what do men really want?

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I want a woman that will accept me for who I am. She has to be confident, open minded, strong-willed, intelligent, quick-witted, knowledgeable, honest and a dark and/or acerbic sense of humour is a big plus.

Intellectually, I want to be able to make love to her mind as much as her body. The 'I hate books' crowd need not apply - having long, political discussions & argumentations with a woman that has vastly different opinions than mine, and then fucking the shit out of each other is of a great appeal to me. I like tomboys. The girl needs to be able to provide for herself and be as independant as possible, just like I am.

Physically, I love voluptuous women with big breasts and a big asses; small girls that I can flip around in the air and just split in two with my cock; black women; redheads; MILFs, haha. She also needs to shave down there, I can't stand having pubic hairs in my mouth, it's disgusting. Good health a must.

Sexually, she has to have the testosterone levels of a dozen horny lumberjacks. She better like making out and groping in public 'cause I do. I love aggressive but also submissive women that like rough sex and being fucked by a big dick. Screamers, dirty talkers and grunters are my heroes.

...but then, you knew that already. :)
 

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Just to add to my above post.

I want:
-someone who will make me feel good about myself
-someone who will be there
-someone who can make a kickass pancake in the morning after a long night
-someone who knows all my favourite songs and likes a few of them
-someone who is funny as hell and hot in my eyes.
 

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Just to add to my above post.

I want:
-someone who will make me feel good about myself
-someone who will be there
-someone who can make a kickass pancake in the morning after a long night
-someone who knows all my favourite songs and likes a few of them
-someone who is funny as hell and hot in my eyes.

*bats eyes at jeff and waves plate of scrumptious breakfast treats*
 

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Don't tease me.. I'm starving.:rolleyes:

Oh, I also want someone who will wake me up with a kiss on the lips in the morning, even though we probably have bad breath.

Is the bad breath from eating a sumptuous meal laced heavily wilth garlic the night before? If so, I'm so there.
 

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It is surprising that the responses here are so thoughtful - nobody says "a woman who turns into a sandwich and a six-pack after fucking". Impressive, boys!
 

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Intelligent, honest, resourceful, stable, cute, positive and understanding. My wife has most of these qualities but she is mired in childhood issues that have affected her whole life, she is still working on these at the tender age of 59, she can be consumed but gains ground in a week instead of months.
 
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Personality and attitude - Reality is I say stupid insensitive things... I don't mean to and I am not trying to be an insensitive jerk but somehow I come across that way more times than I can count... maybe that is just being a guy I dunno... anyway.. I like a woman who let's it slide and doesn't look for hidden meaning in what I say. A woman who isn't second guessing everything and just relaxes. Doesn't take life too seriously. I like sleazy women who don't have a "why do guys do that" bitterness. Be upfront if something is bothering them don't ambush me with it when we are on vacation or out to dinner or after sex.. or before (Oh I hate that) What I absolutely hate the most is when I am relaxed, feeling good being with her.. and somehow that sends a signal to her to create some crisis or drama.
Eyes - very important. I can't describe what makes them but I know it when I see it.
Hair - shoulder length straight hair
Nice butt - a butt that says she works out.
Not skinny, not obese
Good hygiene - I take showers, wash all the unmentionables and keep the jungle under control. I expect the same. Keep the PH balanced.
 

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There are many women I find attractive here. At least I think they are women :eek: .

So I have been trying to think what they have in common.

On the surface - absolutely nothing - different ethnic backgrounds, ages, body types, hair colour, eye colour, breast size, bottom shapes etc etc

The correlation I think is that they are fun. If you can't be fun, then I think it shows that the issues that we all have, are consuming the rest of your personailty, and that isn't sexy.

Apart from that, what I really want is a woman with a garage full of supercars that she prefers someone else to drive.
 

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I want a woman that will accept me for who I am. She has to be confident, open minded, strong-willed, intelligent, quick-witted, knowledgeable, honest and a dark and/or acerbic sense of humour is a big plus.

Intellectually, I want to be able to make love to her mind as much as her body. The 'I hate books' crowd need not apply - having long, political discussions & argumentations with a woman that has vastly different opinions than mine, and then fucking the shit out of each other is of a great appeal to me. I like tomboys. The girl needs to be able to provide for herself and be as independant as possible, just like I am.

Physically, I love voluptuous women with big breasts and a big asses; small girls that I can flip around in the air and just split in two with my cock; black women; redheads; MILFs, haha. She also needs to shave down there, I can't stand having pubic hairs in my mouth, it's disgusting. Good health a must.

