What do women want in Los Angeles?

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You're right. i should have been more specific in my defense of myself. To assume that all women are sinister when several are attacking me was wrong. i'm sorry. Is "sorry" a word these women are familiar with? maybe they should look it up. i get the feeling that most people are used to blaming and pointing the finger at men, rather than taking ownership and responsibility.

You are being criticized. Not "men."

There are lots of wonderful sexy intelligent men here who do not deserve to be lumped into a group with you.
 
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You're right. i should have been more specific in my defense of myself. To assume that all women are sinister when several are attacking me was wrong. i'm sorry. Is "sorry" a word these women are familiar with? maybe they should look it up. i get the feeling that most people are used to blaming and pointing the finger at men, rather than taking ownership and responsibility.

Too fucking ironic.

Your passive aggressive responses are nauseating. You made a highly insulting self-serving post in the Women's Issues forum. YOU take ownership and responsibility. FFS.
 

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if you can get women to dislike you this efficiently, that might be a clue as to why you're not getting what you want.

and it's not because you're a man. i like lots of men! no, it's because you're quite unlikeable.

women in LA want... a likeable man!

consider your question answered.
 

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if you can get women to dislike you this efficiently, that might be a clue as to why you're not getting what you want.

and it's not because you're a man. i like lots of men! no, it's because you're quite unlikeable.

women in LA want... a likeable man!

consider your question answered.

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Well, please enjoy the feeding frenzy. Ladies, you can say all you want, but if you look at the thread objectively, not one person, except Fade has offered anything remotely objective or helpful. All the female responses have been pejorative, character assassinations.

I now understand and am resigned to the fact that logic and objectivity are not welcomed here. Thank you.
 

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if you can get women to dislike you this efficiently, that might be a clue as to why you're not getting what you want.

and it's not because you're a man. i like lots of men! no, it's because you're quite unlikeable.

women in LA want... a likeable man!

consider your question answered.

This is hilarious. Thank you so much. I did not look at the funnies today in the LA times, this discourse gave me the belly laugh I needed. Thank you so much! :)
 

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Ah, the entitlement argument now. Ladies, don't you know that we're required to help him? And if we don't because we think he's a jerk, we're not doing our jobs? Hop to it! Help him already! So what if he hasn't made us want to help him! That's what we're here for, right?

I wonder if he uses this same technique to try to get women into bed?
 

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if you can get women to dislike you this efficiently, that might be a clue as to why you're not getting what you want.

and it's not because you're a man. i like lots of men! no, it's because you're quite unlikeable.

women in LA want... a likeable man!

consider your question answered.

:lmao: This.
 

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Women can want any number of things. You just have to find the woman who wants the same thing you do and be willing to do what ever it takes to get it/earn it/pay for it. Whatever. But those attractive, big boobed, sex only types get the pick of the litter. She has every right to choose a man who has a better car out of all the jerks that approach her. Usually she is looking for one who will treat her well. So given she has so many potential suitors (being attractive, fit and big breasted) it's pretty easy to start weeding down the candidates by putting more and more criterion to be met. In this case, you aren't the nicest fella so you lose right there. Then you might not be her type at all physically even if you are nice. Then you might not exhibit living the life that she wants a sex partner of hers to be living. And it's easy to see why some might want you to have more money in order to weed down the list of an individual who has most traits of her preference.

Remember- a woman who is rare and sought after in a man's world is going to have more reason to require the man she pairs with to have more than the average man. The less average she is on that super attractive side of the Bell Curve, the more you have to be less average and stand out on your side of the deal. So stand out. Be different. Stand out amongst your competitors. Find out what personas/physical traits ARE her standards.

And I gave you this practical advice not entirely to help you because I had no real motivation to do that. But I wanted to give advice to people in general that mutual attraction kind of works like this. You find people who are in your league if you want the biggest chance of success.

If you want an extraordinary person, you must therefor be extraordinary also. Unless her standards are low, then you sir have a chance because you don't need to try very hard.

If her standards are high, you guessed it! You are going to have to show how you stand out amongst your competitors. Find out what your competitors look like and that will tell you more than you ever wanted to know about how she is sizing you up.

But then again if you meet all of her criteria to have sex with you without getting paid for it, then expect her to possibly want to get more serious than NSA or FWB. Because once you find someone who meets all criteria, then you might just want more than sex. So if you want a woman who looks exactly like you want and fucks you regardless of what you look like and what you bring in annually. Then call an escort. Last I knew they didn't care what kind of car you drove and you can find one that looks exactly like how you want and everytime you meet up you can fuck and she won't grow tired of that arrangement because you are paying her to not look at you too closely but always be available to fuck you.

