What do I do?

[D_mingba079]

she was bored! tied in a long term relationship without any of the fun. like being an elderly married couple.

bored with me or the other guy?

our relationship lasted longer without any breakups, however her and the other guys relationship actually lasted longer overall altough they broke up and got back together like 5 times...

 

[ericbythebay]

You need to decide for yourself what you want out of this relationship? Make a decision; make a move or move on, these years of waiting for her and playing the unrequited lover seem rather unfulfilling.

My husband and I met when I was 19 and he was 21. The guy my husband was dating before he started dating me, wanted to play the field and see what else was out there "to find himself". My husband decided he wasn't going to wait for him and he met me.