what do str8 guys look 4? do women know?

[maxcok]

alright lemme clear this up, PHYSICAL features. things you can discern without having to interact with a women first. which means before the question of whether you are going to build a relationship with this person arises.

petite asked me what my 15 are. i actually havent counted them but heregoes:
eyes (size, shape, color), lips (size, shape), hair (cut and color, style is irrelevant), face overall (which is different, a girl can have some nice features that just dont mesh well), breasts (size, proportion the rest of her torso), stomach (flat, muscular, a little "pudge", or something that can jiggle, all good in my book), hips, waist, hips to waist ratio (skinny waist, wide hips), thighs, ass, thigh to ass ratio (skinny thighs n thick ass, weird), thigh-hip-waist ratio (creating the curves), calves (yes, im attracted to calves, muscular or toned, those slightly bigger girls usually have the nicest calves) feet (small please), skin (soft, does it have that "glow", beauty marks/cute little moles? freckles? complexion), height (i really have no preference, but i know some guys do, doesnt make sense to me to omit it), size (here: a guide to women's body types theCHIVE)

alright lets see, counting as much as i would count (because im sure somebody will be like "you cant count that as ANOTHER feature, its the same shit!" so whatever, u count em up how u want to, but heres my count

3)eyes (size/shape/color)
5)lips (size/shape)
7)hair (cut/color)
8)face overall
9)breasts
10)stomach
11)hips
12)waist
13)hips-waist ratio
14)thighs
15)ass
16)thigh-ass ratio
17)thigh-hip-waist ratio
18)calves
19)feet
20)skin
21)height
22)size

and i still feel like im missing a thing or two, but hopefully i've given some of you ladies a few more things to be confident about.

and yes, the natural look ftw

You're missing 1) 2) 4) and 6). Better find them, or you might end up dating the wrong body type.

You might be missing some other things too.

I keep forgetting my "check-list" at home. I guess that explains my 'not-getting-any'.

LOL. Exactly.

 

[ulube08]

1)eye shape
2)eye size
3)eye color
4)lip shape
5)lip size
6)hair color
7)hair cut

mash those into one category if u want but i dont

 

[maxcok]

1)eye shape
2)eye size
3)eye color
4)lip shape
5)lip size
6)hair color
7)hair cut

mash those into one category if u want but i dont

Have you ever considered you might be dissecting and analyzing physical traits just a little bit too much?

I think I understated myself here:

You might be missing some other things too.

 

[irox19]

I have no idea what guys are looking for. I think I'm going to go les because I am just bored with trying.

 

[D_MastaBaiter]

its my theory that most guys can only appreciate ass, breasts and a pretty face. as far as im concerned theres gotta be at least 15 features to consider when judging a womans attractiveness.

for the 100% straight guys, do u also think this is the case? why?


I don't think it's the case that most guys can only appreciate ass, breasts and a pretty face.

 

[NEWREBA]

OK I was tempted to have some fun with this thread, but in all honesty most guys just want a woman to love them.

Well I think you're a very smart guy, Drifterwood. Most women I know want the same thing from a guy...a man who loves them (us). :smile:

 

[curioustitan]

I have no idea what guys are looking for. I think I'm going to go les because I am just bored with trying.

Don't let these 'check-lists' deter you babes. The truth of the matter, is that so many poor women out there striving to meet these criteria have a very limited shelf life in a relationship anyway...gravity and time eventually take its toll on the best of us hence many body-obesessed men straying from 'physical' based relationships.
Find somebody out there there that actually cares about you and your interests and takes the time to get to know who you are as opposed to how your bits hang and/or shape up.
A persoanlity stands the test of time - far more so anyway - against a nice rack any day of the week.

 

[mexdude]

I have no idea what guys are looking for. I think I'm going to go les because I am just bored with trying.

At the end all men just want a woman that likes them, regardless of how she is

 

[ulube08]

Have you ever considered you might be dissecting and analyzing physical traits just a little bit too much?

no, i said they're things i consider and appreciate, not requirements

 

[B_curiousme01]

what do str8 guys look 4?

mo pussy.

:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:hahaha. classic

 

[petite]

no, i said they're things i consider and appreciate, not requirements

Oh! Well if we're talking about just considering and appreciating, there are probably a thousand things! But not all the same things in each person...

That's completely different than to "look 4" certain traits, though. I might deeply appreciate a man's long elegant fingers, for example, but I'm not specifically looking for them. Another man might have rugged manly hands that also turn me on, or a chiseled jaw that I find sexy, or really great hair, or any one of lots of traits that I'm capable of eroticizing.

 

[musclebare9]

I think many straight guys look at it the other way, what don't I want. Such as, I don't want a nagging high maintenance selfish bitch. Honestly, I have to admit that I knew my wife for a while before we were married but wasn't really interested until I saw her step out of a swimming pool in a bikini. :fing02:

I then learned that she was adventurous which is a great attribute when applied to sex. She was very active and enjoyed things like going to the gym and running. Most of all, she was incredibly easy going.

I think big tits are over-rated and really go downhill later in life. I prefer the tight athletic look.

 

[B_curiousme01]

I think many straight guys look at it the other way, what don't I want. Such as, I don't want a nagging high maintenance selfish bitch. Honestly, I have to admit that I knew my wife for a while before we were married but wasn't really interested until I saw her step out of a swimming pool in a bikini. :fing02:

I then learned that she was adventurous which is a great attribute when applied to sex. She was very active and enjoyed things like going to the gym and running. Most of all, she was incredibly easy going.

I think big tits are over-rated and really go downhill later in life. I prefer the tight athletic look.

Not a very nice thing to say, since we all get older. I will not comment on what happens to many men. Hope you didn't jinx yourself.

 

[_Jonesy]

There is no set amount of things guys look for, and each individual is different. This is why guys seem simple to themselves and complicated to girls. On a base level, testosterone makes us lust for women, mainly through aesthetics. The usual, small waist, legs, ass, boobs, face, hair etc.

But deep down, and as mentioned above, guys want to be loved. They want a women to love them, only them and to make them feel loved by somebody. That connection is the most important people to anyone, male or female.

I know I can go out and do my best to pull reasonably attractive girls, but the one girl I love (who doesn't seem to love me back ) is pretty in my eyes, but her personality is above all. I am in love with her, not her body. And I'm worried it'll be hard to find again, but my point is, straight guys want to be loved. They look for a women who they can have kids with, and then their personal preferences come into play for that initial attraction.

 

[andrew999999999]

Things I look for in a woman, physically. are height (5'9''+), nice legs, nice eyes, and nice smile.

 

[ulube08]

well i guess i accidentally omitted the word "most"

i think most guys are intolerant to girls that dont have at least two of the three earlier stated PHYSICAL traits, nice tits, nice ass, pretty face, whatever the qualifications for those things may be

this is going off of experience, i'm young but i dont hang out with my peer group, my best friends are people around my age but other than that i dont hang out with guys my age. as far as those older dudes, i always hear the judgements
"flat chested bitch" "ugly bitch" "that bitch got NO ass"
"would you fuck though?"
"FUCK NO!"

the thing is these guys seem to get more girls than anybody else and i dont understand how girls can be so blind to that demeaning shit.
i really brought the topic up to see how many straight guys would say anything besides those three things and how many women see the BS and how many of those women appreciate us less shallow guys, cuz it doesnt seem to matter in the real world

 

[Calboner]

what do str8 guys look 4?

The ability, and the willingness, to spell.

 

[ulube08]

^maybe intuitiveness? or an attention span? attention to detail? cuz im a dude, n theres nothing there that isnt commonly spelled the same way, or easily understandable.

how about not being a pretentious dick for a change?

 

[g_whiz]

The ability, and the willingness, to spell.

+1000:biggrin1:

 

[B_curiousme01]

The ability, and the willingness, to spell.

:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::wink:. Well, I failed that preference by a very long shot.