So put something into it. Throw your mind, body and wallet at the problem if that's what it takes to get what you are looking for and stop complaining to us because you are the type that needs that sort of companionship. You are one of the types that helps pay an escort's bills. So if she's going to do you a favor by looking past your short-comings, do her a favor by considering paying for her services rather than to expect those types of services by a woman who doesn't do sex work.

This "fucking only" type relationship is no different than any other type of thing that wants to generate interest, such as a business. Consider yourself a company who needs to advertise with some truth in order to get loyal customers. If the truth is so unappealing that your potential customers aren't interested, then you need to recalibrate what kind of product you are selling or you are advertising the product in a way that it seems unappealing. The next step is finding out who else is selling the same kind of product to your potential customers and out shine them. You might look like one of those TV attorneys that look ridiculous on those commercials for all we know.
 
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OG salad dressing is the bomb.
they is a bit stingy with the lil peppers.

OMG I love their house dressing. I love that I can buy it by the bottle and experience that awesomeness at home without having bad wait service. Tangy is the key to an awesome salad dressing in my opinion. So far I've not found one that meets that standard that beats OG. Mouth watering, gleeky goodness going on right now.
 

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sigh... do i have to ask...?

what did you do?

Okay, despite you being a pretty big douche generally here I'll give you one shot at a serious answer.

I mean, you ask what to do but it strikes me that you may not be able to pull it off yet. You're cruising around hoping for a fuckbuddy but you don't understand what a fuckbuddy even is it seems like.

Your fuckbuddy isn't your girlfriend. You don't pick them up like you're dating them. In my experience, you become friends with them first, then you both decide you want to fuck each other from time to time. It's pretty straightforward--you hang out a bit just like friends do, and then you end up alone together one night sipping martinis and you go, "Hey, you ever think about having a fuckbuddy?" If they're into it, they'll let you know.

And I think I can see why that's hard for you. Based on what you've said in this thread, you don't seem to respect women generally enough to actually become friends with one. You can get one in the sack and start up a relationship by playing the bf role, but you drop them when they start getting too serious.

You want a fuckbuddy, learn to be a buddy first. Hang out with some women you think are cool and sexy. Be their buddy. If they don't want to fuck you themselves, a lot of times if they like you, they'll try to hook you up--as long as you're clear about what you're looking for.

Now, if you don't even know where to find women to befriend, that's a whole different question. I would not bother with online dating/hook up sites, that's for damn sure.
 

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Okay, despite you being a pretty big douche generally here I'll give you one shot at a serious answer.

I mean, you ask what to do but it strikes me that you may not be able to pull it off yet. You're cruising around hoping for a fuckbuddy but you don't understand what a fuckbuddy even is it seems like.

Your fuckbuddy isn't your girlfriend. You don't pick them up like you're dating them. In my experience, you become friends with them first, then you both decide you want to fuck each other from time to time. It's pretty straightforward--you hang out a bit just like friends do, and then you end up alone together one night sipping martinis and you go, "Hey, you ever think about having a fuckbuddy?" If they're into it, they'll let you know.

And I think I can see why that's hard for you. Based on what you've said in this thread, you don't seem to respect women generally enough to actually become friends with one. You can get one in the sack and start up a relationship by playing the bf role, but you drop them when they start getting too serious.

You want a fuckbuddy, learn to be a buddy first. Hang out with some women you think are cool and sexy. Be their buddy. If they don't want to fuck you themselves, a lot of times if they like you, they'll try to hook you up--as long as you're clear about what you're looking for.

Now, if you don't even know where to find women to befriend, that's a whole different question. I would not bother with online dating/hook up sites, that's for damn sure.

Fuck, i need to delete my response. This is far better. And i enjoyed reading it so much in order to help me find some fuck buddies too. I assume it can apply both ways right?
 

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OMG I love their house dressing. I love that I can buy it by the bottle and experience that awesomeness at home without having bad wait service. Tangy is the key to an awesome salad dressing in my opinion. So far I've not found one that meets that standard that beats OG. Mouth watering, gleeky goodness going on right now.

Have you seen all that they put in their dressing??? Wow!
 

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Ah, the entitlement argument now. Ladies, don't you know that we're required to help him? And if we don't because we think he's a jerk, we're not doing our jobs? Hop to it! Help him already! So what if he hasn't made us want to help him! That's what we're here for, right?

I wonder if he uses this same technique to try to get women into bed?

You can be sure he does

"C'mon baby! I have needs. You're my girlfriend, its your job!"