but at the end of the day I do need to find you physically attractive to me. Which I suppose can be said both ways without question.

    Lastly the big kicker for me is honesty, if you don't like me or what I'm doing/asking about you, then say so and be real about the situation. Nothings worse then a person who hides behind a phony personality or doesn't tell you when you're bringing them to do something they don't want to do.
     
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    not sure i can rank them but all three are essential!
     
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    Intelligence and a wicked sense of humor. But I have to admit a long set of legs and a bubble butt do bring out the devil in me.
     
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    awesome sense of humour,,, nice, intelligence, honesty, i like the femine aspect for sure, just not tooo much, and i like a small women, basically everything my gf is!! :)
     
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    My dick.:wink:
     
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    Mostly thier body.

    Im flexible enough to where we would get along regardless of personality type (exception being princesses).

    On top of that if you can carry a half decent conversation we're golden.
     
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    Well played, sir.
     
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    Confindence! I like a girl that knows what she is ,and likes what she is, and doesn't care what anyone else thinks.

    I've been with Drop Dead Gorgeous women that look like super models. That have very little confidence or selfesteem. Everyone and anyone will tell them they are beautiful, but they won't believe it. When I date them, they want me to tell them they are beautiful over and over and over agian. They become clingy, annoying, and stalkerish. Although they are beautiful on the outside, they will never see that and they are never happy.

    I like a girl that says I know I'm not 105 pounds but my curves are beautiful, I know I'm don't have designer everything but it doesn't matter, and I don't care about eating mcdonalds for lunch. I like a girl that can confidently say "I know I'm not perfect and I don't care."
     
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    1. Face
    2. Personality
    3. Body

    In that order.
     
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    Brains, smarts, and then big pinkish mauve nipples on her bouncy milky white tits.
     
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    Tremendously well-endowed between the ears, filthy sense of humour, girl-next-door looks and nice hair.
     
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    Visually speaking I find it hard to find them attractive from that stand point.

    This may have something to due a brain injury from when I was a kid .
    I slipped and hit the pavement to the back of my head.

    Second time I got hit by a car while riding my bike.


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    can not be lazy,drink and smoke.
     
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    a big hairy muff
     
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    Self confidence, candor and sense of humor are at the top of my list. From there, getting into the physical woman (pun intended), I am most attracted to women who are fit, trim and athletic. I could care less about boob size, though the aesthetic appeal of really nice looking breasts are certainly a turn-on for me.
     
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    loud laughs, like you kinda pause for a second with ya own laugh... then you get kinda totally pulled into her laugh.

    i like pulse points, and how soft her scent/skin is over those spots. and how you feel her pulse speed up when you find the right one.

    long necks. kisses hidden under falls of soft hair.. or tickled by short clipped hairs.

    hands smaller than mine.

    the contrast between butt toastiness and how OMG cold her feet are when i spoon up behind her.

    i like being called on my shit. cuz my girlie has got to keep me in line

    plump bottom lips.

    ears that poke out just a little bit.

    soft overbites kill me.

    hmm long answer short... their individuality. their quirks.
     
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    oh my.. thats tinggly... especially the soft overbites :hug:
     
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