What do small-cocked guys get from posting on this forum?
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BlackLantern
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I'm only 4" hard, but what I get out of this site is two-fold. I can see "real-world" reactions to what it might like to be big. I'm small, I KNOW I'm small, there's nothing I can SAFELY do about it. It's kind of living vicariously through guys that are bigger.
The other thing is it's like having a fear of heights, and a psychiatrist works you up to facing your fear by going up a in a glass elevator.
Size DOES matter, to varying degrees. To paraphrase P.T. Barnum
"It matters to some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time. But it doesn't matter to all of the people all of the time."
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The other thing is it's like having a fear of heights, and a psychiatrist works you up to facing your fear by going up a in a glass elevator.
Size DOES matter, to varying degrees. To paraphrase P.T. Barnum
"It matters to some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time. But it doesn't matter to all of the people all of the time."
:biggrin1:
I know this place is called LPSG, but I don't think the discussions here are largely about big dicks.
First, let's be fair about the use of small on this site. That's like saying short in a basketball locker room. Short take a new meaning when the average height is 6'4" and no one is shorter that 6' even. On here, anyone sub 7.5" inches rock hard and ready to pop is on the short side, right? When lumped in with the unwashed masses, it's a different story.
Alas, I get off message.
I think what some of the average joes around here get is to see how the other half lives and walk a mile in someone else's shoes. I mean, I've never had to reprimand a witty teenager for remarking on my jock sticking out farther than it really should. Never been embarrassed in my formative years because flavor of penis is different enough to encourage mocking, as all things different are apt to do. This community exists because being different is great and all sometimes. And other times, it's a burden to bear. Having your girlfriends mother constantly stare down your crotch, totally a burden. Hearing how people deal with their burdens is inspirational.
I also think that there is a contingent of average joes who really do have an issue and should probably not say anything. Sure, there is a certain amount of fawning that is going to happen. Some of the women and men here really do want the kind of penis usually found in porno's and bad anime. So far as I'm concerned, more power to them. I know what I got, and it's never let me down is how I look at it. But I might have a healthier than average self image.
I think that there could be a bit tighter control on people who can't not improve their self image without trying to tear down someone else's.
I'm willing to bet there is a good amount who just like looking at the big dick. For sexual reasons, for gawking reasons, whatever. Even if they are confrontational or begging for SPH through overt and covert means or not. Even if the identify as 100% straight.
Is it nice? Is it right? Is it fair to the people who just want to talk about larger penises without having to deal with non-large penis discussions? I can't really say. Like I said before, I think that people who delve into harassment and intentional trolling should get the ban hammer. I also think that about any other forums I go to no matter what the topic. I know that, for me, it's actually made me feel better about my 5.5 fightin inches. Having it bigger isn't all fun and games. Sometimes, people say and do certain things and feel certain ways about a different kind of cock that make life difficult. I don't have to bear that burden. But hearing how people have learned to bear it helps me deal with the burdens I do have to bear. So, thanks!
Alas, I get off message.
I think what some of the average joes around here get is to see how the other half lives and walk a mile in someone else's shoes. I mean, I've never had to reprimand a witty teenager for remarking on my jock sticking out farther than it really should. Never been embarrassed in my formative years because flavor of penis is different enough to encourage mocking, as all things different are apt to do. This community exists because being different is great and all sometimes. And other times, it's a burden to bear. Having your girlfriends mother constantly stare down your crotch, totally a burden. Hearing how people deal with their burdens is inspirational.
I also think that there is a contingent of average joes who really do have an issue and should probably not say anything. Sure, there is a certain amount of fawning that is going to happen. Some of the women and men here really do want the kind of penis usually found in porno's and bad anime. So far as I'm concerned, more power to them. I know what I got, and it's never let me down is how I look at it. But I might have a healthier than average self image.
I think that there could be a bit tighter control on people who can't not improve their self image without trying to tear down someone else's.I'm willing to bet there is a good amount who just like looking at the big dick. For sexual reasons, for gawking reasons, whatever. Even if they are confrontational or begging for SPH through overt and covert means or not. Even if the identify as 100% straight.
Is it nice? Is it right? Is it fair to the people who just want to talk about larger penises without having to deal with non-large penis discussions? I can't really say. Like I said before, I think that people who delve into harassment and intentional trolling should get the ban hammer. I also think that about any other forums I go to no matter what the topic. I know that, for me, it's actually made me feel better about my 5.5 fightin inches. Having it bigger isn't all fun and games. Sometimes, people say and do certain things and feel certain ways about a different kind of cock that make life difficult. I don't have to bear that burden. But hearing how people have learned to bear it helps me deal with the burdens I do have to bear. So, thanks!