what do men really want?

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  1. B_Kshelby67

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    To counter This thread: http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/49669-what-do-women-really-want.html
    I am curious about the other sex's response. So guys, what do you really look for in a person? what do men really want?

    Side note: I do know the manly secrets thread exists, but I'm not talking just sex here, I'm looking for the whole package. Just satisfy the psychologist in me mmmk?
     
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    I want...a beer...
     
  3. Lordpendragon

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    Strangely, I was asked this earlier.

    Intelligence, attitude and passion - I will add compassion though it is really part of attitude for me.

    And the need to transcend your womanhood and humanity through sex, works.
     
  4. Quite Irate

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    Sex. Food. Alcohol.

    The necessities of life. :tongue:

    Some DO want more, but it's kind of guy-to-guy only secret.
     
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    Well all men are different.

    For me, someone intelligent and funny, who I can have good conversations with.
     
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    :biggrin1:
     
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    It REALLY varies.
     
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    I just want to be happy. Honestly.

    As long as the person makes me feel good, I think that is all that really matters in a person.
     
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    i want to purge myself of all desires and reconcile my spirit with the one true consciousness



    ......nah, only kidding, a huge pile of chicken wings would be nice.
     
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    Intelligent, and not actually psychotic. Everything else is negotiable.
     
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    I dunno if you get the question though. I mean, not the average guy, but specifically you. On an individual scale, what do you look for in a person. dig?
     
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    oops forgot to quote the person I was talking to, but it doesn't matter. It can be taken as a general statement too
     
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    I agree! I'm still waiting to be happy. Don't guess I'll ever be...
     
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    I like women who are tolerant, open minded, creative, funny, generous and physically fit.

    Physically: I go for beautiful eyes, luscious lips and any figure from slim to voluptuous with a nice pair of boobies to play with.

    Sex: adventurous, unpredictible, takes the initiative sometimes, willingness to listen, learn and please.

    Extras: Deep throat ability would be nice, as would boobs big enough for a tit wank.

    I don't want: Nags, jealousy and mistrust, structured women (women who have self imposed rules about every aspect of life), smokers, over sensitive and moody women.

    Basically someone who can keep me interested in being with her.

    I wonder if such a woman exists!
     
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    Kshelby67, not sure if you meant to quote me (perhaps I'm in a self-absorbed mood today?), but to clarify, I was was only referencing what I want in my response.

    Some days I want some things. Other days I want other things.

    I definitely want different qualities in a woman than I did three years ago. And ten years ago. And twenty years ago.

     
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    I am here for you bigboy :biggrin1:
     
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    good answer. Thanks for putting thought into it!!
     
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    I havent a clue, im lucky if i can find a girl who likes me, let alone find a girl that i like. ^^
     
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    Inteligence, empathy, a good heart (sorry, that's not very specific is it...), inteligence.

    Attractive would be nice (eye of the beholder & all that), but thats a tertiary consideration really.

    Did I mention inteligent already?

    Thats all I've got at the moment.
     
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