What do guys want on cam?

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  1. imminda

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    From a female? What turns you on, what's hot, what's NOT? Just starting this with a guy, never done it before, and don't want to turn him off.
     
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    Never camed with anyone before but enthusiasm and relaxed attitude are two things I'd look for in a cam partner. He likely wants to see you enjoying yourself as much as he wants to get off. He can watch unenthusiastic, mailed-in porn "acting" all day on the web.

    "eye contact" is also important, in any filmmaking effort where you want to appear one-on-one. You don't want him thinking..what does she keep looking at over there?

    Have you ever used Skype or another type of video chat? Everyone always looks like they're staring at your chest through the screen because the camera is generally on top of the monitor and they look below it to read the text. If you can set it up so that you're camera is pointing up at you or straight on, you'll have a more attentive looking frame set up.

    Are you set up for a wide angle or close in?
     
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    This man is turned on with seeing a pretty woman. Smiles and kisses offered are nice.
    Bare breast play is wonderful to see. And the prize of all prizes is a nice show of that hidden secret valley of a woman's love organ. Any and all the above are appreciated and turn me on. This has happened a few times; thanks my friends.
    I have Yahoo. I have Ichat.
     
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    I have a cam on top of my laptop, but also have a tripod I can set up. We tried video chat and he did his first cum on cam, and so it's my turn now. Very nervous.
     
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    Set the mood as though you were going to treat yourself the bestest masturbation session ever. (hopefully, you are) If You are into it and he sees you are into it, he will respond...positively :biggrin1:. Let him in on a little secret about yourself...that's that it's all about, right? The camera is a voyeuristic instrument. It's a window into your lover's secrets.

    I'm trying to stay focused on technical details that are universal since what one person finds sexy another can easily find boring.

    I'd set up the tripod and use a wider angle shot. That way he can see every sigh and shudder, not just an up-close face shot. (Though we do make the most interesting faces when we cum).

    Put on some makeup if you normally use it when you see him and use softer white or yellow lights instead of flourescents...maybe take a reading lamp and put it behind the webcam. If he's thinking "too dark" or "too bright" he's not thinking "she's sexy".

    Test it first!

    Record yourself and see what works. If he can see everything that's going on, he'll enjoy the show more. Can you let him hear you? I love to hear moans and groans and sighs. Obviously I don't know what he's into, but it can't hurt. Do you have a microphone that will actually pick your voice up from a distance?

    I see from your gallery you have piercings. Thumbs up. Whenever anybody takes the time to make a button that obvious, I push it. Take this opportunity to show him how. Play with bars, wiggle studs, twist rings and whatever else gets you hot.

    Just a few suggestions, hope they help!
     
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    We wanna see Cartwheels!!
     
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    Playing on cam can be really hot with the right person. If you are attracted to each other and turn each other on, anything you do on cam will turn him on. Try voice together with the cam. Not only its hot with hearing the voice and moans but it also keeps you hands free from typing..... :wink:

    Have fun!
     
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    If you want to know what he wants, ask him.
     
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    I think do what turns you on and it will be hot for the viewer. I've cammed with some girls, and some like to bring toys, some like to work the camera angles, some like to stand up, a lot depends on any room constraints. Cammed with a few couples, and it's all about what you want to see, and what your cam buddy wants, but it is pretty much always very hot! Hope you have fun, and hope to see you on cam! :)
     
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    Thanks for the suggestions!!
     
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