What do women mean when they say it hurts so good?

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The best i can explain in my own bedroom is:

When we are working to get him inside, and the stretching is enough to take my breath away and we get him inside just enough to put pressure on my gspot, the pain i was feeling melts into pleasure. Then there is also the experience i have where once we get him inside he cant just pound away- up to the balls so to speak. I have to tell him to thrust slowly and not pull outwards too much until i can take more of his depth. These thrusts can be a little uncomfortable but it doesnt take long until i am grabbing him tight and thrusting my hips all over the place begging for more, harder and faster. And the soreness afterwards isnt something i enjoy! It just means i have to take a day or two off before delving back into it.

Ok, im bedridden, ill as hell and now im horny! Thanks! ;)
 

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The best i can explain in my own bedroom is:

When we are working to get him inside, and the stretching is enough to take my breath away and we get him inside just enough to put pressure on my gspot, the pain i was feeling melts into pleasure. Then there is also the experience i have where once we get him inside he cant just pound away- up to the balls so to speak. I have to tell him to thrust slowly and not pull outwards too much until i can take more of his depth. These thrusts can be a little uncomfortable but it doesnt take long until i am grabbing him tight and thrusting my hips all over the place begging for more, harder and faster. And the soreness afterwards isnt something i enjoy! It just means i have to take a day or two off before delving back into it.

Ok, im bedridden, ill as hell and now im horny! Thanks! ;)

You too huh?:tongue: I've been sick for a few days.:frown1:
 

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About 90% of the women I have been with are in your boat. They like the cervix being hit sometimes - it hurts a little, but most of the time it doesn't. I like to put it in about 75% of the way for the first minute then go all-in nice and slow and , hopefully, bottoming her out. More times than not, it results in an immediate orgasm. :wink:

The other 10% told me "It's too big", "Owww fuck", or "Hurry up and finish!" One told me the next day she couldn't walk up stairs she hurt so much, but she was very very small and I felt really bad because she wanted me to finish so badly but I was taking to long and it was killing her. But I guess that's why we have blowjobs... :tongue:


Do you mean she was short or was caught short?
I don't usually encounter stairs but maybe she could only walk down them :rolleyes:
 

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Sorry but i guess i'm weird but i love the feeling of pain during sex and a cock that is long enough and thick enough gives my pussy an amazing feeling. and it's true the next day when my pussy is still sore it does remind me of the fucking i got the night before, but when i say it hurts soo good i mean just that, that his cock is hurting my tight pussy but i could cum from the pain of his cock. it makes me scream and shake all over and that's even before i'm ready to cum. but as i said i do love sexual pain and i love it deep and hard.
 

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ITA with njqt466.......

It's not something easliy explained......but I thought herekittykitty came close, also.

Thrash me into oblivion where I am no longer able to even think.....I am just lost in the erotic violence of it....
 

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Sorry but i guess i'm weird but i love the feeling of pain during sex and a cock that is long enough and thick enough gives my pussy an amazing feeling. and it's true the next day when my pussy is still sore it does remind me of the fucking i got the night before, but when i say it hurts soo good i mean just that, that his cock is hurting my tight pussy but i could cum from the pain of his cock. it makes me scream and shake all over and that's even before i'm ready to cum. but as i said i do love sexual pain and i love it deep and hard.

That's exactly how my wife has explained it to me. Sometimes she wants a cock that's big enough that it takes her to the limit of what she think she can manage, and then go a little passed that. And then a little more.
 

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Virtually any woman can take the biggest penis, but, feeling it open you up is not only a physical turn-on but a mental one as well. Just knowing you are being stretched like that is arousing. For me, pain is an aphrodidiac and most women like some kind of firmness on their nipples and clit, from the intense to the mild, but for most, a bit of discomort is exciting.
 
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To me, a little bit of pain just feels good...exactly like it says: hurts so good. The pressure/push against my cervix, biting, pinching nipples, spanking...that all feels good when done lightly. It's exciting and puts the pleasure into overdrive. But for me, a lot of pain is not good at all. Then I can't concentrate on what's good.

I also like that sore feeling the next day to remind me of the night before.
 

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Virtually any woman can take the biggest penis, but, feeling it open you up is not only a physical turn-on but a mental one as well. Just knowing you are being stretched like that is arousing. For me, pain is an aphrodisiac and most women like some kind of firmness on their nipples and clit, from the intense to the mild, but for most, a bit of discomfort is exciting.

If only my wife felt the same way, then it would be "problem solved".
 

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Yeah but anal is different to vaginal sex. I was thinking that maybe what women might mean is that when a cock is big enough to make you sore, it's also causing intense stimulation and therefore immense pleasure aswel. A cock being able to rub a woman sore means that it's big enough to cause maximum sexual stimulation. I'm not sure about feeling sore afterwards though.
Hi, I'm the lucky partner of Mike, we have been together 6yrs now and taking his monster can sill be able challenge, sex is extremely painful but you're right in saying the bigger the cock the more it can pleasure, before I met Mike the biggest cock I had taken was 8" and I thought that was big! How wrong I was, where he enters I can feel all my guts and organs being moved about and the shearing pain is sometimes so great I pass out but the pleasure and extraordinary earth moving orgasam are something else!
 
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I already answered in this thread once, but I can't help but wonder what is so difficult to understand about something feeling pleasurable and painful at the same time.

I think some people think you can't have pain and pleasure at the same time

I bet others wonder why anyone would like that rather than just having all pleasure and no pain.

I'm throwing a dart into the dark but perhaps some people find the pain to be pleasurable.
 
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