What do women like about gang bangs?

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  1. B_quietguy

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    So if somebody is not monogamous, are you going to insult that person by insinuating they are somehow stuck in a "party stage of life"? I have two long term relationships, and I have a deep intimate bond with each. Each partner is special to me, but that does not stop any of us from giving close friends sexual joy.

    Don't assume that what's true for you is true for everyone else.

    I don't tell you that you can't move pass some stage of life just because you don't have the same type of relationships I do.

    What do you expect to accomplish by insulting somebody with different values from yours?
     
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    No insults or criticism intended...for anyone....apologize if it seemed that way. I thought this was just supposed to be a general discussion. We're all different, We all have different value's. And those feelings/thoughts/values DO change as the years pass. My thoughts and actions are radically different now then at 20. I try not to criticize or be judgemental. NO one can understand what drives another. To criticize without understanding other views is to understand nothing.
     
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    My wife enjoys them very much, and we have several friends that do as well. Just because the few on here don't like it, doesn't make it universally true.
     
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    Neither are yours. Sorry.

    I figured that there had to be some women who liked it, or at least some variant. UKBBW_Denise's reasoning actually mirrors what I think I'd like about being the center of attention from several women. It makes a lot more sense now.

    It's too bad that the politics of men vs. women gets dragged into the bedroom. Otherwise, this wouldn't be such a big deal.
     
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    Indeed. And thanks to the ladies who PM'ed me.
     
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    oh, and where did i claim mine were?

    i said, 'i think it's a rare woman who likes them.'
    and i said, 'the women i know who have done them are either being paid to do it or have no self esteem and do it for male approval.'
    you obviously have serious comprehension issues if you don't know that these words mean expressions of personal opinion and personal experience.

    :rolleyes:
     
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    Understood - and apology accepted. I didn't assume malice on your part - just that your words were not well considered. The last two sentences in your paragraph quoted above resonate with some of my own sentiments.

    In order to avoid coming across as offensive, I often phrase my words from my own experiences and values rather than mention somebody else's. I also try to avoid making assumptions about another's values or experiences, because I make no claims to knowing you even 1% as well as you know yourself. And when giving advice, I extremely rarely say things like "you should do this" because I think phrasing it that way - as a "should" - means I am substituting their knowledge for my judgment. I don't think I know others well enough to make that substitution.

    People's values and attitudes do change over the years, but I've noticed that my own have become much more sex-positive with each passing year. I'm much more sexually active now than in my teens and twenties - and I was quite busy then too. I'm also much more encouraging of people to experiment sexually now than I was then.
     
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    For those that enjoy it, it's the attention most of the time. You're on the wrong website for this though; there is one dedicated to this very question.
     
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    And the name of that site is?
     
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    It doesn't really matter, as you are not on the "wrong" web site. :rolleyes:
    Just prepare yourself for prudish responses (and the tired "yuck", "eww", "vomit", and the like) when discussing kink, extramarital relationships, and, actually, most non-vanilla activity.
     
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    ^Very true. It's one very annoying thing about this forum.

    I've never had group sex or a gang bang, but it's something that interests me.
     
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    Very true. You'll notice it's the same gang of usual suspects trying to morally moderate this forum though.
     
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    I don't really care much about having the attention of multiple men or for gang bangs, but I do like DP porn sometimes. It's because I am fascinated with having something vaginally and anally. I am aroused by the idea of the sensations. With my partner we've only tried a finger in the ass coupled with vaginal penetration. I like that tons. One day maybe we'll progress to a regular sized dildo used in conjunction with penetration. I guess there's actually a number of possibilities -- one anime porn I like a lot shows a girl getting fucked in the ass and with a small vibrating egg in her pussy. That seems like a lot of fun! However my partner is so thick that I think building up to anal with him is going to take a long time. He tried once to put the head in and it didn't even come close to fitting. It seemed like I cried for 10 minutes straight, haha.
     
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    When you broadly said, "Your personal values aren't universal truth."

    Sheesh, you're getting defensive...
     
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    And "morally moderating" a forum about sex -- particularly a forum that's focused on big dicks -- seems like a laughably impossible mission. :biggrin1:
     
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    this thread is hilarious. one of my favourites, actually.
     
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    As much as i hate to quote sex and the city, i have to steal her motto. Always try everything at least once. I mean you can't diss something until you try it. or attempt to try it. hahaha
     
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    all it takes for them not to be universal is for mine to differ.
     
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    Bravo, another well thought question has enlightened us all.
    Sigh, don't generalize across the board, not ALL women like GB's.
    What an odd question...

    Next question...
    So what do guys like about being kicked in the nuts?
    Is is that tingling sensation after the pain fades or is it the fact that that's the only way a girl will come into contact with their genitalia? (Joking)

    I don't intend to come off mean or rude, I'm probably irritable from a long day since I just got home. Anyway the one woman out of the bunch that does actually like GB's is probably fascinated with the fantasy of the act, more so than the awkward execution of it.
     
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    dont mean to be a double poster but, it's just some people are stuck in high school and need to tell you what is right and wrong and then everybody jumps on board. and on a website like this, where we are discussing our DEEPEST sexual fantasies, they can't even lay off. they beat around the edges with semantics so that you can't prove them wrong even though they are basically intending that liking a gangbang is wrong because this is 1 big game to them.


    This website is what a 95:5 male to female count? and you're complaining about 1 girl being with 3 guys? please.


    Do you have any idea what it is like to be into cuckold fantasies? you can't go a single cuckold thread without someone saying "HUMILIATION DOESNT BELONG IN SEX". Fuck off, honestly...
     
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