Hi ladies, I'd like your opinion on what you think is the best thing to do if you've had some great foreplay and the sex is just hitting full intensity when your guy has to cum. My question is because two weeks ago I had the first major PE experience of my life. I'm 24 and have had two long-term relationships, always had good control and most nights would hold to the end, sometimes I'd do an encore. But both of those girls were overweight, as was I, and it was pretty simple sex -- after the last breakup I decided to get in shape and try for a girl that was more attractive, and two weeks ago was the big night with the first "hot chick" I've had -- I actually held off ejaculating for several days, had visions of an epic all-night performance. She liked my size during foreplay -- seemed to give oral for the challenge of it. Then on went the condom, and once I was all the way in and giving it to her, the approval from her was pretty awesome to hear -- too awesome, I started feeling it creeping up on me but figured I could hold it, then I felt I might be cumming anyway. I pulled out and, not sure of how badly I'd blown it, told her I thought there was a problem with the condom, went to the bathroom, found I'd shot quite a bit. I've been off the philosophy to never brag or apologize during sex, just do my best, so I said nothing, put on a new condom, since I was still pretty hard. I went back out and tried to keep going, but slipped out of the condom. Long story short, she thought I wasn't feeling enough, suggested we go without the condom for a while, I didn't want to, she tried more oral, got me semi-hard. Back in with the condom, had trouble for quite a while, finally got hard again and she came real fast (definitely not fake), then she didn't offer to get me off, hinted I should leave. No answer to my call the week after. Like I said, I wasn't trying to lie, just not make excuses and thought I should try continuing -- obviously not the best move in hindsight.