What do women look at first

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  1. MoonRiver

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    What is the first thing women see when looking at a man? Say, for instance in a mall:

    Face, height, weight, hair (or lack of), hair color, clothing, battle of the bulge, walk, muscles?

    I get looks from girls very often (and love it) but can't figure out what it is.

    I thought it was my face. But last night I dressed baggy (with some new clothes), and the glances were near zero.

    I know it varies to some extent; but I believe it to be:

    • Height
    • Body style
    • Face
    • Dress ($)

    Let me (us) know please.

    :wink:
     
  2. Drifterwood

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    There was a science programme on the BBC some years ago that conducted experiments on this using lasers to follow people's eyes.

    Men, looked in the eyes and then traced the whole contour of the body.

    Women looked into the eyes and then straight down to the crotch and back to the eyes.

    I can't possibly comment. :biggrin1:
     
  3. Principessa

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    Assuming the gentleman is facing me the first thing I am apt to notice is his height and face followed by physique or body shape. Unless his attire is inappropriate or garish that will most likely be the last thing I notice.


     
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    My wife says she looks for a flat stomach, clean hair, a smile and large hands-her turn ons--I don't have large hands, so I won out over her preferences.
     
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    Ask a different woman, get a different answer. Nothing is universal.
     
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    1st thing is there general cleanliness then the face/hair
     
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    I sort of take in a quick overall impression then take in his face.
     
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    I look at his eyes first.
     
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    Body shape (height, weight, muscular/lean, etc), face, cleanliness, dress, teeth, smell.
     
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    I'm assuming he is facing me from your post so it would be face. If I see him from behind it would have to be his build (height and shoulders).
     
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    I remember that programme. It was hilarious, as much for the evident, not entirely suppressed titilation of the narrator as the result of the experiment!!
     
  12. Dimples

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    Height
    Eyes
    Smile
    Build
    Weight
    Dress

    That's it for me.
     
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    Shoulders. Say shoulders :wink:
     
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    Shoes.

     
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    And everything in between? :biggrin1:
     
  16. IntoxicatingToxin

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    That's hard for me to say. I find many things sexy in a guy. His swagger, his smile, his eyes, his build... it just depends on what he has that I find sexiest.
     
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    wallet.
     
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    Nice response. LMAO!
     
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    i do a general inventory of is he good looking and if he is then i check to see if it looks like he has anything in his pants...honest answer
     
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    I honestly look at the hair.
     
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