What do women look at first

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What is the first thing women see when looking at a man? Say, for instance in a mall:

Face, height, weight, hair (or lack of), hair color, clothing, battle of the bulge, walk, muscles?

I get looks from girls very often (and love it) but can't figure out what it is.

I thought it was my face. But last night I dressed baggy (with some new clothes), and the glances were near zero.

I know it varies to some extent; but I believe it to be:

• Height
• Body style
• Face
• Dress ($)

Let me (us) know please.

:wink:
Well if the question is what does someone 1st see in someone obviously it is 1 of 3 answers.
 

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i do a general inventory of is he good looking and if he is then i check to see if it looks like he has anything in his pants...honest answer

...then you girls must be pretty quick at checking below, because I usually catch the eye to eye thing. I've rarely seen the crotch glance--and I'm 7+".
 

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There was a science programme on the BBC some years ago that conducted experiments on this using lasers to follow people's eyes.

Men, looked in the eyes and then traced the whole contour of the body.

Women looked into the eyes and then straight down to the crotch and back to the eyes.

I can't possibly comment. :biggrin1:

Yep, that is what I do :eyes, crotch/bulge discretly and eyes. But It was not like that at all "before", but mostly face as eyes and mouth great warm smille as wide shoulders and tight abs all harmonic together, pleasant to my preferences.

Now that I got experience and got to know the pleasures and orgasm quality and great fit a a big penis can make..hehe..sure if the guy has a fat bulge going on makes me butterfly in my tummy with expectation of a great orgasm possibility with him...:tongue:..sure a fat bulge does not promisse a fat penis at all...it may be just balls volume or other..but still its a pleasure to look to a friendly cute hot guy and then see a fat bulge between his legs! wow! :hug::present::heart:

Yeh! eyes, bulge, eyes !

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Ah..and at least to me very sensitive and into my senses a lot.. I have been notice more deep and sure very strong, as i maturing and in my prime as a female, become more sexualy experienced, or whatever, some kind of selective "energy" males spray around..as for sure i do not walk looking for any males but i do sense a few very very strong males bulls even when I'm not looking, I sense their sprayed energy, then I look..but not surprisinly he is looking at me already. Yep, to me we are for sure still animals sending spray scents around, some people will strong catch our essences in their noses and brains and I'm almost sure if we let nature have their course it would be a great sexual match between 2 people. But yeh there are some rules of engagement as how those energies compatible encounters may go.

But sure some males scents are just fantastic and can make me dizzy, freeze, paralize, mix of vulnerable as a pray and energize as a tigress too! Afraid and attracted with strong sexual tensions and vibes between us 2. Oh my..imagine if he has a fat penis to go with his strong scent! :hypnotized:

:blindfold: Those are the ones I enjoy to look best really at and it does not happen often at all.
 

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I thought about this for a minute and I think when I meet a guy if I think he's cute it's usually cuz he acts sorta confident and looks like he's a nice guy. So I think eyes and face are the 1st things I notice.
 

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Thanks all.
BTW: I've started noticing the crotch glance now.
I guess before I thought it was an eye contact avoidance.
Grrrr.

Excuse me, but "hands"...? I don't get that one.

Thanks again!
L
 

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I look at this head (the one on his shoulders) and take in (A) eyes/expression, (b) age, (C) ethnic make up (L.A. is very very diverse), (D) cleanliness and (E) "sparkiness" (does he look "alive", intelligent and humorous, or exhausted, worn out and downtrodden?).

Then I take in the relative "shape" and posture -- shoulder, tummy, hips. Fit men, who are alive and carry themselves well, always beat (a) "handsomeness" and (b) age every time.

Only a young beatnik/skaterdude/starving-student guy -- or a guy with an amazing physique -- can carry off looking slovenly or slouchy.
 

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There was a science programme on the BBC some years ago that conducted experiments on this using lasers to follow people's eyes.

Men, looked in the eyes and then traced the whole contour of the body.

Women looked into the eyes and then straight down to the crotch and back to the eyes.

I can't possibly comment. :biggrin1:

that explains why I am so popular with the ladies : P
I personally LOVE catching a girl glancing at my package
 

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I first take an overall glance, then...
Body language
Shoes - I have no idea why
Hands - love nice, well groomed hands and nails
Facial hair - none, or a well kept goatee
General expression
Build - love a sturdy look
Height - +points for being taller than I am
Stylishness
Bulge
 

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Let's take some things for granted: I tend to like tall, well-dressed men. Beyond that, I love to check out his butt.
 
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Let's take some things for granted: I tend to like tall, well-dressed men. Beyond that, I love to check out his butt.

Damn Linda Sue.....I thought you might like tall-well un..dressed men:tongue::biggrin1:... Very nice pics too linda sue.
 

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I notice a general 'aura" a sense of self confidence and masculinity.

I then scan for

Height
general fitness ( not excessively over or under weight)
clothing
shoes
eyes
....etc

crotch looking only ever comes into it for me if I am out, horny, and looking to pick up. My general daily appreciation of men does not include looking at -their clothed cocks.