What answers do you men want from women?
Some women say they are size queens.....you get mad.
Some women say they are not size queens.......you quote science to say we are wrong.
That's a given; knowing the truth but then also not being able to qualify would make anyone mad. It's equivalent to saying that gymnasts must be flexible, but you're not flexible; you just don't qualify.
Some just don't like us at all and strike at our sexuality, like reverse discrimination.
You'll have to get used to that; it's a double-edged blade. "Everyone's doing it!"
Some women have big breast....you only want a handful.
Some women have small breast.....but you want to know why her hips are big.
So, I have some preferences; so what? Actually, wanting a proportionate body is nothing new; disproportionate bodies, regardless of the media hype, aren't being sought after in droves to my knowledge else there'd be a lot of single people.
Some women try to give answers.....and you still do not believe.
We cannot belive something we do not understand and cannot relate to. When they say males and females are from different planets it's true; I couldn't conceive a clitoris, and you couldn't accurately conceive a penis.
Some women are strong.....you want them a little more submissive.
Some women are a little more submissive.....you want them to be a little more stronger.
Is the craving of balance a bad thing? It's true of both sexes; females don't really want people they can walk all over, but at the same time and turned off by extremely overconfidence and brash persons. Jerks are only attractive when they are a mile away and 'sissies' aren't really attractive at all outside of the realm of fetishes.
Women say we need more communication.....men say we don't then wonder why we get mad at the silence.
That's a crucial difference. Women say pointless things, and men try to say more important or crucial things. It's Logic vs. Emotion to be honest; when he asks "How was your day?" it's not out of kindness or mandatory and he actually wants an answer ( assuming this isn't really a 'business' situation ), but if a woman asks any question it can be for a number of reasons including just to see how you'll react, to hear your voice, or just because it crossed their 10 things per second minds.
Men won't talk when there's nothing to say. Women will say nothing [relative] when people aren't talking.
If there is one thing I have learned from this website is that men are just as insecure as women. AND I SAY THIS AS A POSITIVE because women are always led to believe we are the most irrational thinking of the sexes.
Actually, I contest, and state that you are the most irrational of the sexes. Might seem unfair, but appealing to your emotions, feelings, and general mood can cause some serious problems rather than just working through things in a sensible manner. No sin, per se, but honestly even here it's kind of proven. The "opposites" you state aren't opposites, and are hardly opposing; for instance breast / hip ratio: It is not unsensible to believe that people will find people closer to the golden ratio [16:9] more attractive and that having a disproportionate body is not sexually appealing. I mean, honestly, how many women gawk at those super-body builders who's arms are bigger than your head? Not many. Who is wooed by the skinny dork with no sex appeal physically? Again, not many. But average Joe, who's got proportionate arms, legs, chest, etc. is usually the winner of most women when speaking physically alone.
Most of your argument, in my opinion, is simply irrational.
Guys I really would like to know what are you looking for? Cause you are driving your sisters sometime to the brink of insanity.
Behind every good woman is a good man, behind every crazy woman is man that drove her there. - CREOLE QUEEN 2008
First off I'd love a woman who could build an argument that made sense. Nothing like sensible people rather than those who appeal to emotion and stumble around like idiots pointing fingers and asking the wrong questions. It's not a problem. You can't help it.
I guess, what I really want in a woman, is a man? Someone I can relate to; someone who doesn't seem to double-back on themselves or can't seem to comprehend their own mistakes and is always coddled by society. Someone who is both dominant and understanding; capable of balance and beauty rather than just a wishy-washy wreck or some hard-ass.
Basically things you'll never be.
It's an okay book. Good saying though. It's true.Let me go back and consult my book "Men are from Mars and Women from Venus".