Sexually, she has to have the testosterone levels of a dozen horny lumberjacks. She better like making out and groping in public 'cause I do. I love aggressive but also submissive women that like rough sex and being fucked by a big dick. Screamers, dirty talkers and grunters are my heroes.

...but then, you knew that already. :)
you must be just catering to what I want to hear. You describe me exactly, but you know that already. Quit making life so hard for me by being so fucking far away. It is rather exhausting living every day in my head just wanting to be there so bad. Three weeks is seemingly an eternity, and the hours spent with you I know are going to last a second.
 

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Just to add to my above post.

I want:
-someone who will make me feel good about myself
-someone who will be there
-someone who can make a kickass pancake in the morning after a long night
-someone who knows all my favourite songs and likes a few of them
-someone who is funny as hell and hot in my eyes.
haha the pancake thing is my specialty.
 

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It is surprising that the responses here are so thoughtful - nobody says "a woman who turns into a sandwich and a six-pack after fucking". Impressive, boys!
Which is exactly what I was looking for. I really enjoy hearing things like this, and ultimatly, it says so much about the person posting. It is so vast from person to person, but the same basic qualities are there. It is so neat to see that no matter the exterior of a person, everyone needs to feel the same energy off another to be really happy.
 

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There are many women I find attractive here. At least I think they are women :eek: .

So I have been trying to think what they have in common.

On the surface - absolutely nothing - different ethnic backgrounds, ages, body types, hair colour, eye colour, breast size, bottom shapes etc etc

The correlation I think is that they are fun. If you can't be fun, then I think it shows that the issues that we all have, are consuming the rest of your personailty, and that isn't sexy.

Apart from that, what I really want is a woman with a garage full of supercars that she prefers someone else to drive.
I completly agree with you. The type of women who would be initially drawn to this forum might vary, but those of us that stay I think share this quality. You can't exactly be uptight when discussing all things "big dick".

Good luck with your supercars thing. I'd almost offer myself as your queen, but I don't think model cars count. Besides, I tend to only build old muscle cars from the 60's.
 

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I think the average guy wants a good looking girl who'll always support him, accept him in every way, make him feel like he's the best one for her and who is a wild cat in the sack.

I think the support and acceptance factors are often overlooked... men want to be supported in what they do and they want someone who isn't going to make him feel like the booby prize.

Of course, everyone wants their own things on top of that. I know I want a LOT more than that. I want a woman that can rival me in every way, who loves a challenge, has a lot of class, decorum and excellent debating skills. Who knows when I'm joking and knows when to joke. Who can accept herself and me so that she can adore both.
 

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OK I'll Bite,

What attracts me most in a woman
Physically:
First Impression beautiful, alluring, draw me in eyes; a woman who looks you in the eyes and smiles... Thats Hot!
A nice body of course, nice ass legs and breasts. good hour glass figure..not skinny

Mentally:
a woman with passion for life, not the jealous type, funny, but most importantly a confident woman. confidence not cockiness, Confidence is hot, sexy, beautiful alluring. Someone wh pushes me to excell in life

Sexually:
A woman who loves sex, is sexually passionate, loves role play, loves to perform oral and loves to receive it, Someone open to new things. specifically a woman who for me doesn't necessarily swallow but lets me cum in her mouth while she continues sucking my cock and shaft...thats hot! and who may at times join in on a mfm/mmf threesome where we share a cock together orally only.
 

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Intelligence, flexibility, depth of character, openness, honesty, a sense of adventure, independence, kinkiness, and probably several other things that will come to mind long after I've typed this post.

If she can spot a quote from Airplane! or Monty Python a block away, it's a good sign.

Oh, there's more to it, I know. And I'm not the poetic type who can string together some pretty-sounding phrases that make some women swoon (which, in turn, means that I'm not looking for a woman who needs that kind of stuff to "feel romantic").

It's really hard to define. But, if we've only known each other for a week or two, and it seems like we've been friends for years... that's what I like.
 

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What I want:

Inteligence; I really dig chicks who have Genius level intilects. makes it easier to relate.

Personality; I need a woman who's self confident, knows who she is and what she wants in life. She needs to be kind and caring, but have the ability to stand up for herself. A good sense of humour is an absolute must!

Physicaly; I like fairly skinny women with small breasts and narrow asses. Taller is better, all the way up to about 6'1 or so. I like curly hair, preferably red, but the color isn't a huge thing. I like blue eyes and really fair skin.

Sexually; I need a girl with a decent Libido and creativity.