what do women look for

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  1. Imported

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    BRMSTN69: simple question, what do women look for in a man?
     
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    BRMSTN69: sorry about the double post, I'm still trying to learn my way around a new PC
     
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    nice topic BRMSTN69 and good reply tender

    i am trying to figure this question out myself lol
     
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    Wow, Tender, I actually agree with that whole post! You said very clearly exaclty what I feel about men and sex. I would probably lean a tad more toward bigger guys, but if he's not good in bed or interested/able to get better, that would be where the rubber meets the road.
     
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    wvalady1968: Yayyyyy for Tender!! Sweetie, you knocked that one outta the ball park.

    [Although I want to state for the record that "physically appealing" to me might not be attractive to many other women. I prefer men who are interesting looking, unique in their own way, to "handsome" men.]
     
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    Only a tad babe? ;)
     
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    BRMSTN69: First, Tender I did leave this post wide open on purpose,I wanted to hear the first thing that popped into your mind, and second I started this thread because I think men(and being one I can say this) are stupid. We look at a woman and think "nice tits or great ass".But women look at a man and think, will he be a good father? Will he be a good provider? Will he be faithful? ect. and physical appeal falls lower down on thier list.

    P.S. I told my mother this theory and she said "are you fucking nuts? The first thing I noticed on your step- father was his eyes and then his ass! "(also I think the reason she got with my real father was because he was a dancer on American bandstand, and she loved to dance) so my thery might be way off the mark.
     
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    Very articulate, Tender. I agree completely.

    There is one thing I would like to add, although not a requirement but a nice benefit... I would love it if he could sing to me.

    I am a romantic as well. :wub:
     
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    wvalady1968:
    Why didn't you explain that? LOL
    The question could have been worded differently.... :rolleyes:

    I agree with your mother. When I look at men, I notice his physical attributes. Sparkling eyes that indicate a sense of humor and intelligence get me right away. A nice smile, good grooming, and after that, whatever body style he has is moot. He's got my interest.
     
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    Yes tender, we are wired so to say to notice ones breasts, or ass. We are still primal in some ways. But for those of us who can look past that, see the woman behind it all, and actually fall for them with our soul and mind.. the body will fall into place, no matter what it is like.

    I will admit, I am a breast conesuer, I can't get enough of them, but I would much rather be with a girl that made me laugh and I oculd talk to, over a stuck up big tit bitch, and no I am not saying all endowed women are bitchs.
     
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    Gee, Duo, just when I thought we had a chance!! lol (bitg tit bitch falls off her throne...)
     
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