What do women think bout a straight guy having sucked a dick?

[ONMYFACE84]

well im a man who is in the closet aswell ive been with men but im not attracted to them i lol ove women. I have a secret desire tho, i dont want to suck a dick i just want one to shoot there load on my face. is that disgusting or would women eccept the idea. i also would not mind it if i could watch a couple have sex and after they were done eat the boyfriends load from her pussy.Do yall find this gross or is this a normal for a guy towant

 

[693987]

well im a man who is in the closet aswell ive been with men but im not attracted to them i lol ove women. I have a secret desire tho, i dont want to suck a dick i just want one to shoot there load on my face. is that disgusting or would women eccept the idea. i also would not mind it if i could watch a couple have sex and after they were done eat the boyfriends load from her pussy.Do yall find this gross or is this a normal for a guy towant

It's not anymore disgusting than a facial always is or isn't. Normal is (mostly) what you make of it. I'm monogamous, so only one person gets to do intimate things with me. Even when I wasn't monogamous, the scenario you describe isn't my personal cup of tea/appealing. I'm just one individual though. I'm sure there are women out there who would be into that. It's just finding one who is.

Edited to add: it's also my personal opinion as an individual that a man who repeatedly enjoys/seeks out sexual acts with another man isn't heterosexual. I wouldn't be okay with someone being closeted as a potential partner at this point in my life. Be open and up front about shit or (in my case), go elsewhere.

 

[AlteredEgo]

None of this is for me. I wouldn't be the least interested in a man once I found out he was or ever had been that curious, confused, or some other orientation other than exclusively attracted to adult biological females. Him sucking a dick, jerking a guy off, enjoying another man's semen, etc., at any point past, present, or future is 100% a deal-breaker for me. Understand that we all bring our past with us to a certain extent when we enter partnerships. My past means I'm not going to be able to overlook, nor accept that. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it, nor that other women wouldn't feel differently. It's not for me though.

 

[deleted924715]

Not for me either.

Obviously, I am talking about voluntary scenarios. I'm not getting into the bigger societal issues people are debating in this thread because I am answering for myself purely based on my own sexual attraction and nobody gets to cry that it's unfair or debate, or dictate what I feel and I don't need to justify it. It's a deal breaker, any sexual desire I had would die. I am not attracted to men attracted to dick. End of story. It's nothing to to do with being open minded, it's a visceral reaction. It doesn't make me sick, but it doesn't get me hot. There are other sexual practices that would completely turn me off a man too, not just sucking dick.

I don't care if that offends people, it's nobody else's call and I won't be held accountable because there are men that find the idea of a woman having been with other women attractive. So what? How does that affect how I feel? Would I assume he was gay? No. Would I think he was any less of a good person than I did before? No. Would I berate him? No. Would I still find him handsome? Yes. Would I still find him manly? Yes. Would I still be sexually attracted to him? No. Have I had sexual fantasies about other women? Yes. Have I acted on them? No. Sexual attraction is a complicated thing (for me), there are literally millions of men who have never sucked a dick that I wouldn't find sexually attractive either.

I know a woman who is incredibly slim now after losing 8st. The amount of times she has been dumped when new boyfriends found out she used to be incredibly overweight is unreal. But they don't like big women, that is their sexual preference, she's not fat now but it doesn't matter. I know big women who joined fetish sites for the sole reason they know they won't appeal to everyone.

There are women who are *really* into this. For them, it's a bonus. Just not me.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

If my guy told me he had sucked a dick in his life I'd be like, "was the guy as hot as you?"

I don't question him when he told me that he's never been with a guy, and never had the slightest desire to do so.. but if he had told me a different story I'd still feel the way I do about him... As long as he told it with the same level of confidence and without any insecurity about it.

I don't get turned on by the thought of him with another man, but I don't get upset about it either. I don't generally find man on man sex arousing, but that doesn't mean never

 

[sodominsane]

i have known a ton of women who find this hot.....at least i did....but i think access to tons of porn on demand can temper the novelty of watching man on man

just like in my college days....seemed women were way more interested is seeing a dick...in fact my female friends have asked for me to check out fellow athlete in locker room for report...

but with most women receiving about 20 did picks a day in social media....and receiving a Weiner shot from just about any prospective partner.....its defiantly gone to the....."sigh....how original ....a disembodied penis picture"

now something i have trouble wrapping my brain around on a ton of fronts....

1.100 percent straight guys claiming to like to suck a dick....is the straight label so important to you....why care....love and enjoy life

2.while generally not attracted to men....i think the genitals is probably the ugliest part if a mans body.

3. Are there any reverse of that...any women who say....i am not interested in rest of the woman....but a wet juicy pussy...yum?

 

[nailz]

I'm still stuck on the oxymoron title
Do whatever makes you happy, but how can you call yourself straight if you're a man who gives blowjobs to other men?

Why do gay/bi guys try to hang on so desperately to the straight title? It's 2018, nobody cares anymore if you come out as bi or gay.

 

[sodominsane]

I'm still stuck on the oxymoron title
Do whatever makes you happy, but how can you call yourself straight if you're a man who gives blowjobs to other men?

Why do gay/bi guys try to hang on so desperately to the straight title? It's 2018, nobody cares anymore if you come out as bi or gay.

i tend to disagree

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I'm still stuck on the oxymoron title
Do whatever makes you happy, but how can you call yourself straight if you're a man who gives blowjobs to other men?

Why do gay/bi guys try to hang on so desperately to the straight title? It's 2018, nobody cares anymore if you come out as bi or gay.

While it seems like it's not a big deal to most people anymore, it really is still a hot button issue for some fucked up reason. Some parts of the world it's still illegal to come out as gay. Some parts of the USA still have the right to fire you for being gay.

It's not Not a big deal everywhere.

ETA: I do think that things are changing, and that more people need to come out for the sake of supporting their own rights, I understand why some people wait/don't. Double edged sword like a mother fucker.

 

[Auggiecakes]

I would love to see a guy suck cock, im just not sure how i would feel if it was a boyfriend. I think i would be ok with it but i would also have that insecurity that he could possibly turn 100% gay.

Or cheat.

 

[sodominsane]

While it seems like it's not a big deal to most people anymore, it really is still a hot button issue for some fucked up reason. Some parts of the world it's still illegal to come out as gay. Some parts of the USA still have the right to fire you for being gay.

It's not Not a big deal everywhere.

ETA: I do think that things are changing, and that more people need to come out for the sake of supporting their own rights, I understand why some people wait/don't. Double edged sword like a mother fucker.

again i tend to disagree

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

again i tend to disagree

Hmm....

 

[693987]

Hmm....

Not adding anything to the thread/discussion, is he?

I disagree with his disagreement...

 

[sodominsane]

Not adding anything to the thread/discussion, is he?

I disagree with his disagreement...

you know me i never add to the discussion

 

[sodominsane]

a clarification on my disagreement

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

you know me i never add to the discussion

Oh, yeah ya do... Don't be so humble.

 

[sodominsane]

while i tend to think the obsession over labels is redicilas.....and while i agree it is more acceptable in current society to express who who are ....

tnj said its no big deal....and nails said no one cares....

both these statements are very untrue....tnj and nails. might not care....but lots of people care...

in this thread...of the handful of women who responded 4 have ether said directly or implied that it would be quite a turnoff....and bar that person from being on their attraction template

so if a bi guy wanted to review to his girl he was bi....well ....the odds are not great she would still find him an option as a partner

and this is a sex positive site!!!!

so in previous thread i have stated be who you are....however after reading thread and thinking about it....i can understand how remaining closet bi may be a viable option

it's self protection....and the practice of convincing yourself your "straight"even though you like to suck a fat cock or take a load of juz in the face.....well that's mental self preservation

in closing we have come a long way in acceptance of others.....and i love all of you guys who are accepting...race sex orientation religion and age

but we really have a long way to go

 

[deleted924715]

I think some people are confusing acceptance and sexual attraction. My sexual attraction cannot be extrapolated, a lot of my turn ons and turn offs cannot be explained, they just are. Societal acceptance towards sexual orientation is an issue, but it's a different animal. In a similar way as, for example, "BBW". Not finding someone sexually attractive does not mean you don't accept them.

 

[693987]

I think some people are confusing acceptance and sexual attraction. My sexual attraction cannot be extrapolated, a lot of my turn ons and turn offs cannot be explained, they just are. Societal acceptance towards sexual orientation is an issue, but it's a different animal. In a similar way as, for example, "BBW". Not finding someone sexually attractive does not mean you don't accept them.

I've had a bad prior experience with a partner because they were closeted. If they had been up front and honest from the beginning, no issues would have arisen. We could have spoken even more openly than I already did (including my asking multiple times if he wanted to remain monogamous). And for people who opt to exclusively have a relationship with someone of a particular orientation, there wouldn't be an "oh I might lose my boyfriend/girlfriend/whatever for coming out". If people were honest from the beginning, they could then be with someone who would have no issues, dislikes, whatever about it. It might even end up being the person's thing. I have known a fair few women who like gay porn or m/m/f porn...

If my partner and I ever split, I wouldn't want to deal with another fucking closet case like that one earlier boyfriend I had. If another person and I went on dates and they told me they were bi/pan/queer/whatever, I would be fine with it. If someone wants me to be monogamous, that's across all orientations, genders, etc. I don't expect every relationship to be monogamous, either. I've had poly, triad, and open relationships. I've had lesbians say they wouldn't be with a bit/pan/queer/etc woman, so I moved the fuck along and chose partners who were fine with or embraced it.

I'm accepting as fuck. If someone for various reasons remains closeted, that's on them. It doesn't mean I have to have a relationship with someone who is, though. It doesn't mean that someone would be a bad person if they weren't okay with a relationship with a man who is anything other than the orientation where they're the only gender the man finds appealing.

 

[sodominsane]

i am not confusing acceptance with attraction....if that was even aimed at me....

however i am being to understand reasons people may keep portions of their orientations secret from others.....

people still do....care....and it can totally have potential to affect your relationships